How to get my friend to stop adding my boyfriend on social media?

[Anonymous]

My really close friend keeps trying to add my boyfriend on social media i have his password my boyfriend has deleted her request about 3 times already and she still doesn't get it. How do i tell her to back off without being a bitch or sounding insecure?

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+1 y

Updaaate, i i dont want him having my friend because he doesn't want her on there. If he's had to delete her request 3 times of course itll bother me

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+1 y

BECAuse she hasn't gotten the message even after him deleting her requests

[Nurse4Life]

Obviously this is upsetting to u if you already know of 3 different times he has deleted her request! I myself would just be straight with her bc if she's indeed your friend she needs to know that her desire to be friends with ur guy is not ok with you and chances are, she will understand! But if u don't feel u can be honest and up front with her then just have him out right "block her" on it so she will be unable to send him future requests

[kevinsamduck]

Is she hitting on him or is she just trying to add him? If she is just trying to add him maybe she's trying to be a good friend to you and I see no harm in it. I don't think anyone should close a relationship off that much.

[Bisonblue1]

Why do you not want them to be friends on social media? That's hella weird on your part... I'm friends with my friends boyfriend and vis versa... I see no problem. Stop overreacting

[Izumiblu]

Why do you need to get her to back off? Doesn't sound like a big deal to me.

[laxtalk]

Just say it, because if friend doesn't respect your polite request (even if friend gets defensive), not a good friend anyway. Mature friends are good friends!

[Keith469]

Homicide would accomplish that, but what kind of friend would that make you?

[BaddieBunny12]

You sound a little insecure in your relationship.. if she's your friend and you trust your boyfriend it wouldn't be a big deal. But it's obvious you don't trust him.. that's a problem in your relationship not the girl who's trying to add him

[CyrusZ-9]

I don't understand why your friend and your boyfriend can't be Facebook friends. I have friends on FB who were project partners in high school, it's nothing.

[ciitruskiwi]

What's the big deal? My friends added my boyfriend on facebook (the only social media he has) and it's whatever. I'm glad my friends and my boyfriend get along.

[btbc92]

Why are you still friends with such a person? She has no respect for the relationship and it's clear that she is attracted to your boyfriend. Cut her off. She is crossing the line.

[Dude55]

Why is it a problem they're friends on social media?

[Chanel1981]

Why is this upsetting, you dont want them to be friendly?

[QueenofCups]

Why do you care so much? Not being sarcastic, genuinely curious.

[Mayank0458]

Are u insecure about your boyfriend? Or Your friend

[Browneye57]

Social media isn't relevant to anything, has no value. A playground of narcissist. Ignore this bullshit.

[andrewprater]

Teller her whats dont be scare sometimes u gotta be straight up sometimes u gotta let them know where u stand

[Anonymous]

So you don't want your boyfriend to be a real part of your life? Like friend of your friends etc?

[Pink2000]

Damn is she trying to talk to him. That's kinda suspicious. You should just tell her to stop.

[NICKELMAN]

This would really turn me off if I was your boyfriend.

[NICKELMAN]

Obviously I'm not Jim.

[NICKELMAN]

*him

[ltraynor]

Instead of declining let it sit there. She'll get the message

[sodababe]

Wait but why can't your friend follow your bf?

[COCOCHANEL]

block her on his account

[Nandor]

Why does it matter if you sound like a bitch

[Lumberman53]

Tell her to stop adding him

[Waited]

Block her

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she really needs to nail this guy.