Dated my ex girlfriend for 3 years. She ended it 2.5 months ago after I got complacent, lazy, and overall took her for granted. I put myself first and did things I wanted to do.
I begged and pleaded for a week after she broke up with me and after that went 1 month strict NC. I go to college and am in my senior year.
Before I left I get a text from her apologizing for not letting me speak after the breakup and telling me to make the most of my year. I relieved her guilt telling her I had no ill feelings.
2 weeks later she texts me telling me she misses me so much and feels she did not make the right choice because she now realizes how much she misses me. She tells me she still cares a lot. I ask for time and we call each other 3 days later. This conversation starts off natural, but she breaks down and expresses everything I failed to do and how much she was hurt. We cried and I apologized for everything letting her know I've been working on myself.
A few days after, I reach out through text and we chit chat for about an hour until she doesn't reply. Two days after that she reaches out to me by text and we have a upbeat conversation with emojis and laughs. She shows me her new hair in a picture and I complement it. She says "thank you, I love it!" And I say "you're welcome :)"
It's two days since then and we haven't contacted one another. I'm stuck. I want her back. I don't know what she wants. In the phone call she says she is just going to go with the flow and the morning after she re added me on Snapchat. What can I do from heat to get the love of my life back?
I begged and pleaded for a week after she broke up with me and after that went 1 month strict NC. I go to college and am in my senior year.
Before I left I get a text from her apologizing for not letting me speak after the breakup and telling me to make the most of my year. I relieved her guilt telling her I had no ill feelings.
2 weeks later she texts me telling me she misses me so much and feels she did not make the right choice because she now realizes how much she misses me. She tells me she still cares a lot. I ask for time and we call each other 3 days later. This conversation starts off natural, but she breaks down and expresses everything I failed to do and how much she was hurt. We cried and I apologized for everything letting her know I've been working on myself.
A few days after, I reach out through text and we chit chat for about an hour until she doesn't reply. Two days after that she reaches out to me by text and we have a upbeat conversation with emojis and laughs. She shows me her new hair in a picture and I complement it. She says "thank you, I love it!" And I say "you're welcome :)"
It's two days since then and we haven't contacted one another. I'm stuck. I want her back. I don't know what she wants. In the phone call she says she is just going to go with the flow and the morning after she re added me on Snapchat. What can I do from heat to get the love of my life back?
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