Ok, so this is something on my mind for a while. What exactly is a crazy woman? Because it seems everyone just throws that word around. That or she's "on her period". Actual mentally ill women are different from "crazy" that is used in the colloquial sense.
So GaG, what exactly is a crazy woman to you? What are her behaviors? What are her characteristics? Misogynists, red pillers, MRAs. MGTOWs, this is your time to shine lol What are your obeservations? (Obviously, you dont have to be a misogynist, red piller, MRA, MGTOW, etc to think a woman is crazy, so please take a fucking joke you damn sensitive dudes who ironically call everyone else butthurt offended snowflakes. Geez)
I feel like men throw the word "crazy" around much like they do when they call a woman a "slut" or "thot" simply because she turned them down, or because she leads a sex life that they aren't a part of. Men often call a woman crazy simply because they don't understand her reasoning and won't put in the time to actually listen.
If, however, they DO listen and and she is still acting irrational, then she might be "crazy". Keep in mind that this is not gender specific behaviour, (examples are a woman who refuses to let her significant other have female friends, and as we all know, insecure men regularly do the same thing to their girlfriends). If you don't trust your partner enough to allow them to have friends of all types, then perhaps you really are crazy for staying with them! Another example of someone who is truly crazy is if after a breakup that was executed politely and respectfully, she turns around and keys his car or abducts his cat or something (Real life examples here).
A woman with severe mood swings, a suuuper jealous woman (a woman that hates every female that says "hi" to her bf), a woman who says/does things and then plays fool or simply doesn't remember ("when did I say that?" "I've never done that!")... and so on.
ahh I would say, "crazy woman" can just be shortened to, "crazy" because it works the same for guys too. to me, crazy, is someone who displays qualitys like the stronger side of possessiveness, insecuritys, and issues. that includes trust, loyalty, and standards. they would behave, like a child, wanting the world from someone and do nothing in return, and would make a tantrum if they didn't get their way. characterisics include, the girlfriend that would physically abuse you if you do something wrong, the girl that would start all the drama, or the girl that would complain about not having a boyfriend but would hate it if some guy was to talk to her then talk to another girl. ahh the guys who do this too dont get as far as talking to girls, because no girl would go up to this type of guy in the first place
(1) Women that cling too fast - getting VERY common at my age. (2) Women that try to use sex as a tool for getting what they want (seen it a few times now) (3) Narcissists (pretty common in my line of work: research science/healthcare) (4) Girls who post endlessly on social media about the stupidest shit and check their phones every 30 seconds to count the likes... it's literally like quantifying popularity... omg no thanks...
Yep. Narcissism is VERY common in healthcare. The high end jobs require an MD (for clinical work) or PhD (for research work) both of which tend to attract people (men in particular) who hold narcissistic traits. As a matter of fact, 1 in 4 surgeons are as narcissistic as inmates in prison based on NPI scores (I think they're called NPI scores? Not a psychologist).
Even myself... I found myself looking down on nurses and MLAs when I spent some time at the hospital doing my clinical research [something I really want to get out of should I work in a hospital again in the future] simply because I held more accomplishments than them. It's super unhealthy considering that nurses and MLAs, etc., make up the backbone of the clinical environment.
Also nursing tends to attract troubled women who are prone to catfighting, backstabbing, promiscuity, etc. It's called horizontal violence. Just ask any female nurse what it's like working with other female nurses...
I mean crazy is very broad. It's just one of those things you know when you see. If you asked me to conjure up the most stereotypical crazy woman imaginable... hmmm... She's white, in her mid to late 20s, she's overweight and has short hair which she dyes some outlandish color. She has piercings, tons of them. Wears odd color clothes and make up. She does not shave. She is childless, single, and has lots of cats. She deeply resents her parents, men, whites, religious people, and basically any group perceived to be authority figures or status quo. She masks all of this behind a thin visage of education provided by the college degree she bought (thereby getting herself into debt). She's obnoxious, teetering on violent, combative, has poor hygiene. Mind you, that's like a mega toxic woman. A toximus-prime, if you will. Crazy is one of those intangible things just on the grounds that there are so many ways to describe it, like calling someone a loser.
I would call a woman crazy if her behaviour is not consistent. You can be shy, or spontaneous. You can be serious, or or full of humour. You can be giggling, or talkative. All those things would not make you crazy. But if you constantly change from one to the other, and go as far as doing really bizarre things, I'd call you crazy. Call it a combination of unpredictable and a little foolish...
No, that last example is not what I'd call crazy - just the jealous or overly worried type :o I'd also be careful with the word crazy if it's a known illness. Just to avoid hurting someone who can't help it. But in general terms we agree, for sure :D
There are as many types of crazy women as there are insecs-and they discover new species every day. (I live and date in Los Angeles so there is a surplus of crazy women here). Traits often include, but are not limited to, narcissism, obsession, quick attachment, hyper-sexuality (at first), CATS (crazy ladies ALWAYS are into the cats-especially if they have more than one RUN AWAY!!), manipulation techniques, especially using sex, attention seeking behaviors, hugely expensive tastes and demands, jealousy, attempts to make you jealous, hyper-insecurity, hyper-intensity-exciting at first but it never relaxes or wanes
I was in a relationship with a crazy woman once and it was not fun.. She was jealous over everything and incredibly vindictive. I was actually scared in that relationship. She would throw or break things when she was upset and it just freaked me right the hell out. She would storm out on a whim in the middle of the night randomly and god it was a nightmare.
That was a crazy woman. I felt tense and fear whenever we were together.
Hooked up with a girl once. I did not fully grasp her definition of liking it "rough". She practically wanted me to beat the shit out of her to the point she'd have a black eye and bloody nose. Long story short I orgasmed to some porn that night at my house alone...
I consider rough like just humping really aggressively and maybe pinning them down maybe a few slaps on the ass. Punching them in the face is beyond rough for me. That's just flat out crazy.
There are certainly crazy people, it's not limited to one gender or the other. They act in a way that makes no sense when taken along with their actions. Or when someone suddenly goes off emotionally with seemingly no provocation whether it be violently or dramatically.
hmm actually some of the traits I just mentioned are more indicators of a "toxic" personality but a lot of crazy people have those traits
I would say vindictive and emotionally unstable are the biggest sign of crazy. It's the type where you have to walk on egg shells with someone. The ones that take things personal when you joke around, and if you unslight them in anyway or do something like break up with them.. They will be very vindictive. Like destroy property, make you jealous, have a lot of content and use abusive/degrading language to you often that are totally not deserved
Hyperactive theory of mind. When you decide you know what I'm thinking then you're crazy. Don't presume to know my mind or the intent of my actions better than me, that's just basic.
Everyone is crazy. A "crazy woman" though in that context is all of them. All women are insecure, all women desire to control their partners while simultaneously wanting him to be in control, all women shit test men, all women are hypergamous, etc. It's simply nature.
Lol no problem. It's not just women I view negatively though. Men are just as bad. We're notorious for being borderline sociopaths by using women just for sex and lying to them to get to that point. I think men and women alike are naturally/instinctively selfish.
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