I can't stop looking at butts in public... How bad does it make women feel when they catch a guy staring?

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It's not like I can help always. I try really really hard not to look in the direction of women when I'm walking down the street or walking through campus, but every now and again when I'm not paying attention my head will drift to look at a butt. Is it weird to make eye contact with a girl I'm walking by, or like wave at her ( I do this sometimes just so they don't think I'm trying to ignore them or creep them out). Like, most of the comments on here are "he's staring at me" so obviously there is something to it. Is it okay to briefly look at a girls butt? I mean it's like the elephant in the room to me, I feel like sometimes if I don't look then I'm just being rude lol. That sounds ridiculous, yeah butt seriously. How should I act when a women with a good butt is walking past me making eye contact or not. Can I check them out? Is it that weird? HOW DO I PERSON?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ye i mean if you're staring for a looooooooooong time and it's super obvious, that'll probs make a girl uncomfortable. But if it's brief or whatever, meh I don't care. It's a form of a compliment

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'd be flattered if a guy thought my butt was good enough to notice! Try not to stare though, that might be a bit creepy... Also "Yeah butt seriously" was this pun intended? It made me laugh.

meggo87 · Accepted Answer

We like getting checked out! (Even when we say we don't) I wouldn't worry too much about it! Women look at men's bodies too

LoveBirb · Accepted Answer

in my opinion, an appreciative glance is fine, but long stares, you shouod expect to get some negative attention for that.

LegateLanius · Accepted Answer

as long as you are not oogling their ass, they probably don't mind

HappyWheels · Accepted Answer

That'll be considered rape soon enough. Shame.

MayBlythe · Answer

I personally don't care if anyone stares at my ass or even titsI take that as a compliment its when they act on that which makes me uncomfortable

BleepRawrsaurus_Rex · Answer

Weirdo... I bet you’re one of those creepy dudes who looks like this while staring at girls

CMC93 · Answer

If someone waved after looking at my ass It would be a little weird.

-Beonkia · Answer

I feel like old guys are always staring at my ass so I wear long shirts

HellfireNholywater · Answer

The rule is that you must sing sir mix a lot while staring. As long as you do that you're A okay

aohsm · Answer

Just look, its not illegal yet... Also, they like to checked out, if recommend to follow up with a smile and a wink if they meet your gaze. Gl!

Siri137 · Answer

I have the very same "problem", LOL :D I've actually been caught a few times by the person whose butt I was staring at, and not once were they ever upset, angry, offended, whatever, but flattered.

greyfilmz · Answer

to be hoenst I like it but if it was my boyfriend of course I wouldn't but if I were single I wouldn't mind at all, its natural

_caaaaaaam · Answer

I like big butts and I cannot lie. You others girls can’t deny.

pierrot11 · Answer

Staring is fine, I understand the enjoyment of checking people out. Waving is weird and creepy..

RuthAnn1781 · Answer

I don't really care about that kinda thing, it's not a big deal, it's only looking

Imafreespirit · Answer

To be honest, I don't really care. I check our guys often too, it's normal

ultimega · Answer

Butts are awesome!  Just dont wave afterward staring lol

tj268 · Answer

Girls look at guys butts too qnd we check out each others haha it's like we just naturally check it out, most girls I know don't mind just don't be way creepy and do the head tilt and smile lol

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

'M No different froM you. ( Look how Many gals, pay plenty { $$ } for an artificial one!. )

AngelxS · Answer

And that's why I hide mine.

GayHowellMeme · Answer

It’s not okay.

I can't stop looking at butts in public... How bad does it make women feel when they catch a guy staring?

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