Why do girls block so quickly?

[Raajk1995]

I noticed some girls quickly blocks me example:
Me: hello
She: hey
Me: how are you?
She: fine
Me:glad to know that.

Updates

+1 y

Me:glad to hear that😊

[Anonymous]

They don’t really want to chat and/or doing want to make meaningless conversation that has no point.

IE: some gals will chat to answer a question, but don’t want to chat all day with a guy looking for female validation. But some gals will want male validation and will chat all day to say a man is talking to them. Others would prefer not to chat much.

[Raajk1995]

Okay maybe but you can also say that i am here for this conversation after that i will leave does typing this will take so many efforts.
Or do she thought i will not understand that.

[Opinion Owner]

You didn’t do anything wrong - she’s just not looking for what you are looking for.

[Opinion Owner]

Many guys keep messaging you over and over whether you respond or say you aren’t interested or not. Some will get mean and say rude things. So it’s not you’re fault, but she’s just trying to be quick and effective rather than debate with you whether she should chat or not.

[Raajk1995]

Well yes now this i can understand but even then a warning is needed to let the person know his mistake.
If i don't get what i mistaken how i will behave well to others now she blocked me next time if girl will warn me that i did wrong or some.
I will take it lightly as what wil she do only block leve it keep on saying what you wanted to.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not saying it’s right - just explaining what’s happening.

[Raajk1995]

Okay

[Anonymous]

Like in real life, some girls do not like the direct approach. There is a huge warning on my private profile that says I do not talk to members of the opposite sex (unless I already know them and trust them as far as GAG goes).

[rahulnash10]

Really... ¿... I mean i didn't know that texting... Is a direct approach

[Raajk1995]

Well appreciated but she must have some warning that you are not supposed to say this or that what ever she felt.
Am i right?

[rahulnash10]

Huhh...

[Opinion Owner]

@rahulnash10 I often get messages from guys that say "Hi" or "Hey". I do not know what they are after. Just read my profile, and you will see I am living with my guy. I am not available. Have a question to ask in private, then ask it directly. That is OK.

[rahulnash10]

Oooo... So that's the whole picture... Then i have nothing to say... Topic over😁

[Opinion Owner]

She may not have been here long. She may not know how to stop these messages being sent to her. She might even be underage.

[Prof_Don]

How will u get to know and trust a male user, I u never talk to male users?

🤔

[rahulnash10]

Wtf... Dude he is already trusting ang getting trusted by a male...

[rahulnash10]

I mean she

[Opinion Owner]

@Prof_Don There are some, like you, that I trust enough to talk via PM's. @InfoBot is another, and @Scooogy. I get to know them in questions and opinions. That does not mean I trust anybody with my personal info.

[rahulnash10]

Hmm... The trusting shit is happening... I m out...

[scooogy]

@juicyjessie Okay, I didn't know we could also talk via PM :D

[Opinion Owner]

@scooogy We have known of each other for a while. I do not see why not! LOL!

[scooogy]

@juicyjessie okay cool, thanks :)

[sonoshee]

Did you say anything after that or you got blocked before you replied?
I noticed that people in general are quick to block someone. Usually if she doesn't ask you back it's not a good sign.

[Raajk1995]

After this i thought i must make conversation good to know each other so i said
By the way my name is...
Then i no reply so i thought she must be busy but i opened her account and found she blocked me.

[sonoshee]

Damn she is fast. Either she didn't like you based on your profile or she thought this was a boring way to start a conversation.
Girls get tons of messages and they are usually the same.
If you answer the same question 20times a day it can be frustrating

[Raajk1995]

Maybe you are right.
But i already asked her for private chat on an opinion she gaved me.
And also if she get bored all of this must have not replied at first or must not accept or follow me.

[sonoshee]

That's true as well. There are always two sides of it. Don't think too much about it and try again. Use different types of conversation starters and see how it goes.

[Raajk1995]

Well i don't want to try please anyone but i just wanted to know why girls want this? The reason for getting blocked?
What i did wrong?

[sonoshee]

Then it's back to what I mentioned: either she didn't like you based on your profile or she is fed up with all the same questions. Maybe she followed you back to check if something interesting will happen.

[Raajk1995]

Maybe

[CrazyyChick]

Well maybe if you had a big age gap or because there is this prejudice about indian guys

[Raajk1995]

Yes this is what i am waiting for?
Does being Indian is bad?

[CrazyyChick]

No of course not, like I said it's just a prejudice

[Raajk1995]

Yes that i what i am asking why?
Do we are not human?
We don't have the right to talk?
We don't have right to know others?

[CrazyyChick]

Uhm... why do you ask me? Like I said I do not believe that stupid prejudice

[Raajk1995]

Well i know i don't , but i hope you must know please tell if you know.

[rm_llort]

Never converse with a girl on text. Call her. Text only to give instructions or arrange meeting.

[Raajk1995]

Thanks but GAG don't allow😊

[Prof_Don]

I think the OP is talking about chatting with girls on GaG

[rm_llort]

@Prof_Don should be less ambiguous. I'd say they just don't want to be hit on. I'd suggest using a platform specifically for dating.

[RandomBritishGuy94]

... Do you know these girls or talking to strangers?

[Raajk1995]

Yes then my brother what it relates?

[Raajk1995]

Well i know some and some strangers.

[Anonymous]

Because the second a guy starts talking on this app it's usually they want to have communication / contact without even knowing you in person - and on this site there's a lot of creeps. So starting off a convo like that is already creep material lol instead of being direct and asking what question you want to know.

[Raajk1995]

At last you what wanted say i can't understand sorry

[Mlily55]

Honestly most guys that try to message me from this site start diving into perverted questions pretty quickly after basic formality is over with. Maybe she’s had past experience with that and got nervous that was next.

[Raajk1995]

Yes she looks good so maybe some made her mad😢

[Mlily55]

How were you wanting the conversation to go?

[Raajk1995]

Like casual normal
To know her
To let her know my self
I know we boys go to some other place but it doesn't mean to block anyone without knowing.
What if she wanted to conversation with me and i blocked her what will she felt?

[Mlily55]

Would you have turned the conversation to sex inevitably?

[Raajk1995]

The above conversation is with her
She didn't reply so i thought make a move and i said by the way my name is...
I know maybe it is my mistake to say by the way.

[lilmissumshine]

Exactly this is not a dating app.

[Raajk1995]

Okay then i hope you are not chatting with anyone here cause it's not dating app.

[lilmissumshine]

Ok and?

[Mlily55]

Chatting is one thing. Chatting about sex is quite another

[Raajk1995]

Chat is already shown above you think if it's chat about sex then maybe i am blind.

[Mlily55]

Dude be honest where were you hoping this chat would go?

[lilmissumshine]

@Milly exactly like he's bs over here. he's expecting it to go somewhere. like nobody has time for that 😂😂

[lilmissumshine]

@raa so u just wanna waste time? is that your goal

[Raajk1995]

The ho est us that to know her she says she is in army some so wanted know is that for real or not.

[lilmissumshine]

Why?

[Raajk1995]

Just curious

[jennifer_bloom]

because you seem desperate. If you talk to somebody and have nothing important to say - they will assume your desperate and waste your time instead of being productive.

[Raajk1995]

Okay thanks i can understand
Well i am desperate for love not for lust TBH.

[splashofyellow]

I mean, I wouldn't block you but I would most likely end the conversation there. It seems like either of you don't want to really continue that conversation.

[Raajk1995]

Yes i feel don't want to chat but i thought just try once more and got blocked😂

[k269c]

Probably because the conversation is quite dead. I usually stop talking to guys pretty early on unless they say something that takes my interest

[Raajk1995]

Okay i can understand that thanks.

[k269c]

Glad I could help

[Raajk1995]

Well do you think is there any mistake i did.

[k269c]

Avoid opening a conversation with one word. For example, say "hey I noticed you like ___, I also like that...". Doesn't have to be a paragraph but it's beneficial to have the conversation headed in some sort of direction

[Raajk1995]

Okay but don't think that will neede to with her as we already talked over an opinion an decided to chat privately.

[k269c]

Then I can't tell you why she blocked you so suddenly like that

[Raajk1995]

That is why i am confused
I just want the reason nothing else
She blocked me it's okay but i need reason
And request you all to give reason before blocking please.

[k269c]

You'd have to ask her

[Raajk1995]

And how can it will be possible?

[Raajk1995]

Will you ask her from my side?

[k269c]

Honestly she's probably forgotten you already. Boys come and go with conversations like that. You're just overthinking it, she most likely just isn't into you and can't be bothered to waste her time talking to someone she wouldn't date (if she's single that is)

[Raajk1995]

Madam it's just few minutes before the question.
And if you don't want to waste your time you can tell the other person please don't waste my time does it take so much effort.

[k269c]

I can't read minds. I don't know why she did it, just move on

[Raajk1995]

Madam it's not a simple thing to move on.
Not a relationship.
It's a thing which i really want to clear from all girls mind that before blocking tell why are you blocking.
It's not a game add chat and block.

[k269c]

Then specify at the start of the conversation that if they wanna block you, to tell you why first

[Raajk1995]

Yes i have plan for thst wait for some others to get calm down like you.
And sorry again if i offended you it's not my intention and i hope i was not rude to you.

[dandiecandie]

She thought you were not handsome so she blocked you because she didn't want to tell you no. Im thinking but maybe not. Otherwise i dont know.

[Raajk1995]

Okay maybe
But i already get the confirmation to have chat in private.

[dandiecandie]

Ok then i dont know.

[lilmissumshine]

😂😂😂

[JosyJosy]

I think they got bored of the 'hey how are you'
that's like everyone's go to line here

[Raajk1995]

So what should i say?

[JosyJosy]

Something more original

[Raajk1995]

Sorry but what is original for you?

[JosyJosy]

Something that isn't 'how are you' hi sexy, beautiful' and all that

[Raajk1995]

Well great
We can't say hi and hello how are you.
Then also can't say hi sexy
Hi beautiful
Then what shoud we say
Get lost or
Maybe bye will be so appropriate
(Sorry don't feel offended)

[JosyJosy]

With that mindset, you won't get far :p

[Raajk1995]

Hahah i know that's why asking for you to helo what to say but you are just saying avoid this.
Well i am not a poet who will say a poem on every girl i try to talk.

[Raajk1995]

Help*

[JosyJosy]

You don't need to be a poet. I'm not one either. There are so many things to say, just not those two;... piece of cake

[Raajk1995]

Madam i don't know anything more than that.

[JosyJosy]

You do, you aren't trying. You're too busy complaining to me :p

[Raajk1995]

Well you say do you feel it as boring to say hi and how are you?

[JosyJosy]

Well to me it's because a lot of men here are after either sex or love. They all start with the 'Hi how are you'. After the 30th guy asking you this, it gets kind of boring, you know?

[Raajk1995]

Well it's not cause of that 30th hello it's cause of your thought to hear something new and who told you to add so many guys if you already know what will he be saying the boring.
And well at last all boy will ask you same about your love life sex life.
And girls also get at that question in last.

[JosyJosy]

I'm not adding anyone, I just get messages. 'hi how r you' or not, I'll reply though

[Lava_]

I swear boys block just as quick also. If anything I think boys block more.

[Raajk1995]

Sorry for that but i never block any one until i get so hurt.
Or maybe unblock after few days.
Sorry again.

[Shawn58]

I've never blocked a girl like that

[Lava_]

It's okay no need to be sorry😂😂

[Lava_]

And are you sure about that @Shawn58

[Shawn58]

I'm sure only time I've probably blocked a girl was if she WS bad mouthing me and annoying as hell but other then that never I rarely block anyone tho period

[lilmissumshine]

Well guys come on here thinking this a dating app. ain't nobody here for that. they be all up in the dm asking for nudes sex chat bruh if u ain't got money tfoh. these clowns act entitled.

[lilmissumshine]

@lava girl they sure do if you reject them 😂😂

[Raajk1995]

Listen you are not suppose to say without reading complete question okay.
Just check your questions all about sex okay.
So don't think yourself as god over here.

[hasrett]

I don't know, it's weird, I only block people when they start asking pervy question, otherwise if I don't want to chat I just say so.

[Raajk1995]

Well today a girl gave me and opinion so i asked can we chat she said okay
I send follow request she accepted.
After few hours she follow back
Then i message her
After few hour she replied (just)
And the above conversation is from her.

[Raajk1995]

( just now)*

[douride2]

That is odd I have been blocked by guys far more often.

[Raajk1995]

It's sad 😢 sorry to hear that.

[gobsmacked3]

Because there are a truckload of desperate bellend types on GAG

[Raajk1995]

Okay then must have not added just leave the GAG if you don't want get desperate around you.
And also you can be proved desperate by the above conversation?

[gobsmacked3]

Not to me, lol

Towards women

[Raajk1995]

Well i am also saying towards women😊

[gobsmacked3]

Really, lol

I think it might be in fact you who is the desperate type by your question. It stands out like dog balls ;)

[Raajk1995]

Sorry i don't get you

[gobsmacked3]

This is apparent

[Raajk1995]

Maybe for you sir not for me

[gobsmacked3]

I think it doesn't help you that you are Indian. It is wrong, but Indians have a bad name on Social Media. Even my experience on Cricket and Football site. Their antics are way out of line.

There are many very great Indians. The sad part is the good ones get discriminated against because of the antics of the bad ones. In regards to women. I have no doubt this goes against you. Even if your intentions are honourable

[Raajk1995]

Yes i appreciate it.
But you can't judge anyone in start.
But i also know she may have all in line.
But the think that bothered me is not given any reason.

[Raajk1995]

I also get blocked by two before but they clearly said that i can't cause of this reason or that.

[gobsmacked3]

Sure

Judging on this is wrong but it happens. For I, if I see an Indian on a cricket site. Instantly, I anticipate antics. This is wrong but it is because of many past bad experiences

[Raajk1995]

Well whatever it's made me mad to ask others.

[gobsmacked3]

As for women on GAG. I think it is wise to be invited to message rather than just message. If in fact you message them

[Raajk1995]

Well i asked her permission she said okay added me followed me back.

[gobsmacked3]

ok, this is rather odd, then

[Raajk1995]

Yes this is the reason i put it here.

[Raajk1995]

I don't want to waste my sleeping time for it but i am doing to know the reason or my mistake to never repeat again.

[th3c0unt]

Stop being a weird desperate loser.

Then they won't and you'll block them

[rahulnash10]

Come on dude... Just see the convo... Never say glad to know😂

[hasrett]

This is true a bit hhahaha.

[Raajk1995]

Was it rude?

[hasrett]

No but sometimes it sounds pervy.

[rahulnash10]

Ya hasrett is right... Like never let the opp person know that... U are talking to her because.. That's the shot u got... Like just be... U know what i mean

[Raajk1995]

Glad to hear😊 is pervy okay i understand.
But if i tell my name that my name is this then?

[hasrett]

I don't understand what you're asking.

[rahulnash10]

No... Rather ask what do u wanna talk about...

[hasrett]

No that can also sound pervy.

[rahulnash10]

After a bit of chit chat she is surely ask ur name...

[Raajk1995]

Well as i added her so it's not a formal duty to ask and tell her that i am glad that she is fine?

[rahulnash10]

Oyee... Hasrett... Now u are being pervy😂😂... Just joking... Well depends from person to person

[Raajk1995]

Well maybe my mistake
But it doesn't mean that i will use her from chat i guess or does it means?

[rahulnash10]

Fuck formality... That's the unwanted character you have

[Raajk1995]

Okay great they has the right to block so i has the right to say good words to others maybe they think wrong about me.
I don't care
What's my duty i will do.

[rahulnash10]

R u from india RAAJK?

[Raajk1995]

Yes i am

[rahulnash10]

Ok... See... Dude.. The thing is that.. We Indians are too... Modest and polite... U just need to get a hold on these

[Raajk1995]

Bro listen i am not here for someone's vagina but getting blocked for getting no reason made me mad that's why i asked it.
Otherwise it doesn't bother me.

[rahulnash10]

Yaa... Raajk... I know... I can sense that... But i was saying that its not satyuga anymore... Be the change to see the change

[DragosArkhos]

Some of us get a lot of messages a day, or are used to be told that they must be very careful...

[Raajk1995]

Okay

[nickyBBB]

I never blocked anyone lol

[Raajk1995]

Well that's great

[Itsalwaysbeenyou]

She isn’t interested/doesn’t want to talk anymore.

[rahulnash10]

Whaaat... I mean the convo just started... 😂😂

[Itsalwaysbeenyou]

@rahulnash10 no one has time for meaningless small talks like that. Be straightforward and not drag the whole convo would’ve helped.

[Raajk1995]

Well like if i wanted to ask her for sex.
Then i will say not wasting your time i just want to have sex with you would you allow me?

[Raajk1995]

Or maybe if i wanted to know about her i will ask
Tell me about your self without wasting your time
And she will start saying like a recorder.

[Itsalwaysbeenyou]

I mean, if she doesn’t know you she isn’t obligated to reply to you. Yes there might be people who would talk to strangers online but some people are just not interested to invest their time to talk to complete stranger.

[Raajk1995]

Well okay i understand your point.
But if you don't want to waste time don't add don't follow back.
Don't say okay when asked for private chat.
Do you thing this doesn't waste mine or her time.
It wasted a lot.
I was waiting for her to follow me so i can message her to know more about her.

[Itsalwaysbeenyou]

She might think you have something you need to ask her - which turns out you don’t that’s why she stopped responding. Just imagine getting numerous messages everyday like hi how’re you? People have a life and it’s clearly not to respond to every single of those messages.

[Raajk1995]

Okay well if you thought that something special to be asked she can directly say to me ask what you want to ask. now for girls it doesn't apply to get direct to main conversation without wasting own precious time?

[Itsalwaysbeenyou]

That’s why she stopped responding thus stopped wasting your time and her time. Based on the convo you’ve posted it’s really unproductive &meaningless tbh. What would you expect her to reply after I’m glad to hear that? Like I said, she isn’t interested that’s why she blocked.

[Raajk1995]

Okay now she is not needed to get direct to the conversation right?
And she blocked me after i said by the way my name is...
Now you will that's the point.
Which has no point. At all you do girls can't say don't waste time come to point.

[Itsalwaysbeenyou]

Just move on and get over it.

[Raajk1995]

Madam it is not the solution.
You girls want boy to aks and reply according to you and even you don't follow what you wanted to (not saying to personally saying for all).

[Raajk1995]

And i just want to know my mistake and the reason to get blocked.
So that next time i will be careful.
But now aldo want to teach girl that they are not always right.(sorry to offend you)

[Itsalwaysbeenyou]

You can’t force a friendship or relationship. People simply aren’t interested to talk and you should respect that.

[Raajk1995]

I respect that
But first you said they are not interested
Then said don't want to waste time
You must go to the point
Then come they can't say that please come to the point
Now saying can't force.
But i just want to know why? What did i mistake?
You must have told the person before blocking it's your duty to do that otherwise no need to waste own or others time by adding and blocking.

[lilmissumshine]

Because this isn't a hook up site.

[Raajk1995]

Oh did i asked her to hookuo with me?

[Raajk1995]

Hookup*

[lilmissumshine]

People don't come on here to chit chat they come here for advice.

[Raajk1995]

Maybe but it's not written in any rule book to not chit chat and it's a chit chat (asking question).

[lilmissumshine]

ur getting blocked they don't want to talk to u. rule or not

[Raajk1995]

I just want to know the reason why blocked?

[lilmissumshine]

I already told you

[Raajk1995]

It's not the reason if i already asked you can we chat and you said sure then
Accept request
Follow back
Do little chat then block with no reason.

[lilmissumshine]

Boring convo

[Raajk1995]

Hahhaha now perception changed.
Girls are girls they will never say that thet themselves are bore.
Just look at i asked how are you
And she said fine
Don't even bothered to ask and you.

[lilmissumshine]

Well wtf u want from her?

[Raajk1995]

A nice conversation

[lilmissumshine]

Ok where are u expecting this to go?

[Raajk1995]

Well i never make expectations for any if someone is open then i am if not then like them.
Cause i don't want to lose anyone whom i wanted to or get the chance to talk.

[lilmissumshine]

Ok so basically you looking for a girlfriend

[Raajk1995]

Hahahaha this judgmental power is leading everyone to the wrong world.
And yes i am searching for but not always here.
But if get some then will be great.

[lilmissumshine]

Ok well women on here may not want that. good luck

[Raajk1995]

Well i already know and got good friends here. Already and tried to get her also but don't know what happened to her😂

[Raajk1995]

And all the time i try get there confirmation about my behavior so that i can improve more.
And please sorry if said something wrong to you