Some women who have particularly wonky hormones know that they become a beast on their cycle and so to avoid crushing everyone in their path, they practice avoidance to spare you and other times for these women, those in their path, just get the brunt of it.
*If* this is the only time during the month that she is like this to you and this is not "normal" behavior for her towards you or others any other time, I would say, wait until she is off her cycle and back to the way you know and love her to be and *gently* let her know that you do love her and would like to do all that you can to help her during her cycle. Let her know that you know it's difficult for her and next time around if she needs something like a shoulder rub, some ice cream, you to leave her alone because she's in a mood, that you'd really appreciate it if she'd tell you so you can help as best you can. Most women do track their cycles, so you can even ask that maybe she put it on a calendar you can share, so you can know too.
Period is a hard thing and hormones are getting crazy. When I was with me ex it happens to me from time to time... That when I got in period, I just couldn't control myself. I really didn't want it. I was trying my best to be kind but the hormones were making me angry and crying easily.
My ex was always getting mad at me saying that it is impossible that period can make me like this. But it really can.
And she may ignore you because she is really not in mood and she prefers ignoring than being rude to you.
It's hard to understand when you don't have a period yourself haha. But you have to be good for her and understand she may ignore you.
When girls get their period they have many mood swings. They are also in pain like back pain, stomach pain, breast pain, headaches, nausea and they have many cravings. Not all girls have the same symptoms when on their period but you get the picture.
She probably doesn't want to project her mood swings or pain on you so she prefers to be alone. Check on her but give her space. She most likely does not want to be this way toward you but her hormones are at different levels so it will affect her.
Having mood swings when a girl is on her period is normal. If she ignores you that seems fine too because I do that with people too and I know others do too. It's normal for her to be angry or agitated around these times. It's not easy to bleed out every month and have cramps. Be understanding with her. Don't get offended with her.
You naive naive little boy... dude... that is the period of time when she leave you the FUCK alone. Take advantage of it. Go out, party, see what else is out there. She is.. she's on social media and all that..
so just leave her alone. and go have a good time. L
Ask yourself, would you rather have her breathing down your neck interrogating you.. or you out there with a drink and flashing lights and loud music?
Love her after the shit is done... but During... have fun. She apparently doesn't want you then... so... call it break time.
I would take her ignoring you during that time period, a good thing. Some women are hard to be around when they're emotionally unstable. She could be one of those. She's probably ignoring you for the good of your relationship, you and her well being all at once.
Depends on how she feels. She may just feel miserable. We have to learn to respect her health
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I'm angry with people when I'm on my period because I'm in a lot of pain, occasionally I don't get really bad cramps and then I don't get annoyed at people easily either. But when people keep talking to you and you just feel like keeling over and puking it's very annoying.
I do sometimes feel annoyed about nearly everything when I'm on my period and therefore I'm trying not to talk too much with people I like because I'm afraid that this might lead to a fight. I do also warn my boyfriend beforehand.
Maybe thats the reason for her behaviour.
Your girlfriend still loves you when it’s her time of the month. It’s just at that time some of us don’t want to be touched and yes we may ignore our significant other just because there’s so much going on with our bodies. Hormones change our moods, aches and pains and that awful flow of blood that we have to deal with just make life awful. Instead try to understand that for those days on her period greet her nastiness, with kindness. Make her some tea, ask her if there’s something YOU can do for her. Guaranteed that her behavior will change with you! Good luck!
I had a friend several years ago who was incredible moody when her period came. Her boyfriend (a friend of mine, too) took the worst part, It was horrible being near them... We all ended on a bad mood because of her.
So, it's "normal", but you shouldn't tolerate nasty words or offenses. If she's moody, you better leave her alone until she feels better, it will be better for both of you.
Yes quite normal I should say! Hormones as flying like crazy through out the body whilst Mother Nature is stopping by. If you are with her and she gets agitated, you can just give her a smile and say lovely things to her. If I'm social media and she doesn't response, send her a cute message saying you are there if she needs you. Females love it when she knows a guy is patient and cares for her. You seem so lovely to her, she's so lucky!
If it's extreme you can take her to see a doctor, they can probably give her something to improve her mood and period. I had an appointment to go check mine out but I don't trust third world doctors to make me into their lab-rat.
Some women have it bad and I am one of them, I do know I might need help and medications. Just buy her Ponstan painkillers, ask her if she needs like desserts and pads, then leave her alone, it's not a big deal really.
It’s normal for her to be a bit more snappy every now and then and different people react differently and whatever, but to ignore you consistently every time seems weird to me.
I understand she might not want to talk if she’s in pain, but I wouldn’t want ignore you completely even on social media is a bit extreme
its normal. I know it sucks to deal with though. its just that hormones are messing around with her and with symptoms she's dealing with and stuff, yeah its not much of a happy time. so she's bound to be like that.
Yes. I get like this too. I feel like everyone annoys me so I don’t want to talk to them in case I make them upset if I say something rude etc. it’s hard to describe but basically you really just CBF to talk to people.
It sounds like she has mood swings with her period and probably doesn't want to be around anyone at that time. Just try to be patient and understanding. (And yes, for some girls this is very normal)
Maybe she knows she is in a bad mood and will probably snap at you and say hateful things.. just ask her abuot it..
It's better she ignores you to avoid being rude to you but it's not okay for her to be nasty and abusive, you should talk to her about it. Do not be her doormat, her monthly visit is not a good excuse to be an asshole.
Yeah it's really normal since she's in pain all the time from the period cramps. Not to mention the hormone changes.
Periods are like mini pregnancy
It can happen just make sure to not annoy her during that time
Don't worry it's normal. It's just because of the mood swings and hormones
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Yeah... It's normal
It's normal. I become a demon to everyone around me
leave her
or talk with her frankly
eaither she wants you or not
Yes... hormones and pain...
Not for me I turn super affectionate and needy
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