Is it normal that I cannot help noticing my brother's bulge at times?

[burundibeer]

My younger brother is 18 and I'm a year older. We both still live with our parents as he graduates this year and I'm interning at an event management company till I start college (gap year) later this year.

Since almost a year (or maybe two) I can't help checking out/glancing at my brother's... ahem.. privates when he's wearing basketball shorts or swim trunks or whatever. He's quite the sporty type and hangs around most of the day with his BB shorts and he doesn't wear anything underneath which is quite surprising since I didn't know guys played BB with nothing but shorts (I've seen countless guys playing shirtless though, which is quite normal here in CA). My brother's also shirtless most of the time but this doesn't bother me since I'm used to that since we were kids.

What nags me is that I automatically look at his shorts and most of the time I notice that there is quite a bit of a bulge and then I keep looking on and this happens everytime he's around the house wearing shorts.

Maybe I'm overanalysing things but I don't really want to go down THAT road so what do you think?

Normal

Cause for concern

[markscott]

That you notice his bulge is normal, after all, it's there, and it's noticeable. Just as he notices your boobs, probably your ass, and perhaps your mound, if you wear tight clothes. That is different from dwelling on his bulge, or fantasizing about his penis. If you stay in the noticing phase, no problem. If your mind starts to go beyond that, then reign your mind in, and place the thoughts somewhere else. Siblings notice each other, and learn things about the opposite sex from them, including what they look like and what seems to be sexy. Just don't get carried away with it.

[Theft]

I would say it is normal but definetly something to cause concern. You don’t need that and if your noticing it the what other girls are noticing his bulge. Not that that is a problame... but is it intentional? I doubt it! And I would bring that up to him!

[MsMusic]

Oops I meant to vote normal.

I notice it sometimes with my younger brother. then I get grossed out and punch him in the stomach, tickle him, or some other sisterly thing.

[SirBarristanSelby]

That's child abuse dude.

[MsMusic]

what is?

[SirBarristanSelby]

Everything you do and everything you think about.

[MsMusic]

You just be referring to yourself.

[SirBarristanSelby]

Whatever you say lady.

[modeve]

Just a curiosity and, as Sigmund Freud says, inbuilt attraction towards incest and incest fantasy. Take it normal.

[truthbeknown]

I think it is normal, maybe not common, but certainly nothing really wrong with it. You are both close in age and at a point in life where sexual urges and hormones are flowing rampant through your bodies. Since you live together and he already dresses like that, it just becomes too easy to notice it all the time. I really don't think you have a thing for your own brother, you just a have a thing for males and their genitalia, which it completely normal for a healthy young woman.

[Shane_B]

It's defently not normal, that is weird as fuck if anything.

I don't know why you would look there in the first place, he's your brother.

Maybe it's your hormones or something and you can't control yourself.

I suggest you start dating if your single.

[AndyJurosko]

Maybe you just look because it's a dick in general. I'm sure you're not sexually attracted to your brother.

[Enbywaffle]

I’d say as long as your not uncomfortable seeing his bulge it’s okay. But if you have any sexual desires and impulse towards him it’s probably concerning. a mild attraction is probably fine though as long as it doesn’t change how you see him that much.

[Anonymous]

If you're attracted to him, yea its a problem... But I mean I stare everywhere on everyone because I like to get an idea of how human bodies look since I draw people a lot... and I don't even like dudes

[Lottifan]

It’s a natural reaction. You both grew up together. You’ve noticed he’s grown bigger down there. He probably notices your breasts have developed over the years

[Anonymous]

judging by the votes, it seems most guys don't mind the idea of their sister checking out their bulge lol :)

[Browneye57]

You're a sexual being, it's normal. Just focus that attention elsewhere, to your favorite man-interest, not your brother.

[CuriousOrator]

Do you have a bf? Maybe you need some dick and thats why you constantly look at his.

Better watch out if you catch him staring at your boobs!

[Smegskull]

It's a self fulfilling prophecy. The more you think about the fact you do this the more likely you are to do it.
It's the don't think of pink elephants thing.

[Zanezane]

U like the male sex organ and guys like the female sex organ nothing wrong with that, but if ur crushing on ur brother that might be some concern.

[vald9inches]

looking is fine i guess but do you become aroused or get the sensation or the feeling to take it a step further?

[2plus2is4]

I hope to see another ''SisterLovesMe'' video on pornhub soon.
Thanks.

[ryanne]

seems normal, i mean im bi and im like that now with my older brother

[ryanne]

so maybe its not normal and its just us xD

[SirBarristanSelby]

It's not like you can become selectively blind is it? Face it, your brother has a penis.

[daler101]

Oh Jesus I knew these answers were gonna get toxic... but damn !

[Icumalottt]

have you ever seen it outside as underwear? Have you ever thought about f****** your brother?

[BOUNTYGUY9]

you need to get a guy as you are always thinking of hot sex

[ausernameforgag]

You should go down that road. Brother sister relationships are amazing

[Wally1980]

So did you do your sister

[ausernameforgag]

Nope

[Thickerection]

Quite a few years ago I fractured my ankle playing soccer. While I was sleeping because of the pain medication, I woke up to my cousin and step sister giving me a hand job. I was stunned to say the least.

[Myplace22]

I guess it’s human nature. Just don’t act on it lol