Could be one of two things. 1) You've allowed him to become a jerk. He doesn't feel like he has to pull his weight in the relationship anymore. 2) Your attitude has changed and he takes what you're saying always as sarcastic or some kind of condescending undertone to it. A lot of women do that. I am a lot like him and put the needs of others before my own as well, and I also am quite sensitive and take a lot of things personally. I think that because I do so much for others and not enough for myself, that when I care about someone I don't want there to be any drama? I don't want the spats or the confused words or for everything to be taken personally by one party or another. I just want things to be smooth so we can enjoy each others company and do things for one another. I am not insecure or self conscious though, so I have no need to take things out on people. Though I am battling some internal demons and a substance abuse problem at the moment which sucks, but that doesn't give me an excuse to be a jerk to anyone. He still cares, he still loves, that doesn't just go away. I would try and sit down with him and express what bothers and upsets you. Make sure that you don't seem like you're attacking him or read into what he's saying too much. Sometimes we don't even know when things we say upset you. Best of luck.
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