Do you find the 80/20 rule for women to be true? (Page 2)

[lollipop431]

Women are picky but not so much.

[CoffeeWC]

True. What's wrong with wanting the best?

[desidoll]

Well yes haha.

[Armourdillo]

What should the 80% of guys do? Die? Or liv to pay taxes to benefit the people in the dating world?

[desidoll]

@Armourdillo Just need to find the right woman.

[Armourdillo]

Lmfao. easy to say when you benefit from this 80-20 rule. Explain how to just magically get the right woman?

[desidoll]

@Armourdillo go out more and stop complaining. So you assume it is so much easier for us to get a guy. Lemme tell you one thing. Yes girls have more options since guys are the ones who are going to approach but that doesn't mean these men are good for us. A large number of guys these days tend to want a hook up or friends with benefits kind of things. It is tough for a guy to get himself a date but if he does, the girl usually wants something serious. I found my soulmate when I was 26. Just because I am happy now, that doesn't mean I had never experienced being with some losers in the past. These losers don't change my opinion about guys at all. I still believe there are good guys outside there.

[Armourdillo]

Yea but you got to experience other people to figure what you want. If I get one date, I have to make it work because most likely I'll never get another ever again based on the rule that you are supporting.

[Armourdillo]

And yea the guys who just want to hook up, they can because they know girls will want then no matter what they do, they're the top of the top, there are no rules for them.

[desidoll]

@Armourdillo I said yes because this is something beyond my control. Though I feel bad about guys who have to do all the work, I can't control my gender behavior.

[Armourdillo]

What actually prevents you from asking out a guy? Like is it impossible? Or didnyou not because you never had to?

[Armourdillo]

That's like a starving person watching a guy throw out food and saying "sorry that's what people like me do"

[desidoll]

@Armourdillo Society and culture. I was raised in a culture that doesn't appreciate women making the first move. Also, society tends to judge us for it. Third, most men I know told me they feel uneasy with over progressive women because they are going to assume she might approach every guy she finds attractive which would be an alarm since most guys won't reject her. I have had some friends who did the approaching first and when they broke up or argued, the guys ended up saying "It wasn't me who started this relationahip, you wanted me at first" 🙄

[Armourdillo]

I see. So using that logic, no one should ever approach because they are liable for everything that goes wrong.

[Armourdillo]

It makes sense why those guys don't want relationships, if anything happens the girl can throw it in their face "YOU started the relationship not me"

[Asad1ONE1]

Having said all that, little does she know how WRONG she is. Lol. Reality is something else.

[Asad1ONE1]

I've received too much female attention to prove that weird theory otherwise.

[desidoll]

@Asad1ONE1 I don't believe whatever you said.

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes you do.

[desidoll]

@Asad1ONE1 no, especially a guy who fakes his confidence to look cool when he receives zero attention in real life.

[Asad1ONE1]

Not in my case honey 🍯. Beauty and attraction does not revolve around women only. Accept that fact.

[levantine99]

@Armourdillo they always died bro. most men's genes never pass down. and most betas on earth who procreate is with a woman they hardly managed to land with who tolerates them just for their resources usually. while the alpha chad had dozens of girls jumping on his carousel. for us girls is somewhat similar, don't be jealous.

[levantine99]

@Armoudillo oh and there she gave you the condescending "there is a right woman for you, you have't found "love" yet" nonsense. don't believe her pal, alpha up or die single. i'm friends with a dating coach and its a repeating pattern. emasculation of your gender today, has created an army of betas that need to re-learn how animalistic attraction works. animals know these by instincts, for humans, it can be forgotten and should be relearned. i don't know what fairytale opinions you have about us, but you need to understand we are animals like all else in the animal kingdom.

[Armourdillo]

I know all this levantine99. I've already accepted it.

[Armourdillo]

Can you link me to your friends dating coaching?

[desidoll]

@Asad1ONE1 if that is the case, you won't sound so bitter.

[Asad1ONE1]

Not necessarilly. I sound bitter because of the notion. Not the reality. And reality is something else!

[Asad1ONE1]

@Levantine You are so delusional it isn't funny. I'm very slim myself and dozens of very slim girls have been into me. And did I mention countless other very slim guys? It's true. Many girls think they're "cute". "BIG and SEXY" isn't the "most" attractive. I can't believe I have to explain that to you.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I guess.
Math problems confuse me

[Asad1ONE1]

Of course not. That joke is so funny HAHA!! 😂😂

[beebella]

*shrugs*

[belarus]

What is the top 20%?

[Toad-1]

attractive, confident, most likely rich or well established

[belarus]

I guess we have different definitions.

[Toad-1]

whats yours then?

[belarus]

First of all I like handsome guys as much as any girl, but if they're the least bit loud, egotistical or abusive I give them a ZERO! My top 20% are intelligent, QUIETLY confident (which most men/boys don't understand) sexually capable. looks are nice but not essential. I would rather be with an average looking intelligent guy than a hot looking jerk-off. The best men are capable AND humble. Too bad so many guys ( and girls) don't understand the difference between authentic confidence and bravado.

[Toad-1]

Sounds like near impossible standards tbh

[belarus]

I can live with it.

[Toad-1]

And many girls may have different standards but just as picky as you are with them. Hence the top 20%

[belarus]

You may well be right. I'm not contradicting you. It's just that loud, obnoxious, overly aggressive guys are a huge turn-off for me and I don't understand why girls go for them and then end up totally miserable.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Nah it's more 60/40.. Some guys have money lol

[sthing]

I don't get the scale

[Slim57]

I find it very true and it saddens me

[disgustingweebtrash]

Generally it's true

[Patrickjv]

Yeah it is.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

yup, it's true

[SammOlives]

Yes, vice versa.

[Shoenron]

Yes it's true.

[StickStickity13]

It's true.

[WeirdoWerdo]

As true as it gets.

[OfDeath]

It's 100% true

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Absolutely true.

[CT_CD]

yup, it's true

[Dexterity]

Absolutely.

[Eleventy]

Yes.

[Rbryers]

100% correct.