i disagree, it should be completely mutual 50/50, if a girl has to do 80% of the pursuing we're going to give up and assume he doesn't like us enough to make any effort, same as a guy would feel if he had to make 80% of the effort.
thats just the coachs opinion, he/she doesn't know what the majority of women like, they just know what they have personally experienced with women they know within the bellcurve of the city they live in. I personally would prefer to know a guy likes me and I don't like it when a guys feelings are unclear. I also dislike doing most of the communicating and have had past relationships where I was the one doing that in the beginning, it was exhausting and frustrating to put everything I had into something someone else only put a tiny part of themselves into
I don't think so. As a woman, I get sick of it sometimes to be honest. It feels like I am doing all the work. Yes there is a limit. You should never over text a girl or call her too much but only doing 20% of that is not enough. I would say it should be 40% men and 60% women. But also, observe the situation, you have to base the way you act on the way she responds. If she responds well to your texts and calls that means you can do it more as long as you don't over do it.
Nope. If a guy doesn't show sufficient interest I won't go after him. But then again that's just me. I have 'pursued' a guy once (because he was shy) but never again. I need to know that you have feelings for me before I dive in a relationship with you.
I don't believe that there is a universal 'percentage' rule. I think that it varies on a person-to-person basis
I believe this tactic is to quickly weed out women that have low to moderate attraction level. A woman that has a higher attraction level will put up with the lopsided ratio.
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I definitely don't agree with that. Because girls get bored more than boys do.
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