What are signs of a clingy/controlling bf?

[plumz]

BQ

Me personally I like creeps,clingy guys, and over protective guys.

do other girls like that too? and boys is this an advantage?

[KeliKanna33]

... I think maybe if you like these guys, I think that's a sign that you like to be comfortable knowing he is worried about you. You feel more secure in those types of relationships. It makes sense. I would rather A guy worry about me, then me worry about him. I'm sure we both know what it is like to worry about our promiscuous boyfriends. It is much much easier to find a needy, clingy, over protective guy. They always want you around, they always want to know where you are and what your doing, who your talking to... In some cases its nice, but sometimes, while they are doing all that worrying they are secretly doing exactly what they wouldn't want you to do. I personally like over protective guys, it keeps me out of trouble. :) Hope that helps love!

[imclumsy04]

Haha, yep had a clingy boyfriend. I broke up with him because I don't like clingy boyfriends. My boyfriend wouldn't like it if I mentioned other guys while talking to him. once I told him a story of a little boy winking at me (he was ~ 5 years old) and my boyfriend got jealous. He was always telling me things that I shouldn't do. You might think you want this because you want your man to punch down any guy that hits on you, but clingy and overprotective takes a toll on your freedom. You might want to rethink it!

[plumz]

i mean I want someone like that. shows me he cares..

[imclumsy04]

well my current boyfriend shows me he cares, but never messes with my freedom. I don't have any other guy friends, but he's still very supportive when I had a few problems with my ex emailing me back and making me feel guilty for breaking up with him. He's sweet, caring, does all the things bfs should do, and loves me a lot. He will stand out for something wrong, but won't intrude my freedom. Clingy bfs get into a lot of arguments and get angry. Trust me, lol that's too much drama!

[selfishstars]

Being clingy and controlling is a sign of insecurity and jealousy. It's unhealthy in a relationship and sometimes even abusive (i.e. controlling what you do, what you wear, who you see or talk to, alienating you from your friends and family, etc.). You might see it as a sign of how much he loves and cares for you, but in reality, it is a selfish behaviour. He's worried about himself----he wants all of your attention and does not trust you enough that you won't cheat on him or leave him.

Sorry, but no thanks. My partner loves me and cares about me deeply, but he's never been clingy or tried to control my freedom. Why? Because he trusts me and he knows I'm not going to do anything to neglect him, hurt him, or jeopardize our relationship.

[tamzd1andonly]

my friend's boyfriend won't let her drink from a cup or bottle that another guy has touched, because apparently if their lips touch the same rim, its as if he kissed her.

he also does whatever he wants to her physically and leaves her with bruises.

yeah I'm serious! what is up with that?!

jealous overprotective guys are bad news.

[SarahSkittles]

Controlling clingy bfs always want to know where you are and text you all the time. What I hate the most is when they ask you to stop being friends with someone they don't like.

[plumz]

yeah and I like it :) I'm weird

[Anonymous]

i want a guy to care aboutt where I'm going and with whom and what time I'll get back but I don't want him to be so clingy that he never leaves me alone

[Anonymous]

they are clingy & controlling.