I think it depends on the guy really. But I'd say any guy, shy or not, will like it when a girl is interested in him and openly shows it. Whether he's interested in you for you? Well, depends on if your values and interest mesh up well together.
Being a shy guy myself I can sum it up quite nicely for you.
Because shy guys actually listen to their partners. It's just that simple.
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Yeah, mix shy and confident together. But if I had to choose one, confident straight away. I can be shy, confident people bring me out of my shell and I feel better.
Shy because I'm super shy so I find really confident guys intimidating. Also if a guy is a little shy with me in particular I feel like that's a sign that maybe he's attracted to me
Well, I do...shy guys seem to be different than other guys. Theyre not like after everybody and once you get to know them better, its like the guy becomes more and more cute.
Also, that shy guy, with a great woman behind him, may grow to be just as confident as the regular guys and slick talkers while being very affectionate and attentive to your needs. Shy guys also make great lovers because of how giving they are. The only thing a shy guy needs to watch out for is to not sell himself short, look after his own needs, and not be a doormat. I think most shy guys aren't all that shy, they just need to connect with you first and get comfortable.
The main problem with shy guys is getting up the nerve to approach you in the first place! To not be so self-depreciating, to know their self-worth, to be more secure (take you for your word and trust you!), and to constantly strive to better their own lives.
I'm in the same boat as you but I like boys but I like shy guys cause I know they aren't in a big rush .
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I use to be shy myself and I was having trouble getting girls but once I came out of my shell I had no problems talking to girls but yea some girls like shy guys but how would they know if your interested if your not going to express your feelings. When your outspoken and more open it brings out your personality so I say get more involved!
Shy guys are great, but don't be too shy to the point that it can be rude. For example, if you see someone you know, don't pretend you don't know them, smile, or just don't turn your head the other way.
Both are fine by me, but I wouldn't date a shy guy if he wasn't confident at all or had no self-esteem
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They can be great, but it's kind of hard to get anywhere with shy guys. They don't often talk to you, or show they're interested in you.
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That says a lot you had fuck buddies. NONE of them took you seriously. All you are into is sex and you are stuck with women who are the same way
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They just don't notice the shy guys. That's the reason. Also, confidence pay a lot of attention or points from them.
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Not really... if you have the physical appearance of logan lerman, then yes but other wise you should just fake your confidence until its real. this is a situation where 'fake it til you make it' fits perfectly with confidence.
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If you love shy guys, you realize YOU'LL have to approach them right? :P
Hahah this is the problem. I'll wait 'till I feel I'm sure from my feelings for him, and then I will let my friend to tell him lol :$
You should tell him yourself, it'll mean loads more.
But what types of girls do shy guys like? I'm a shy person myself lol..
I think it depends on the guy really. But I'd say any guy, shy or not, will like it when a girl is interested in him and openly shows it. Whether he's interested in you for you? Well, depends on if your values and interest mesh up well together.
Being shy and being comfortable not talking that much are not the same thing.
John Wayne didn't seem shy.
Being a shy guy myself I can sum it up quite nicely for you.
Because shy guys actually listen to their partners. It's just that simple.
Yeah, mix shy and confident together. But if I had to choose one, confident straight away. I can be shy, confident people bring me out of my shell and I feel better.
I like guys in the middle. Not to confident they're cocky, but also not so shy they barely speak.
Same XD except I'd prefer a female not a male :P. jk jk I think its cute af
Shy because I'm super shy so I find really confident guys intimidating. Also if a guy is a little shy with me in particular I feel like that's a sign that maybe he's attracted to me
maybe, if I get to know him and he's interesting and fun and can at least open up to me.
Shy guys are the least likely to be man whores with big egos. That's why I like shy guys.
Well, I do...shy guys seem to be different than other guys. Theyre not like after everybody and once you get to know them better, its like the guy becomes more and more cute.
Also, that shy guy, with a great woman behind him, may grow to be just as confident as the regular guys and slick talkers while being very affectionate and attentive to your needs. Shy guys also make great lovers because of how giving they are. The only thing a shy guy needs to watch out for is to not sell himself short, look after his own needs, and not be a doormat. I think most shy guys aren't all that shy, they just need to connect with you first and get comfortable.
The main problem with shy guys is getting up the nerve to approach you in the first place! To not be so self-depreciating, to know their self-worth, to be more secure (take you for your word and trust you!), and to constantly strive to better their own lives.
I only date and am attracted to totally confident alpha men.
They are sweet, but generally I go for confident guys, but that's just me
WTF there was a question a while ago if guys like shy girls LOL
I'm in the same boat as you but I like boys but I like shy guys cause I know they aren't in a big rush .
I use to be shy myself and I was having trouble getting girls but once I came out of my shell I had no problems talking to girls but yea some girls like shy guys but how would they know if your interested if your not going to express your feelings. When your outspoken and more open it brings out your personality so I say get more involved!
Shy guys are great, but don't be too shy to the point that it can be rude. For example, if you see someone you know, don't pretend you don't know them, smile, or just don't turn your head the other way.
Good point; thanks.
Both are fine by me, but I wouldn't date a shy guy if he wasn't confident at all or had no self-esteem
They can be great, but it's kind of hard to get anywhere with shy guys. They don't often talk to you, or show they're interested in you.
That says a lot you had fuck buddies. NONE of them took you seriously. All you are into is sex and you are stuck with women who are the same way
They just don't notice the shy guys. That's the reason. Also, confidence pay a lot of attention or points from them.
Not really... if you have the physical appearance of logan lerman, then yes but other wise you should just fake your confidence until its real. this is a situation where 'fake it til you make it' fits perfectly with confidence.