Girls, do you secretly fantasize about black men?

[Anonymous]

Interracial relationships are more open than ever but I know that there are still some girls who don't feel quite comfortable about what they really want. I just wanted to create this poll to find out how many girls could still be in the closet about their attraction towards black men.

Yes I secretly fantasize about black men

I am open about my attraction towards black men

I am not attracted to black men

[princessfromjupiter]

I don’t fantasize about people based on their race and I rarely ever fantasize about people I know in real life 🤷🏻‍♀️ If I find a black guy attractive I’m not being secretive about it because I wanna date him. I’m in the process of trying that right now actually 😂

[Asker]

Trying what? A black guy for the first time?

[princessfromjupiter]

Trying to date him

[Asker]

Were you always into black guys or is this your first time?

[princessfromjupiter]

Well I wasn’t into any guys when I was 12 😂

[bellafhernandez]

I've always been soul > anything else.
If whoever I fall in love with happens to be black: dope, if he isn't: dope.

[Anonymous]

Im not attracted to black men at all. I also think they won't be attracted to me. So thats fair.

[Asker]

Are you white?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope

[Asker]

What are you

[Opinion Owner]

Asian

[Ghost285]

She's prob an unattractive ching Chong. She did say she doesn't think they'll like her. She likes white men because she thinks their Superior LMFAO

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 nope wrong.

[Ghost285]

LMFAO I just guessed. Asians have the worst bodies.

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 thats fine, you can go in the "how do i look" section and share your opinion there as i didn't ask for yours ;)

[Ghost285]

Of course you don't find black men attractive. In your culture black is disgusting, and white skin is beautiful. That's why I guessed your ethnicity really quick, and correct. Yes there other races they at don't like black men but for the most part it's mostly Asians.

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 hmm okay. Thats not really true., because most of them here are scammers from nigeria?

[Ghost285]

The ones saying this are Asian women.

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 dont get all butthurt. Im not criticizing you or insulting you in any way.

[Asker]

@ghost285 don't act so immature my nigga. if they don't like you, they don't like you. And get the fuck outta here with that racist ching chong shit bruh

[Opinion Owner]

I think that non attraction towards black men in general is shaped by the black men i met where i live. I always feel cautious as to even being friends with them as there are cases they are scammer and the possibility of them being drug dealers. The black men I've seen on the hollywood movies are different though & I dont meet those kind of men here in real life. So black men who may feel offended by my statement of non-attraction, probably ask before you jump into conclusion? Dont reason for me as i am capable of reasoning for myself.

[Ghost285]

I'm not your nigga, I'm only half black bro. Go call one of your boys in the hood that

[Ghost285]

Dude right when she said she don't like blacks you asked her " are you white" you don't think that's racist for you to automatically think she's white because she's don't like. black dudes? You're being a hypocrite

[Ghost285]

So you feel cautious of being friends with black men because you racial stereotype them into being drug dealers, when you never stereotyped a white guy? How is that not racist or judgmental? SMH

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 didn't you just assume earlier its a cultural thing that cause non attraction? Come on, this one guy name Sunday asking me and my friend if we would like to go to his country will all expenses on him? Dont you think thats a little bit dodgy?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 i do have a stereotype of white guy who do "volunteer work" and seemingly have no business staying in our region. I assume he could be pedophile or escaping his criminal identity in his home country. i dont think that way for the expats, only those with no business of being here.

[Ghost285]

If it's a culture this racial stereotypes on black men, and love for white men would come easy to you

[Ghost285]

I'm just saying you should treat everyone's the same. You'd never look at a white and think negative when they do wicked stuff all the time

[Ghost285]

And they say white privilege, don't exist. SMH

[Ghost285]

I never said you were insulting me, and I'm not trying to insult you. Im just having a discussion

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 yes you did with all the ching ching and Asian with worst body LOL!! If thay is not as insult i dont know what that is

[Ghost285]

You got a point. I also accused you of stereotypes

[Ghost285]

But ching Chong isn't a slur. It's immature though. It's like talking about black people and fried chicken and watermelon

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 for the record, just because i dont feel attraction towards black men it is not by default i prefer white men.

[Ghost285]

I never knew an Asian who wasn't obsessed with white men

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 thats funny! Obsessed? Lol! Im not obsessed with them. I prolly would reply to every single messages on here asking for sext if im obsessed with them. I dont even respond, lol!

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe, just maybe if i actually met a decent black men like obama in real life, i might feel attraction because of how great he is as a man.

[Ghost285]

What? You probably only come across ghetto blacks

[Ghost285]

You're stereotyping again. You said decent black man. So you mean you don't like black men cus you think we're all thugs or drug dealers

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 im stereotyping those who i met in real life, nigerians mostly.

www.straitstimes.com/.../27-love-scam-suspects-nabbed-in-kl-spore-joint-operation

[Ghost285]

Damn, I thought Nigerians we're better than African Americans

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 you see the title "love scam"? How can one not suppose to feel shouldn't feel attracted to them.

[Ghost285]

Did you like it when the guy told you told come to his country?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 of course not. "all expenses paid" really? he's a student at that time in our uni. He kept asking for like a week the same thing. And all i thought, is he trying to do human trafficking or what? I also feel offended by the "generous" offer, im not poor, i can afford it.

[Ghost285]

He was Nigerian?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 yep, Sunday something. I forgot his last name.

[Ghost285]

He prob was just trying to give you he BBC

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 nahh probably just trying to scam me.

[Ghost285]

Did he come off as a player?

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 i dont know. After i kept declining his offer, he made the same offer to another female but no one actually took it. Next year suddenly he just disappeared.

[Ghost285]

But still why don't you guys every stereotype white men for the evil things they do, but you always judge black men? And they say skin color doesn't matter

[Asker]

@Ghost285 your immaturity and bitterness is why no women like you. Period. And I'm not cool with you saying ching ching so liberally. I expect you to not get offended when a non black person calls you n**.

[Asker]

*Nig*er

[Opinion Owner]

@Asker judging how you treat me right now would 100% make me go for you regardless of what your skin colour is 😊

[Ghost285]

I don't have a nappy head and big nose and lips like you n** so I wouldn't care you darkie

[Ghost285]

I told you my mom's Dominican, and my dad's black and Puerto Rican. I'm not full black. I'm glad I'm not full black otherwise I'd be ugly. I'm fourtunite to be mixed race

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 How can I deal with being unattractive, and afraid of taking selfies because I just dont think im attractive? ↗

[Opinion Owner]

That you isn't it? Lol!

[Ghost285]

What makes you think that me gook?

[Ghost285]

Next time I ask that question won't won't be able to go anonymous. Damn chink

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 lol!! Is it you!!! Poor thing struggling with unattractive issue

[Opinion Owner]

Insult me all you want, i obviously dont have self esteem issues. I am well above average and i dont feel the need to insult those below me ;)

[Ghost285]

I insulted you for retaliation of how racist your people are to black men, and you bow down to white men. You don't treat us with the same equality as white men

[Ghost285]

You said you don't trust that Nigerian guy because he might sex traffik you. You won't do the same thing to white men. Deal with it

[Ghost285]

You know what they say, what goes around comes around

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghost285 kindly work on your attitude and personality to attract women as you're lacking in the looks department

[JanetJa]

Why does it have to be a secret? If I'm sexually attracted to someone, I let them know.

[Ghost285]

My butts not hurt. I actually farted without pain

[Rose8900]

If they’re hot they’re hot!!! Skin color doesn’t make anyone unattractive to me.

[smg99]

They are smart and compliment like debonair charmers. My experience was rocking

[ccamilla]

Omg. Yes. Just take a look at how hot Big Sean is... 😍

[Asker]

what race are you?

[ccamilla]

Eurasian. French x Indonesian

[Anonymous]

Anyone who is attractive I fancy I don't care about race.

[311WasAnInsideJam]

I can safely say I have no attraction to ANY men.

[Anonymous]

nope