I was so excited as this was among the first and rare compliments I've given to a female I've encountered in person. My only fear was being ignored (as I've literally always been by women), but I had my hopes up as she seemed very polite in person and. Instead, what followed was a long night of endless shedded tears and emotional suffering. What cruelty is this? Have women really begun to despise men these days or was it just her? Should I even bother to keep trying anymore?
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Thanks for the responses. You have further proven to me of how naive and brainwashed people like you have become courtesy of the type of society we inhabit today. Only the wise would know this. And you are fools. I am blessed to have been given the gift of beauty and the attention and compliments that have come along with it. It's been that way for as long as I can remember. And I am grateful for it, not arrogant.
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... Having said all that, I should only feel bad for her and others alike. I hope that makes sense. Sorry to say.
I delivered an order to a customer I thought was quite cute. Nervously, I decided to let her know what I felt after I left. I wish I hadn't?
I don't understand why these people on this site are calling you a creep and letting you have it. I think it's absolutely ridiculous. I've got stories I can tell you about people meeting while working. Myself I've met other people while working. I've met many girls while they are working at their Jobs at stores and movie theaters and have dated them. A Cop came to our house on a call concerning our neighbors when I was a kid and he started hitting on my sister not long after that he had called her in his cop car 5 min after he left. My sister is 10 years older then me. Anyway then down the road the cop tried to push her into sex and she didn't want to do it so he Manipulated her saying why what's wrong with you and kept pushing her then he said what are you a lesbian and he made her feel real bad. That's abusing your power from being on the job and that was a big problem he should have been reported that cop. But as far as you go No not in your situation. You have done nothing wrong these people don't know what they're talking about on GAG they are quick to Judge and point there finger over nothing acting like they're the final word which they're not. How else are you going to meet women? Especially when you're shy like you are. I know you well. It's not that simple and you ran into a girl that you like while working is all and you just decided to tell her you like her in your own way is all meaning no harm or not looking to cause any trouble. It's not that big of a deal. The GAG people are acting like you're representing the company and you're really screwing the company up. They are full of it, don't listen to these people on here. You've done nothing wrong everything's okay. The girl you talked to in person overreacted, I don't blame you for being upset with her that was rude of her. As far as these gag people on here that let you have it hard it's uncalled for. I don't see you being a creep at all. I've known you for quite a while now and I know where you're coming from and I don't see any issues here. Dont let them upset you my friend. You have my support.
Your response is full of empathy and compassion, something which many people lack on this site due to their own personal problems in life. Instead of trying to support someone, they attempt to bash a person who is already hurt. Well I already know that and so I'm not affected. Besides, I'm not going to message anyone on the job anymore just to keep my dignity and be professional. And if I am, it would be something along the lines of... "Thanks for using DoorDash. We'd hope to let us serve you again."
You're a good man I've known you for years. You will do well in life. Pay no attention to Negative people that point their finger just to create drama because they enjoying it, they don't know you at all and they have no idea what they're talking about
I cannot believe you did this. What you did was completely unprofessional. When you work for a company, you are the face of the company. Doing something like this sullies the reputation of the company you work for.
OK you may have a point there, as it does make sense. But let's be real, I doubt it had little, if anything, to do with my position and more to do with her attitude.
Well, the question you would have to ask yourself is this: Would you gladly tell your employer about this incident? And tell them it was the woman's fault? If your answer to that is "Of course not", then your answer reflects the underlying reasons why you might have come across as creepy to the customer in question.
I doubt her response had little to do with the fact I was at work. What you mention is irrelevant. What is wrong with you? Society is the problem. Are you brainwashed by society too?
I think you have a complete inability to sense what is acceptable behavior and not. Your reply to me and those to other people on this thread suggest this. As such, this conversation is no longer productive, on my part. On the bright side - you could very well be a high-functioning sociopath like Sherlock Holmes. Silver lining and all that.
Your response is a perfect example of how spoiled and selective and irrational women like you have become (or has it always been that way?) No I would not find that creepy or a turn off, especially if I found the pursuer attractive. I would actually be quite flattered. But that doesn't even happen. Neither has it ever. Women complain about the "type" of approach while men complain about just the opposite: being ignored and unacknowledged. No offense, but this is only but one of many reasons that contribute to rape culture. Not that it's right. Not even close. But just letting you know the reality.
You mean like how you wouldn't of messaged her if you thought she was ugly?
Thats what I thought.
Men are also "spoiled and selective," by the real life situation you just did.
Dont be such a hypocrite who is selective in the girls he likes, and spoiled thinking that a woman ought to accept his meager advances, or agree with his hypocritical logic on a forum he posted a question about, because he felt he did something wrong here.
Yes both men and women are selective. But I am not referring to "selecting" who he/she approaches. I am referring to "selecting" the type of approach. Isn't that what you mentioned in your first response?
Oh I misunderstood - yes attractiveness matters, but you seemed to have missed a social cue is all. You paid her a compliment, and did not receive a response regarding it.
Had she said, " Awe thank you," and then you proceeded to ask if she was single, it wouldn't have been so invasive.
Her non-response means she wasn't interested, so to keep pursuing came off as "creepy."
From a woman to a man - men are very persistent, which is natural. If a guy gets my num some way, ans is interested, you guys commonly go into over drive, and suddenly send us 5-30 msgs trying to convey your interest and get our attention - even if we ignore you or say no.
This is where the "creep" stereotype comes from. Even if attractive guys you dont like, (say personality,) keep blowing up your phone, they are called creeps as well.
This girl was not interested and ignored your first advance with the compliments. You kept trying, and she gave a direct no.
End of that.
there's nothing bad about this, just that she wasn't interested.
I dont think you did anything wrong, except ask if she was single without realizing how invasive it was at the time, and innappropriate for work.
But hey, I've hit on guys at my job - in general sometimes they liked me back, other times they werent interested.
Respectfully disagree! She clearly meant to offend by not only ignoring but with the type of response as well. It's so obvious that she has issues with men. Also, persistence and/or creepiness isn't at all gender specific. Please STOP š being "pro-female" and grow up! Look at the situation as it is instead of taking sides.
Not just me, everyone is jealous of your superpower to repulse women. Hell, just being invisible to women the way you have been your entire life is already powerful enough š
@betaTester well that is coming from a typical gay-looking European dude who, like many others, desperately wishes to have had what I do. You have further proven me right. #idiot.
The dangerous thing about guys like this guy and Elliot Rodger (who is actually fairly attractive unlike this one) is that they have extremely strong delusion about how women should act towards them, and when that delusions aren't supported by reality they lash out at the world.
Its true. I like how men usually make ZERO effort anyway. Like Im supposed to just jump into his arms because he calls me pretty. I dont think men realize that we have our own homes, cars, and education, as well as several other men calling us pretty at any given moment.
If that was the case then you don't really appreciate all the nice compliments that men give you and which one do you choose the one with the most money in his bank account? I don't like women that are unappreciative just because you're spoiled by other men In compliments
Guys, this is not about giving compliments to strangers on the street. This is a delivery dude using his company's customer info to slide into the DMs of some woman he found attractive and asking her personal questions after he had been at her home address earlier (only someone with a mental disability would not see something seriously wrong with this).
After she asked him to stop contacting her, he wrote a bitter diatribe against women and society for not receiving his gift of beauty lol This dude literally sounds like Elliot Rodger (just read his manifesto). Try not to encourage him.
Also I think I probably should flag this question as inappropriate because the phone number of the woman in question is clearly posted here without her knowledge or consent. This is beyond stupid, delusional and creepy, it's probably illegal. This site needs some serious quality control.
Why do you assume Im unappreciative? Its not cool that men think so little of us, that a mere bit of attention means we should fall head over heels.
You men on here get mad at women for falling for bad dudes only because they give us some attention, but then get mad when we have standards.
Because we have standards, eliminates getting involved with the wrong kinda men. You know, the abusive ones with no good job, poor education, expects women to throw ourselves at him because he's kinda cute.
Fuck that.
I work hard everyday and im not about to throw away my life for some idiot with a charming smile.
But I will give my life to the good hard working man, who sees me valuable enough to even try. And sams for me to him as well.
I make good money and afford my own things. I need a good man's heart, not his wallet.
But thanks for confirming this statement:
"Men dont realize we have our own homes, own cars, own educations -"
You don't realize that the bar is higher.
Higher standards, means higher quality.
So what should I want?
A low quality nothing "bad boy"?
Or a high quality good man who can meet me on the same level?
When you say good Job I rest my case I know what's really going on here. It's not about a good man with a good heart thats trying Its a good Job. It's about you need to live high off the hog be way up there on the totem pole so a man with a good job will provide that for you. Don't bother tagging me again I'm not coming back here to read anything. You guys want to talk about my comment on this thread you can join the discussion in my area. I just came here to say what I had to say about what I said. You know where to find me in this thread
Oh I see why? She's angry at men as a whole. And that's just probably why the girl I messaged responded as such. Why? For actually complimenting them. Something men crave but never actually recieve. Ungrateful b***ches. Well that all explains why they're treated as such these days. Just what they probably deserve. Sorry to say š¢.
You are lucky she merely told you nicely not to contact her again. Dont be so forward with a woman and don't hit on any of your employer's customers or anyone at work.
Well we did invent most things in the world and we stole most of the world that's nice in Europe and enjoy it l need to sleep and l near forgot to say we invented soap as well and some people don't use it
Well yes true. And I am grateful for that. Nevermind my ignorance anyone can be pretty/beautiful. But you are WRONG and I am not a creep. Not even close! Instead, she's the miserable one that just lost a super cute male all because of her past issues. She may regret it.
You are a dreamer the girl does not want or need a freak pervert like you just do your job and leave the girls a lone no girl wants you as you are pure ugly
Don't nearly resemble a "creep". Lol Besides, there is significant research that hints at how women reject beautiful men just to hurt their egos. Even if they like them.
Stop being lazy and just search keywords: "women reject and are rude to guys they like" or "women who reject attractive men". Insecurity at it's finest.
Wow you spend all this time looking for your "significant research" and all you come up with is a single quora question asked? That's your "significant research"? Thats just sad dude :(
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