Do you encourage all women to practice hypergamy?

[CT_CD]

Yes

No

Something else

[ShortCircuit]

Ultimately I don't give a flying fuck what anyone does besides myself and my life partner. However, I think it's inadvisable.

Yes, it may serve your selfish, short-term interests to keep upgrading, but you can't do that forever. Eventually you'll get old and all of the potential partners your age will already be taken. It's like gambling at a casino. At some point you're going to have to take what you can get and walk away. If you get too greedy, you'll eventually lose all your money.

[Lance1965]

Well she is right, it is as old as civilization itself. The only real change is more and more often they are told to do it. I am sure most men have heard a woman tell another woman to dump his ass and find someone else. That is nothing new but it is more common now for the dumping to occur over the most trivial of things.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Yes it depends on the person's choices. Still most girls don't go for hypergamy. That girl is not an example

[mistixs]

It's actually older than civilization. Women were the ones who had to endure all the risk of childbearing so they weren't going to mate with men who couldn't support and help them.

[StickStickity13]

Yes, and men should sleep with as many women as possible, to spread his seed as far as possible.

[mistixs]

@StickStickity13 Since women are only fertile for about 15% of the month, a man is more likely to reproduce if he's consistently having sex with one woman (thereby ensuring he gets his seed inside of her during her fertile part of the month).
It's also beneficial for the man to stay with one woman to support the pregnancy and uprearing of the child. Even in 2019, with all the technology of today, babies are 4x more likely to die during pregnancy/childbirth if the father isn't around. What's the point of a man getting a woman pregnant if his child isn't even going to survive?

So yeah. There's the difference. Promiscuity is an ineffective method of reproduction for both women and men; hypergamy is an effective method of reproduction. & Hypergamy (female pickiness in mates) is the reason humanity has progressed so far.

[StickStickity13]

Ideally it would be better for the best men to have a harem of multiple women.

[mistixs]

@StickStickity13 I wouldn't mind that as long as it's consensual among everyone involved, but that would mean that a majority of men wouldn't be able to have wives, because all the wives are taken by "the best men".
A majority of men being unable to have sex/love would result in a lot of problems in society, which is why many societies promote monogamy instead of polygamy.

[StickStickity13]

That's the exact reason it happened, but if we are being ideal, women would harem with the top men, and when those women get too old they would be replaced by younger women.

[mistixs]

@StickStickity13 It's not ideal because if most men had no sex/love in their life, a bunch of problems would happen in society.
As for replacing older women with younger women... you can't just trash older women & let them go without shelter. Contrary to popular belief, postmenopausal women aren't worthless reproductively. The care of grandmothers (or other older women) is very important to the longevity of children. www.statnews.com/.../

[StickStickity13]

We are only talking about ideal situations for creating children. Not what is morally right. The women would be replaced around 30 for women in their teens and twenties. The old women wouldn't be killed just retired.

[richardcory]

This seems to assume there is some way to order men (or women) in terms of quality. But what is that order? How would you order: Nobel science prize winner, Billionaire, Senator, rock star, Olympic gold medalist, navy seal?

Or at a lower level, a plumber or an astrophysicist (who learn similar amounts of money). Some women would be happier with one, some with the other.

The president of the US is arguably the most powerful man in the world. Does that make Biden the most desirable man?

Women can't marry "up" because "up" isn't defined, except by each individual person. There are some common elements in most people's definitions, but a lot of differences.

Unless you are looking at Marvel superheroes, no one is the best at everything.

[msc545]

Hypergamy involves "looking for the next best thing" and going for it. Why would I encourage a woman I like to do that? This is like encouraging her to cheat.

The only time it would be of value would be if I wanted to get rid of her and make it look like it was her doing.

[Joker_]

I encourage all women to practice hypergamy.

Date and marry up always. A life of ease must not be under-appreciated.

Hypergamy is as old as civilization itself and the only men who find it problematic are those with nothing to offer a woman.

[David_Jelly]

“A life of ease”

Hypergamy is blatant manipulation of men to suit your own interests. You make him think you love him so you can take his money, car, etc… and give nothing in return. You don’t want a husband, you want a father

[richardcory]

In the modern world (at least in 1st world countries) LOTS of people have a "life of ease", that isn't a very high bar. Beyond that point, wealth is buying luxuries.

[TohhhruAi]

“Nothing to offer to a woman” when all she does is spread her legs and have the most basic of all personalites

[Anonymous]

I encourage them to try, in this day and age, and see where it gets them. Hope you like cats...

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Most of them are not going to follow your advice.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Most girls don't agree with this. No need to worry. This girl is probably going to end up alone and deep down she knows it.

[awesometjgreen]

Sure go ahead. But I also encourage men to watch out for thots like this bitch and avoid marrrying any woman like this.

[TheFlak38]

Do women need encouragement from us when the sub-culture tells them to do so?

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

How does the sub-culture tell them to do so?

[ChiPaPa]

Nah, I encourage LawyerGirlMiami to walk off a cliff.

[esotericstory]

This is the reason why women are subjugated. No I dont encourage this.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I don't think anyone does besides very few that hold no value whatsoever.

[esotericstory]

@ThisIsMyOpinion marrying up is very well documented, both today and historically.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I meant "no I don't think anyone encourages this". Just like you said you don't

[esotericstory]

@ThisIsMyOpinion oh ok

[David_Jelly]

“A life of ease”

Hypergamy is blatant manipulation of men to suit your own interests. You make him think you love him so you can take his money, car, etc… and give nothing in return. You don’t want a husband, you want a father

[thegirlfromthething]

If they’re able to, sure.

[ENTP_EMO]

i encourage all women to practice hypergamy

[NovissimumVirorum]

I encourage them to practice hypogamy

[BronzedAdonis]

I encourage both sexes to practice hypergamy

[Slim57]

I encourage them to practice hypersuicide

[Hurdleez-Swampede]

No I wouldn‘t.

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

please yourself

[GayHowellMeme]

Yeah

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Keep growing you are still young

[GayHowellMeme]

Yeah