This is really a question I always had, why are girls trying to stop being girly? Why did they stop dressing like a girls, behaving ladylike, wanting to dress, act and work as men? Men and women might be equal but they aren't similar. For example a chocolate bar costs as much as a water bottle that doesn't mean that the chocolate bar is the water bottle. We have different roles but these roles are as important and no gender can live on his own
I can imagine that if the image of archaic feminity is shaped by a world in which women were not allowed to work, follow education, not have own bank accounts, have property, that they'd inevitably 'act like men'.
Is it then actually a mistake of those women who supposedly 'act like men' by e. g. working, or is it just a big fuck you to a concept created by a world, for a world, that doesn't really exist anymore? Is it actually then bad that women want to work for money, be self-sufficient to an extent if it breaks with those archaic concepts?
As for how they dress, fashion changes all the time. So they wear pants? Who cares?
This question assumes a very, very narrow definition of femininity disregarding any societal changes, thus it is oblivious to the obvious fact that the very concept of 'femininity' just changes.
Normal women don't. Women like the ones you posted tend to be heavily influenced by radical feminism and they start to hate men, traditional gender roles etc. So they "rebel" by trying to act like men, rejecting femininity and traditional beauty standards.
They thinkthat they're fighting against societal brainwashing not realising that they've just fallen for a different kind of brainwashing.
It doesn't matter though, those women end up either alone and miserable, or with some desperate soyboy, because that's all they can get. Normal men think they're hideous as well as just being no fun to hang around.
You are right in some ways and in some ways you are not. Before women had no choice in any matter so the femininity was kind of forced too. Now its not so. Women now have the freedom of choice. Also it depends on country and things like that. I look the part and know all the how tos of a feminine woman but I can also change tyres of a vehicle and can fight for myself. Western countries have what you are talking about. The eastern countries on the other hand, promote femininity and equality together. Though now even these countries are being influenced by western countries. Hope this answers your question.
Because before the lives of women were strictly controlled, now we have freedom to choose to be the way we want and the way we like. There are still feminine girls because thay like being that way, I like being that way but it doesn't mean I can't appreciate the comfort of sweatpants at home. Plus before men were conditioned to marry a girl and take care of her, she needed a man like that so she did everything to "catch him", men are different today and women are aswell.
Women nowadays who really want to live in an "equal marriage" have to work and afford for themselves. Yea, backthen women were the ones doing all the house chores but they didn't have to work, we afforded everything. It was more of a profit to women
Because you’re looking at it with a biased lens, your man. Example - my grandma from the so called “golden era” was pretty as a peach, sweet, femme - but also chopped wood, pumped water, picked apples, dug in the dirt for potatoes, killed chickens, etc.
If you don’t think women needed to balance feminine with fierce throughout all time, you’re not the historian you think. Life is hard.
It's ok to do farm work, that doesn't mean you can't be feminine... my grandma also killed chicken and cooked yet when she's not doing these things she was wearing her skirt or dress and being a woman
Exactly. OP, you’re too young to get such a narrow view stuck in your head and you’re getting caught up in shallow details. Were Roman centurions not tough because they didn’t wear camp fatigues? Etc.
Open your mind to more than a few conspiracy theory websites. Find primary sources when you can. Etc.
Are you saying a womans physical appearance doesn't reflect her character? Being over weight from bad eating habits and not caring about making herself more healthy. Tattoos all over her body? -Sorry, but many women today dont act womanly. They dont look, nor do they act womanly. Not all, but many.
Just out of curiosity, what do you think of these 2 passages? Ephesians 5:22-33 - Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
Titus Chapter 2 3 The aged women likewise, that [they be] in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 [To be] discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
I think everyone should do what works best for their family. And no, I don’t think wearing pants or jeans keeps women from being kind, compassionate, loyal, nurturing, etc. And let’s not get started on hair, as short and long hair cycles in and out of fashion throughout time. Don’t be myopic.
When did men stop treating us like woman and stop loving us. We have left femininity because we are evolving , we no longer have partners to love us or babies to nurture. So you will meet more of our kind the evolved woman. Plus it's fun to just have fun and cut your hair and go crazy. Men don't care anyway so we can do what we want.
Because being "feminine" doesn't define you as a woman. Having a vagina does. Dressing like men? What, like trousers? And you're using extremes that doesn't cover the whole gender. So nice generalisation.
-Because it's of Satan and when you stray from the word of Jesus/God like many Many MANY do, you end up doing completely opposite of what he wishes.
KJV Bible Deuteronomy 22:5 5The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
Short hair has always been popular with women. Having short hair has nothing to do with political ideas or gender identity lol. Conservative women can still be vile bitches
No, I didn't say that, for example if someone had an accident and acid fell on his face we should have compassion on him becasue it's not his fault. However if someone threw acid on his face and said he likes how he looks like that that means he's crazy... same here
Pls dont talk about conservative women man. Currently in India a "conservative lady" is getting severe backlash all over social media especially Instagram on her comments. We need more people with central ideology
I see feminine girls everywhere, those leftie extremists are rare found mostly in universities, the majority of women enjoy being and woman and flaunt their goods to attract men.
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