Usually bad boys are very charming and pretend to be very into you. I was very naive and was played by a couple of narcissist. They have a lot of confidence and often times they are very good looking. It's the same reason most men chase after bad bitches... they are very sexy, confident, and sweet talkers.
Another reason is that most women who chase after bad boys are trauma survivors who have had a bad male figures. You are attracted to what you are familiar to.
I'm a sweet girl and I've been told that I'm wife material, so bad boys end up getting bored by me. I'm saving myself until marriage, so I end up being a challenge for bad boys. I'm taking a long break from men because I don't trust what I'm attracted to. They end up being abusive. I need more healing to do... it's a long story. That's about the gist of it.
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I don't like bad boys. I like men who are respectful and who don't play games like a little boy.
I'll stick to reading romances with bad boys in Mills & Boon.
The bad boys in real life are total tools.
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There isn’t much to like, honestly. I’m not attracted to bad boys. Some girls are attracted to it because MAYBE they want to lean towards the more dominating type since some guys out there are complete wimps. I honestly don’t know what is going on in a girl’s mind when they want to be with a bad boy. One person isn’t gonna be able to change the way someone thinks. I also think bad boys are completely overrated.
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MeMy boyfriend is probably what you call a "bad boy " he dresses gangsta and acts kinda rough etc.
This is the bonus of the whole thing: no one dares do nothing to me because they are sure to get hurt
Don't tell nobody: inside he is the sweetest guy anyone can imagine.. sshhushNo. Movies and tv shows make it seem like bad boys are so hot when in reality they're just jerks... I'd rather date someone who's nice to people and respects me
Bad guys are “bad guys” because they can be. Once a kid realizes he’s good looking and girls pay attention to him he starts to develop a special type of confidence. As the time passes they become more confident and attract more women. So it’s not that we like bad boys they just have had years of building their confidence.
No they disgust me. Lets call them by their real title CRIMINALS.
I like to fantasize about them. For me a bad boy is someone who drinks, smokes and is promiscuous because I do none of those things. I wouldn't want to actually be in a relationship with a bad guy as he'll hurt me. It arouses me to think of being dominated by a bad boy.
If he's genuinely a piece of shit then no. But if he's actually really sweet and pulls off the "bad boy" vibe then that's attractive. It's mostly just confidence, you don't have to act like your superior like some do.
Masculine.
They lead.
You can't tell them what to do.
Usually hot af...
BUT WILL I HAVE HIS CHILD... the fuck no. I ran away and avoid eye contact... lol AVOID EYE CONTACT. Its all over if you look at them.Their confidence! But I’m never gonna date one again. I’m done with bad boys.
How do you define "bad boy"? For me, it's just someone who drinks, smokes and is in a gang. I dated one and I'm glad it's over. I only like bad boys in books but not in real life. Hahhaha
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