Why do some women wear clothes that show off cleavage, but get upset if they see a man looking? (Page 2)
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The trouble is sometimes we linger too long and start to show off our other hungry face. Want proof? Go think about boobs in front of a mirror. Like really think about all the great boobs you've ever seen til you feel that grin on your face, then look in the mirror. That's what Women see.
They get upset because the man looking isn't the one they want looking. They're just don't have enough going on upstairs to put two and two together and realize that men are going to look if they walk around like that. Somehow they live in a world in which all men will ignore them except for their type. You're just dealing with someone too damned dumb and immature to look down the road any further than the tip of their nose.
You're right about this question i'm a girl and also considdr my eyes looking so it's not weird if we see guys looking... me as a girl i think that woman who show they want attention and even if they get upset but they feel happy inside... so they keep going this way to have more and more attention by screaming at you and by catching u looking... they actually wait for u to look...
I've been wondering that for decades!!
They're answer is going to be something like, "Just because this is what I feel comfortable wearing doesn't mean you HAVE to look at my tits!!"
Okay then, just because I feel comfortable wearing pants with a hole in the crotch so my balls can swing freely doesn't mean you HAVE to look at them and play with them!!
And, why is it okay for a girl to play with a guys balls, but it's a HUGE no-no for a guy to even accidentally BUMP a girl's tits?
holy crap! where do you find girls who play with guys balls? I wanta do a little test. They can play with my balls and I will play with their tits and lets see if they actually protest.
@PositiveNote They will.
I've not only seen it a number of times, I've also been involved in it a few times. They can play with you as much as they want but as soon as you make a move touch them, they quickly pull away!! So far, I've only known two girls that let me touch their tits in ways similar to the way they were touching me! One just stood there and let me and said she didn't mind at all, the other stuck her big tits out even farther so I could get easier access to them. I even kissed them, sucked them and stuck my face between them!
First of all wtf, this doesn't happen in a casual setting and second of all, even if it does it is a guys choice whether to let her touch him or not and it does not automatically obligate her to let him touch her too.
@morimeme1 You must not get around much. I don't either and I've had or seen a number of women take liberties with touching a guys ass or dick but as soon as you try to touch them, it's a HUGE no-no!!
Where I live it's not a thing but still - I explained the logic.
If I had cleavage I would show it. Girls show cleavage for attention but don’t like the attention? They find it disrespectful.
Low key it may be a way for them to feel power over others around them.
But I could be wrong.
Wydm if I had?
@easily_andrew I mean something worth showing lol
Well... you could proudly shiw it.. miss sweet n salty cookies
@easily_andrew what’s your deal with me?
We haven't signed any deal yet , have we?
@easily_andrew fuck off
Hmmmmm... Are you angry?
@easily_andrew I wanna know why you’re stalking me
No.. i m not stalking yiu but my news is full of your opinions n i find them quite interesting...
@easily_andrew well thanks I’m glad you do
@easily_andrew but you keep calling me sweet and salty cookies
You don’t think that’s a little weird?
Oh... ok.. you should have told me earlier thay you find it weird! I won't call you by this name from now onward... is 'sweet girl' ok
@easily_andrew how about no names
It's allright @Brookiecookie0422 .. but I m not a stalker... ok
@easily_andrew if you say so man
Ohm.. most of the guys want only sex from girls.. he seems also of same type... don't believe him
Whatever!!!
@crazysid22 lmao yeah I had the inkling
Because believe it or not - The world doesn't revolve around you and how a woman dresses has nothing to do with men. For all you know she could be a lesbian.
When I dress sexy I do it for my own confidence sake unless i'm going on a date with one particular man that I want to look at me and think i'm sexy. Women also do it a lot to compete with other women. However I don't dress sexy a lot because men are creepy and they do stare, usually it's old men who stare the most.
To be honest, I'm a booby person, I just like them so much and I prefer a woman with decent ones over a woman with nice ass. For some reasons, women with low self esteem tend to show their fruits for the sake of attention when their facial features fails at attracting men. Whoever, there's still a mental side to this behaviour as some of them are literally whores who consider being exposed sexually is fun (teasing men)
Looking is fine; staring is not. Regardless, some women have big enough breasts that it's borderline impossible for them to not show cleavage
Looking/glancing is fine.
Staring? No. They're breasts. People act like they've never seen them before.
No one likes to be stared at.
Oh yeah. And I literally wanted to tear my shirt off today because it was so hot. So that's another thing. But yeah. I shouldn't have to cover my chest and hide all cleavage/skin just because some people may find certain body parts attractive. I get shit for showing too much leg, back, tummy, and my shoulders too. Just because we show skin doesn't mean we want attention. A lot of us are just comfortable with our bodies.
They are advertising to specific guys, but not everyone.
When someone they don't like, looks, they get offended.
I love it, when they ask, "What are you looking at?" Not going to post my 10 responses
Clothing isn't a smart-bomb, targeted to some specific one. If you dress slutty, you are going to get a lot of guys looking.
I check male asses all the time. As far as my nerd appearance goes, guys don't even notice it.
On the behalf of women I'd like to clarify that not ALL OF US do it intentionally, the most it can get us is an indirectly degradeful image of ourselves. Who wants that?
One night stands are damn good but we all wanna settle down at one point.
It's a test. Girls don't want to be sexualized, so they put their sexuality on full display to weed out the guys who can't help themselves. And if they happen to attract someone they find attractive in the process, that's win-win.
I dont mind at all ift he doesn't stare for too long and thinks its the only part of my body
I don't see anything wrong with looking, it happens. My only issue is staring
Here is the truth: Girls do want to men look at them that's why they die for attention and wear sexy clothes most of the time BUT they only want attention from men they find attractive. They hate when unattractive men look at them, they just don't like it.
this is the reason why women do that. they don't like you and i but they still like the attention we give them which is why i don't look at strange women on street or whatever. if you want me to look then don't act like a jerk. i've watched a lot of porn and these mosquito bites don't do anything for me anymore. i'm sure you'll feel the same in a few years. anyway if a woman hasn't made her mind up whether she want's men looking or not, we shouldn't cater to their ego
Most women will tell good that it's to "feel good about themselves, and sexy, not for the others". Which is only the end of the truth.
They do it to look good so other people look at them, men find them sexy, other women are envious, which makes them feel good about themselves.
The purpose of looking sexy is that other people find them sexy. And therefore that other people watch them. But they won't admit it openly, so they pretend they don't like it.
One of the funniest moments I can remember is a chick was flirting with me and I was just casually talking, making eye contact. After about 15 minutes of her constantly trying to get me to look, I finally said "stop trying to get me to look, they're nothing special". I think I ruined the whole idea of low-cut shirts for her
I dont get mad. If im showing cleavage it IS intentional.
Do you ever get upset if you find out that a guy only wants you for one thing?
@kimberly-bryant I've never had that happen. I like to dress a certain way but my personality screams reapect. I've really never had a man disrespect me dating wise
I find that hard to believe. You have a profile picture like that and you say that you respect yourself.😂 oh hun, and I know that you’re a dude😂
Same thing for me. I don't stare but I take like quick looks and then I get mad when I do cuz I know I'm not supposed to. It sucks when they see me look cuz they always make a grossed out face and I feel bad.