I think it has more to do with Asian men's behavior. I have many Asian men friends and they usually have no problem getting hot women. This is because they're confident and great guys. However most Asian men aren't like them, they're usually insanely stifled and shy. This doesn't work in the western world. If you're an Asian man, try and get over the incredibly meek attitude that is prevalent in your culture. Do don't have to suddenly be a loudmouth now, but you're gonna have to push that comfort zone and raise the level of your self expression and confidence. Hang out with people you wouldn't otherwise hang out with. Hang out with the guys who get girls. I promise if you're really authentic about it they'll be down to help you, since you're trying to help yourself.
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When talking about the preferences of Asian women, I don't find that as true here in Japan except among a minority (a nontrivial one, and possibly growing, but a minority nevertheless) of Japanese women (and in Tokyo, they often hang out in Roppongi). It might relate to affluence. A poorer nation might have more women looking outward than inward for partners.
Among Westerners, I think the tendency for Asians to have reduced muscle mass and bone density and height is going to be considered less favorable for men, but perhaps even a positive for women. Likewise, the tendency for Asians to be more traditional about things like gender roles might be perceived as more of a plus for women, but more of a negative for men.
Maybe you're just not where the western women are who are attracted to Asians. My daughter and her friends are crazy for Asian guys. They listen to Korean music and watch Chinese shows on Netflix, etc. The BTS movie opening next week is practically sold out already due to the girls around here. Also, in college, my best friend was crazy about a guy from Hong Kong. He didn't seem responsive, and she didn't know what to say to him. There are some language and social barriers that western girls don't know how to address. Our high school has a Korean foreign exchange student, and he seems totally unaware that the girls all want to know him!
The main problem is that some Asian cultures don’t treat women very well. Western women don’t want to be controlled or treated like children by the man or his family.
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Well, Western (i. e. white) looks are seen as a premium in the world, which is demonstrated by the prevalence of eye-lid surgery, blond hair bleaching, skin bleaching, etc. around the world (especially in S. Korea); so, white guys have that going for them.
White people are also the majority in Western countries, which will mean that although Asian girls can date anybody, most of the guys they can date will be white. White people are seen as a good social investment, as they don't leave their kids like blacks, but as far as Asian guys go: they are generally seen as being smaller, less masculine, and more nerdy.
This may not always be the case, but it all adds up to Western/ White guys being more attractive to Asian girls.Plenty of people will find you attractive when you are at an age to make those decisions. "Western men" just happen to have a wider range of interest in our women. We are very diverse in the US, compared to the rest of the world, and some men prefer pale, white women, some prefer black women, some Latina women, some Asian, and some don't care at all.
My recommendation is to just relax. You're still a kid. Just go with the flow and enjoy your life, women find independent, goal oriented, successful men to be very attractive.First of all don't discard them so early most Asian girls date westerners because we date independent of their age and don't mind that they reached 25+ and isn't married. We are certainly not taking girls from 13 years old boy. We are just happy to take your rejects off your hand. We just think they have a dating value their whole adult life.
This may be you experience, but I have several friends that exclusively date Asian guys. And likewise I've met several Asian women that would not bat an eye at me or other western men. It comes down to the preference of the individual.
Because apparently there's a couple stigmas of Asian men. Small dicks, little to no sex drive, little to no emotional care for their partner, all attention on work, weird/creepy hobbies (that's what I've heard some people call anime and manga anyways...)... I think that's it.
Well because of media influence Asian men are seen as a undesirable by all women including westernized Asian woman. Bc women in general don't like people who are short and look Asian. Asian look kinda femmine that doesn't attract women attention in general. Even if Asian guy is tall and well build they still have big problem to find girlfriend.
I've talked with Asian women who are westernized at least to a degree, and they say they are not fond of Asian men, because they are too over bearing. In general.
I don’t think it’s that bad and you’re too young to be worried about that yet , things may change as you get older or maybe you can do something to be different than the rest and stand out, get muscular or learn another language
You know i wouldn’t mind dating an Asian guy brought up in a western way.
That's complete bullshit. Asian countries dont have many minority groups.
Because they’re short, skinny
again. A stereotype.
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