Honestly, wouldn't be surprised. Horny guys do stupid shit. Personally acknowledging that is how I wound up being polyamorous, that way you can just be normal rather than get all wound up and creepy. Not that I've ever done anything me to worthy, my point is just that repression is not a good long term strategy and it drives some guys into doing aweful stuff.
I will be by his side and back him up in every way I can. Ask him to tell me exactly what he wants me to say to anyone who asks me so we are on the same page. 99% of the time it's a false accusation. Gotta stop this misandry.
Realistically, the immense majority of sexual allegations by women are true statistically, however, I don't accept allegations as automatically true unless there are at least 2 to 3 witnesses or testimonies.
Id treat it like any rumor i heard. Might keep my distance just to be safe, but wouldn't judge the guy unless i knew for sure he did it. Innocent until proven guilty.
Oh! Well i wouldn't be surprised lol I feel like guys do stupid shit towards women a lot and they dont think twice about it. I feel like they think to themselves "Well I am a man so I have to make this woman uncomfortable and continue to bother her. She's asking for it with those tight pants." It's so stupid lol
Don't get involved. However please notice that if it was a reverse situation, and if a female claimed she has been raped, people (mostly feminists) would demand that you side with the "victim".
If this guy was falsely accused than everybody blocking him out and/or insulting is horrid salt in the wound. He hasn’t been criminally charged. Give him the benefit of the doubt until he has.
Proof or I call bs. Too many men get falsely accused and their lifetime career goes down the drain along with their reputation. Believe it or not, it might be surprising for others, but women lie too.
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Uhmm honestly?
I would probably laugh becAuse i would think he was joking.
For the most part i think most of the metoo movement in general turned into a joke so..🤷♀️
Honestly, wouldn't be surprised. Horny guys do stupid shit. Personally acknowledging that is how I wound up being polyamorous, that way you can just be normal rather than get all wound up and creepy. Not that I've ever done anything me to worthy, my point is just that repression is not a good long term strategy and it drives some guys into doing aweful stuff.
I will be by his side and back him up in every way I can. Ask him to tell me exactly what he wants me to say to anyone who asks me so we are on the same page. 99% of the time it's a false accusation. Gotta stop this misandry.
Realistically, the immense majority of sexual allegations by women are true statistically, however, I don't accept allegations as automatically true unless there are at least 2 to 3 witnesses or testimonies.
Makes sense
Depends what he's getting metooed about and if it's true or not
Good point
Id treat it like any rumor i heard. Might keep my distance just to be safe, but wouldn't judge the guy unless i knew for sure he did it. Innocent until proven guilty.
What does that mean? Like he was sexually harassed? I would feel bad for him. That's messed up.
Other way around
Oh! Well i wouldn't be surprised lol I feel like guys do stupid shit towards women a lot and they dont think twice about it. I feel like they think to themselves "Well I am a man so I have to make this woman uncomfortable and continue to bother her. She's asking for it with those tight pants." It's so stupid lol
Agreed!
Don't get involved. However please notice that if it was a reverse situation, and if a female claimed she has been raped, people (mostly feminists) would demand that you side with the "victim".
Thanks
I would be disappointed and ask that person to give his side of the story.
I think I feel the same way
I'd be shocked. The friends i make are usually good people for a reason. But if he acted like that behind women's backs i wouldn't be surprised.
I was too
Yeah but she has given zero context on what happened. In fact I’m starting to wonder if she’s the one that metoo’d someone.
@backintown Whiteshoulder? 😮 no way she would never. @WhiteShoulder did you? 😎
No. I didn’t. Not me. This guy is just someone I know slightly online.
Ooooo cool 😎 😋
If this guy was falsely accused than everybody blocking him out and/or insulting is horrid salt in the wound. He hasn’t been criminally charged. Give him the benefit of the doubt until he has.
@backintown yeah maybe true.
Try and hear both sides.
Work out for yourself if he is pushing your personal limits of decency.
Doesn't mean he's a bad guy. Does mean he's got drama surrounding him. We're not in high school. Stay away from the drama or it'll suck you in somehow
I’d just avoid him. He’s innocent until proven guilty but I’d rather not welcome someone with that kind of drama into my life.
Proof or I call bs. Too many men get falsely accused and their lifetime career goes down the drain along with their reputation. Believe it or not, it might be surprising for others, but women lie too.
It would depend more on who I had the better relationship with and who's word I had learnt to trust the most.
Assume like most others that he was horribly falsely accused and some bitch used him as a way of trying to be part of a shit movement.
I am not familiar what that means. Can you inform me?
Accusations of sexual harassment or assault by multiple women
I would feel for him and hate #Metoo movement even more than I do now
I would take the guys side automatically out of spite because people have the nerve to say you should believe the accuser.
Not should, must.
Depends on who it is. One of my friends is a eunuch lol