How can I get rid of my player reputation?

[Anonymous]

this girl was very interested in me, then after we made out for the first time, she told me she didn't want a relationship, then pretty much lost all interest. I know she lost interest because she replies with short answers when I text her, and almost never initiates a conversation. So once again, what happened? Is there any hope of sparking her interest again? I'm pretty hurt about her sudden turn off to be honest

[Anonymous]

Here are a few ideas to try:

Ignore her. If she is the type of girl who likes to play games and control people, this will make her feel like she lost control. She will come running back to you. However, she may just not care at all. Use this one at your own risk.

"Woo" her. Do the whole gift giving, old fashioned male thing. It probably would work, since almost every girl has the desire to be "wooed". Unfortunately, it has the potential to make you look like an idiot.

Manipulate the situation. Are you friends with any of her friends? Get them to talk to her and figure out what she is looking for. Set up a "blind" date. Blind on her end, anyway.

Be honest. This one really puts you out there, but if you care about her, this would be the best option. Just tell her that her sudden lack of feelings really hurt you and that you really like her.

To be honest, I would try a combination of these, or even more. She probably likes you, but is scared of a relationship. Her sudden disinterest is most likely and act.

Good luck!

[Asker]

thanks for the great advice! but how can I tell if she really doesn't like me before I do any of this? which woudl you do first? sorry to bother you with all the questions but what would you do in my shoes? P.S. as far as I know none of my good friends are good friends with her

[Opinion Owner]

Ask a female who has seen you two together. Be sure this girl is one you can trust who doesn't have some crush on you or something. She could tell you if the girl likes you.

If you can't find out, then just ignore her for a week or so, then just be honest. But don't sound desperate (and you won't sound desperate if you aren't). Understand that this is one girl, and though she may seem amazing, there are millions of other amazing girls out there. Just relax, it's more attractive anyway.

[Asker]

haha thanks. ill try to do what you said

[Anonymous]

nothing

[TheWolverine]

You die.