It depends on who you ask. To a meathead, he probably won't care how smart a girl is as he doesn't value intelligence himself. For other guys, an intelligent girl will be more attractive than a bimbo who takes selfies all day. At the end of the day, don't change who you are for other people. There will always be people who will criticize you and try to put you down.
Absolutely. While some intelligent men may want a woman who is submissive and disinterested in learning, I believe that most would prefer an intelligent woman. After all, what do you talk about together if your passions are incompatible?
Unless she has disability or handicap, she is intelligent. She just isn't book smart probably or smart in ways other women are. She may no more about poltics and the other knows more about makeup, but a dumb person can't remember every product and every technique and how much of what to use.
But yes an intelligent and intellectual woman is very attractive.
depends, usually self claimed intelligent girls are usually know it alls or stuck up/disrespectful, which is a turn off. You can't have a decent conversation if the date depended on it.
usually the actual intelligent girls I meet don't even know their intelligent, and it clicks a lot better with them.
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All other things being equal, the more intelligent girl is always the more attractive one.
However, there are other things that are also very important in a girl, and unfortunately those other things often suffer in intelligent girls.
An intelligent girl who also knows how to be feminine, knows how to treat a guy well and make him feel like a man and feel wanted and needed, who knows how to be affectionate, humble and kind... that girl in my opinion is the perfect girl.
Brain is immortal.. body is mortal, and you will be the perfect girl to any smart guy because you will have tons of things to talk about, and i'm testing girls by talking about the novel with i wanna finish witch is talking about super artificial intelligence and quantum mechanics and multi dimensions and if i find that she understands what i'm talking about i will try to make her to stay with me however she looks like
Yes I do think intelligent women are more attractive. Not that they have to be "magna cum laude" material but I just find women with more smarts to them to be more attractive.
Andolutely, although i am quite old now i still like Women, especially those who are inquisitive and don't take all social mores for granted. In fact my best girlfriends were always smarter than me. I like pretty women but not only for that. Give me a thinker any day.
The geeky intelligent type, no. I y think most people look for someone emotionally intelligent, rather than book smart (call those people: guys, girls). Everyone looks for someone who can empathize, understand them and cover their needs.
A person who is book smart can turn out to be emotionally numb. Lol, I would rather be alone than dating a woman who I even can't connect with.
That doesn't necessarily mean you are intelligent it just means you choose to learn about something that is not entertainment and you became knowledgeable about it. Intelligence is more an IQ thing not saying you are not intelligent though and it doesn't really make anyone more attractive. Some people might like it others might not like a girl to talk their head off about this stuff.
They are more attractive than dumb girls, that's for sure. But more often than not intelligence will not be the determinant factor when a guys is choosing a partner. Being really intelligent is not usually a trait that will make a guy want a girl or not. Again unless she is dumb.
It really depends on who you’re trying to attract.
I’ve known guys who have found intelligent women intimidating, while many others find them attractive. It depends on his level of intelligence, honestly.
Definitely an intelligent woman is a turn on. Not only that, but for men looking to build together, you want a woman with intelligence. Not some dingy bimbo you have to explain things 36 times to her til she pretends to get it. Someone you have to carry will weigh you down. You have to be able work together at the same level. Don't be a fool guys. Some men won't admit it, but they're intimidated by a smart female.
They are attractive, I don't know about more attractive. It depends. It is yet another form of the many facets of a womans beauty. The one thing difference is when I'm intimate with an intelligent girl, she corrects if I use the wrong noun or pronoun when we're intimate.
It's an attractive trait, but I'm not sure I could keep up. I've never been very academically successful myself. I do enjoy discussing political, religious and philosophical topics, but I would never be on the same level as her when it comes to education.
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It depends on who you ask. To a meathead, he probably won't care how smart a girl is as he doesn't value intelligence himself. For other guys, an intelligent girl will be more attractive than a bimbo who takes selfies all day. At the end of the day, don't change who you are for other people. There will always be people who will criticize you and try to put you down.
Absolutely. While some intelligent men may want a woman who is submissive and disinterested in learning, I believe that most would prefer an intelligent woman. After all, what do you talk about together if your passions are incompatible?
Well I don't know can’t speak for guys
But if I meet a hot guy who is dumb I don’t like him as much
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Unless she has disability or handicap, she is intelligent. She just isn't book smart probably or smart in ways other women are. She may no more about poltics and the other knows more about makeup, but a dumb person can't remember every product and every technique and how much of what to use.
But yes an intelligent and intellectual woman is very attractive.
depends, usually self claimed intelligent girls are usually know it alls or stuck up/disrespectful, which is a turn off. You can't have a decent conversation if the date depended on it.
usually the actual intelligent girls I meet don't even know their intelligent, and it clicks a lot better with them.
All other things being equal, the more intelligent girl is always the more attractive one.
However, there are other things that are also very important in a girl, and unfortunately those other things often suffer in intelligent girls.
An intelligent girl who also knows how to be feminine, knows how to treat a guy well and make him feel like a man and feel wanted and needed, who knows how to be affectionate, humble and kind... that girl in my opinion is the perfect girl.
Brain is immortal.. body is mortal, and you will be the perfect girl to any smart guy because you will have tons of things to talk about, and i'm testing girls by talking about the novel with i wanna finish witch is talking about super artificial intelligence and quantum mechanics and multi dimensions and if i find that she understands what i'm talking about i will try to make her to stay with me however she looks like
Yes I do think intelligent women are more attractive. Not that they have to be "magna cum laude" material but I just find women with more smarts to them to be more attractive.
Andolutely, although i am quite old now i still like Women, especially those who are inquisitive and don't take all social mores for granted. In fact my best girlfriends were always smarter than me. I like pretty women but not only for that. Give me a thinker any day.
Intelligence is all around better for the growth of society. Intelligence is very attractive.
I agree totally!
The geeky intelligent type, no. I y think most people look for someone emotionally intelligent, rather than book smart (call those people: guys, girls). Everyone looks for someone who can empathize, understand them and cover their needs.
A person who is book smart can turn out to be emotionally numb. Lol, I would rather be alone than dating a woman who I even can't connect with.
That doesn't necessarily mean you are intelligent it just means you choose to learn about something that is not entertainment and you became knowledgeable about it. Intelligence is more an IQ thing not saying you are not intelligent though and it doesn't really make anyone more attractive. Some people might like it others might not like a girl to talk their head off about this stuff.
There's nothing wrong with it but keep in mind what the main goal of the relationship is.
Personally I've had much more fun with girls of low intelligence but I'm sure some guys could see high intelligence as a plus.
Just try not to seem too serious all the time. Everyone likes to play. And both geniuses and people with pea brains can be loved and desired.
They are more attractive than dumb girls, that's for sure. But more often than not intelligence will not be the determinant factor when a guys is choosing a partner. Being really intelligent is not usually a trait that will make a guy want a girl or not. Again unless she is dumb.
It really depends on who you’re trying to attract.
I’ve known guys who have found intelligent women intimidating, while many others find them attractive. It depends on his level of intelligence, honestly.
Definitely an intelligent woman is a turn on. Not only that, but for men looking to build together, you want a woman with intelligence. Not some dingy bimbo you have to explain things 36 times to her til she pretends to get it. Someone you have to carry will weigh you down. You have to be able work together at the same level. Don't be a fool guys. Some men won't admit it, but they're intimidated by a smart female.
They are attractive, I don't know about more attractive. It depends. It is yet another form of the many facets of a womans beauty. The one thing difference is when I'm intimate with an intelligent girl, she corrects if I use the wrong noun or pronoun when we're intimate.
"People believe beautiful people are more intelligent, because they in fact are."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200903/beautiful-people-are-more-intelligent-i
It's an attractive trait, but I'm not sure I could keep up. I've never been very academically successful myself.
I do enjoy discussing political, religious and philosophical topics, but I would never be on the same level as her when it comes to education.
"I’m the type of girl who actually likes deep and intelligent conversations."
Yes this is very attractive and something I look for in a woman