Why would a girl tell me another guy is cute?

[Anonymous]

I was walking with this girl to our bus and she was like "that guy right there, he is so cute!" and she knew I had feelings for her. She does it a lot. She is a real talkative person though. I don't know if she means to do it or if she just feels like she needs to say something and that's what she says. Does anyone have an idea.

[oneforthetruth]

She ain't interested, sorry, but she wouldn't do it if she did. If my boyfriend saw another girl and told me she was good looking, it wouldn't bother me, cause that's what guys do. But unless it is a celebrity, I wouldn't say man that guys is cute, because us girls think there's no need, why tell your boyfriend another guy is cute? just think it and he won't need to know or get up tight about it.

Guys and girls are different when it comes to this trait, I mean we all still have eyes, and just because my boyfriend says he thought some other girl is hot, doesn't mean I get jealous, cause I know in secret I do it too, but I am just not vocal about it. HOWEVER, if my partner was to say, the guy at his work was good looking, all the girls fancy him, and he can see what they like about him. I might agree that he is a good looking man, but I would say it in a way that lets him know, I am not interested but at the same time, I agree with him.

Where as blokes, will go yeah she's got great t*ts, any bloke would want her...(or something on the lines)

[Snowblind]

It could be a few things: she's trying to make you jealous, she feels awkward around you and tries to make it up by talking about other guys taking away attention from the fact that she knows you like her, girls sometimes talk about other guys when they really want to say how wonderful and cute you are but they just don't have the guts, she might not even mean it, she might feel the need to say something, she's trying to get the point across saying I don't really like you and I think that other boy is much cuter, but I doubt that last reason :) don't worry it's probably something silly.. I did that to my ex boyfriend for some reason and he ended up dumping me :D I guess I saw him as more of a friend so I thought it would be OK for some reason to talk about who I thought was hot, forgetting I was going out with him, maybe that's how that girl feels about you. I don't know I can't be sure :P

[akhnaten]

I agree with Victorious40. She's testing the waters to see how much you will put up with and to see how interested you are in her. If you flip out about it, she's got you. If you blow it off and then turn around and do what she did, she may get upset. Silly, I know. Maybe she's not interested but she should at least be woman enough to tell you w/o the games of "is he the jealous type or not." This just happened to a friend of mine. Good luck with that!

[linotte]

She seems a little insensitive to me, though I assume that if this girl is your friend she has a reason for it.

It's possible that she could be just a little absent-minded (doubtful as she apparently does this repetitively), or maybe she thinks you've already gotten over her. Or maybe she thinks that saying things like that to you will encourage you to move on. It's really impossible to say with such little information and not knowing her personally... Her behavior could indicate a lot of things.

If it bothers you, you should say something to her.

[Asker]

Like today she was talking about this guy that goes to a different school an hour away and she started saying stuff like he is sexy and hot. I'm like y dong you go date him and stop telling me! I didn't really say that but I wanted to. And I dot think she is tryig to get me to move on because she would come sit next to me in class and on the bus without me asking or anything! But I real pisses me off. I don't know what to say to her so I barely talk. Some days I just wanna sit away from her.

[islands7]

She is shopping with you, girlfriend, as if you are looking over a menu or dresses. Think that insulting? Only in a funny way I hope. This is as good as it gets when not romantic - you are an insider is the good news.

Bad news: you may always be the friend

Better news: odd events can easily change your status to Boyfriend, if you turn the right knobs, figure the angles and above all else, love her unconditionally

[NoClip]

If she knows you're into her and she's into you... I'd say that it might just be a little test to see how you would react to something like that. Basically a trust test to see how much you care about her thinking another guy is cute.

An attempt to grasp just how manly you are. ;)

[Asker]

I don't think she likes me. At some times I do but other times I don't. She's not the shy type. One day we'll hold hands walking to the bus then the next she just ignores me like she doesn't know me. It gets confusing. And when I told her I had feelings for her she said, "I don't think I'm feeling the same way".

[HardcoreGamerChic]

right.. she IS probably testing you.. or trying to tell you in a nice manner that, she doesn't have the feelings for you the way you do for her. orr, she's outgoing and just wants to let out a fact from her own opinion.. umm, because I'm like that towards guys I know, because I'm outgoing like that.. even if I liked the guy I'd tell him, what I think about a good looking guy I see or know : something like, "woah he's pretty cute" with a slight laugh. usually their immediate response is, "uhm okay" in an awkward tone, with a little laugh.. but idk, just what I think.. hope this was a biit useful lol :p if not, can't say I didn't try :)

[Buckminsterfuller]

either

a) she is completely oblivious to the fact that you still feel that way for her (and you may have entered the friend zone unfortunately)

or

b) she is testing you to try to get a rise out of you (most likely because she likes you nd she wants you to make a move)

next time she says "omg he's so cute" be like "nah, you're way out of his league."

and see her reaction ;)

[Jess_17]

If she is aware of how you feel about her, then she's just being mean.

Maybe she just wants to make it clear that you two are just friends.

There's also the possibility that she may be trying to make you jelaous but I don't think that's it. Not if she does it all the time.

[haleybugslovesyou]

Well it sounds like she ay be doing it to get attention. I mean if she had no interest in you she probably wouldn't go and sit with you on the bus and stuff, but sometimes girls do that sort of thing to tease or maybe she is just trying to send somesort of message but it is coming out wrong(: sorry if this didn't help you

[csprankle]

You have to understand girls tell their friends everything and when she tells her friends that your so cute she's trying to get you to ask her out. And she might be saying it loud enough so you will hear her because she might be to scared to tell you to your face.

[Anonymous]

She's too shy to ask to your face if you like her or for you to ask er out or whatever, so she makes you jealous & does that sort of thing to get your reaction. She is interested in the way you are, & she might even be testing the level of loyalty or devotion to her you have.

[jujubeetzzz]

she prlly just wanted you to be involved when she checks out other guys. you should feel secure with this-shes being considerate of your feelings.

shes just havin some fun, doesn't mean she couldn't like you too lol

[dpg89]

She is either trying to make you jealous or she is so comfortable with you as a friend that she feels its OK to share this with you

[islands7]

Nice body, cute face U

[kikimarra]

She knows you like her? Shea telling you that she doesn't like you like that but she doesn't wanna straight up tell you that because she likes you as a friend.

[Rave4happy]

Girls are stupid sometimes. We don't all think before we speak. It's either that or she wants to get you jealous so you make a move. Have you asked her out or anything? She might be testing you...

[simpleandlife]

Maybe she's just trying to get you to make a move. Have you ever actually asked her out? She might just be saying "hey, I'm not dating anyone and obviously I'm interested in men..." she might just be trying to hint at you that she won't be single forever.

[aichang]

i am doing the same thing to guys I feel very comfortable with and considered as my potential guy best friend

[Quadrophonic84]

Most women have diarrhea of the mouth. They don't even listen to what's coming out half the time. Smile and nod.

[solidranger]

She did it because you're Friend-Zone'd. You are no longer a romantic or sexual being in her mind. Move on.

[Victorious40]

Shes testing the waters a lil...We like to make you guys jealous :)

[llibzz1]

she is either trying to make you jealous...to see your reactions... or is stupid and has no respect for you which includes your feelings. I would send her packing. Why spend time with someone that makes you feel bad?

[Anonymous]

Because she either wants to make you jealous, or she genuinely thinks you care about whom she finds attractive, and therefore she tells you.

[rotinaj10]

She's not that into you. You're stuck in the friend zone.

[cheerleaderxoxo]

so sorry to say this, but she's trying to tell you she isn't into the same relationship status as you are. she just doesn't want to tell you.

[Asker]

I know that but I don't like her anymore. We are just friends. Yet she continues to do the same thing.

[Anonymous]

I love to tease guys a bit! Maybe she just wanted to make you jealous?

[Anonymous]

because she thought he was cute, & wanted to share it, not that big of a deal.

[paiger]

Honestly.. She doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. She only wants to br friends with you

[Pebyron]

Maybe she's trying to make you jealous?

[amilleman]

Probably to see how you would act or respond.