If some guys can like fatter girls, can some girls like shorter guys?

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'8". and I've never had a REAL relationship. flings here and there but never a REAL one. its because of a lot of things probably but one is because I think its my height.

women don't know this but some men actually like "bigger" girls. so if that's true, then can girls like shorter guys like myself. by the way, I prefer 5'7" girls because I like my girl to be taller when she wears heels. kind of a fetish I have

[oneforthetruth]

Well being 5ft myself (and 5ft 1 if I am lying :P ) you are still tall in my eyes so wouldn't matter at all. However, some people have there get ups don't they, what you would look like dancing if she were taller then you when she's wearing heals, etc. For me I like taller guys, but kissing them is a problem, I do need a step ladder sometimes. However, really what I like is a man who stands tall...rather then be tall, if you get me. I know a guy who is short for a dude, but when he walks around he walks big, and gives the impression he's a giant...he's a bit of a scary giant tho.

And personally I don't think your height is truly the problem, because if someone likes the look of you they will not see into that little detail, (excuse the pun).. I mean look at Alan Sugar, Ronnie Corbet..er..

[Anonymous]

5'8"? honey that is not bad at all. seriously I could see if you were 5'4" then you would have to worry (no offense 5'4" guys) but you are average height. the guy I am madly crushing on but doesn't know it is the same height as you. guys think they have to be 6'3" to get a girl but that's not true. women talk a lot of sh*t about what their ideal partner is and we do say stuff like we want a tall guy, but there aren't very many girls who will pass up a guy who has everything she wants but he's 5'8". isn't the average height for a man like 5'9"? you're good just be confident and play up the rest of your good attributes

BTW I'm 5'7 too I was always under the assumption that guys wanted girls to be shorter than them. when I see guys around my height they usually have like 5'2 girlfriends

[Dylan1989]

**sigh** I guess I should start worrying then

[CuddlyCarla]

There is nothing wrong with a short guy, and 5'8 certainly isn't freakishly short in the least. I dated a guy who was 5'5 and I was plenty happy with that. Please, we aren't THAT superficial. Some women care about height, some don't, just as some guys care about boob size and others don't. We are all human and have different tastes, don't short-change yourself (pun intended).

[beastman88]

geez, what's up with people and asking questions about preference. every body is different, no 2 people are alike, people have their preferences for what they like, questions like these shouldn't even be allowed to be asked.

my teachers would tell me their are no dumb questions, but I think that bs. this is def a dumb question. don't be so insecure about yourself, then you'll be able to find a girl, who will accept you for you. height doesn't amount for squat

[Asker]

dont troll

[Anonymous]

If he's able to swoon me off the ground, even if my feet still touches the floor, I'd be all over him. Lol, that was a joke to whoever took it offensively. Anyways, if he's charming, I'm set.

[Asker]

so your not shallow, basically

[ALWAYSclassy]

Yes. Look around you, you've never seen a shorter man in a relationship? It may not be your height, but your insecurity about your height. Every man with a girlfriend isn't 6'2, and there are tall guys out there who can't get girls. 5'8 isn't even that short anyway.

[Anonymous]

im a short girl, I'm like 5'ft..im insecure a out being short too :(..but hey your not even short 5'8 is average height for guys now I thought...everyones tall to me tho lol...i guess you don't really like short girls tho if you like them taller with heels on because id have to wear 7in heels :) that's OK though, everyone has different preferences and there's someone out there for everyone so no worrys :)

[jensillar]

Hell yeah! If he's able to swoon me off the ground, even if my feet still touches the floor, I'd be all over him. Lol, that was a joke to whoever took it offensively. Anyways, if he's charming, I'm set.

[Asker]

hey! least you're not shallow :)

[Bombshell13]

I know a lot of girls who do consider 5'8" short but I personally like it better than really tall guys. I'm about 5'3 or 5'4 so as long as you don't have a problem with me being about your height in heels, it's all kosher.

[Asker]

i don't mind it but in actuality id prefer that you're taller when wearing heels. I know, odd? but its what I like, I guess what I'm asking is, can girls who are taller than me in heels like me because girls tend to like tall guys

[HotBabe344]

well I'm about 5'4 but I like guys taller. but I have met a good amount of girls that like to be taller-since models are so tall.i see wher they come from but I like a man to be like the man-in contro[no to over do it] and well manly. but there are girls that feel the total opposite about that. they sometimes even feel threatened by that thought.

[Asker]

god you need an attitude adjustment

[Dylan1989]

just because a guy isn't tall it doesn't mean he's not manly

[turnpost]

Forgive the youth of there innocence for there parents have failed them

[pinto121212]

That is not too short at all. I am 5'7" and I date guys between 5'8" and 5'10" because I usually like being eye level with them so I can see their face and not up their nose! They also have better bodies than really tall lanky men. Not that there is anything wrong with tall men but my personal preference is shorter : )

[Frogodile]

well 5'8 isn't too short but even if you were short it wouldn't really matter because its all in your attitude, just keep your confidence up and you'll do fine (:

[ctan6697]

As a 5'10" girl, I wouldn't like to date a 5'8" guy. But I think most girls wouldn't care.

[Asker]

yeah like I said I like 5'7" or 5'6" so theyre taller with heels on. already tall without is too weird for me

[Anonymous]

Who says some women don't like shorter guys? Just because women don't advertise their preference like men seem to doesn't mean women don't like those types of guys. 5'8 would be perfect for me because I'm only 5 foot tall.

[sschic]

5'8 is not even that short. Look around, maybe its not abt your height.

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'6" and most of the guys I've dated have been between 5'7" and 5'10". I wouldn't have a problem dating a guy that was shorter.

[udolipixie]

How does weight correlate to height except to tell obesity danger?

These are two different factors it'd make more sense to put then can girls like fatter guys.

[Asker]

its OK to be taller but look fatter because when your short and fat its called "pudgy". no one likes pudgy. therefore, men go after thin women like women go after tall men, regardless of weight of the guy

[udolipixie]

Not me.

I don't like chubby/overweight/obese guys.

[Asker]

didnt say you did. I was saying its not as important as our height is

[udolipixie]

Height wouldn't ever compensate for weight for most women.

Looks yes.

But not weight unless it's 10 lbs.

[Asker]

tall dark and handsome, yes or no?

[udolipixie]

Tall, dark hair, and handsome

[Asker]

point proven. girls want tall guys. I just happen to be 5'8" but I like skinny girls

[udolipixie]

But not enough for it to be "regardless of the weight of the guy"

And what does skinny have to do with it?

[Asker]

skinny girls expect tall guys for the most part. theyre shallow usually

[udolipixie]

How is it shallow to prefer tall guys but not shallow to prefer skinny girls?

And don't bs saying weight is controllable. It is but it's STILL A PREFERENCE.

[Asker]

girls aren't as shallow when it comes to being attracted to men. but you have the occasional few who are

[udolipixie]

No.

People are shallow and women are visual too just less than men. But still visual.

Women aren't less shallow but more compromising if they like a guy as a person they're willing to forgo a few physical traits they still desire those traits but they compromise and find him attractive as a person.

Men don't compromise on physical unless it's for a quickie or they're drunk/high.

[Asker]

ive seen some of the ugliest girls with the best looking dudes. don't tell me it doesn't happen. trust me, girls can b e shallow but theyre not AS shallow. the point is, can girls like short men, that's the question at hand

[udolipixie]

Then my answer is yes girls can but not this one.

And fyi I'm skinny.

[Asker]

im 5'8"

[udolipixie]

5'10'' is average so technically I'm not shallow when I say you're short.

[Asker]

so you like anything taller than 5'10"?

[udolipixie]

5'11'

[Asker]

so your shallow?

[udolipixie]

So you can have a preference for height but I can't?

Wanting/liking/preferring something is not shallow.

[Asker]

wanting liking preferring something specific is shallow. you just said you won't date anything under 5'10". that's shallow. granted you don't know me, question is, do you want to know me (rhetorical)

[udolipixie]

So you're shallow too.

Know you why not. Date you/have sex with you based on your height no.

[Asker]

im not shallow. you are

[udolipixie]

You have a weight preference how is that not shallow if it's shallow for me to have a height preference?

[Asker]

cause id date a fat girl if she has a good personality

[udolipixie]

Sure you would.

[Asker]

if a girl is hot, its just a bonus to me. guys really aren't that shallow as you may think

[udolipixie]

guys lower their standards short term not long term.

[Asker]

i think my cousin whos getting married, could do a lot better than the girl he's with. yet he's marrying her. it goes both ways

[udolipixie]

But more women do long term than guys.

this has dragged on.

My answer no short guys & no fat tall guys.

/end

[Asker]

fat tall guys can get girls because it looks better to be tall and fat than short and fat.

get off my back, now!

[udolipixie]

If those fat guys are 5'10'' and taller not 5'8''.

And even then that's for some NOT me.

Stop trying to force your beliefs on me.

Yes girls & guys date fat people.

But I don't.

[Asker]

im not forcing anything on you, I'm simply proving, you're wrong. people can date fat people regardless of height. the unshallow ones, ulinke yourself, you bitch

[udolipixie]

B*tch?

Do you see me insulting you?

How are you proving me wrong?

I said some people could just not me.

"Yes girls & guys date fat people.

But I don't."

How does that make me shallow?

[Anonymous]

I'm 6' tall and you find a lot of shorter guys attractive. It just depends on the girl but some don't care if you are shorter than them. It's good because you're at boob level.

[Anonymous]

I don't want to call my friends, they might wake me from this dream.

[HidingMyHeart]

5'8'' isn't short though

[Asker]

in america it is. I dk about canada. the avg. height for a male my age (22) is like 5'10" or so maybe even 6'. I just happen to be on the short end of things, unfortunately

[HidingMyHeart]

hmmm, well that's unfortunate...solution! move to Canada!:P

[Anonymous]

Personally shorter guys don't do it for me

[nakita]

Of course so!

[toaster1]

yes.

[purplepearlsagain]

yes