How to deal with an arrogant gf?

[Anonymous]

I know She loves me a lot. And she knows I'll never leave her. Sometimes she intentionally acts like she don't care what I think. She told me once "I'm rude to you cos I know you'll never leave me". And yes she's sometimes Rude.🤷‍♂️ How to deal with this and make her follow me (without a big quarrel). Does anyone have an idea
Thankyou 😁

[Aaron_Stone]

It's ok if she's doing for fun otherwise consider it as stepping stone for her.
Because This lack of respect is gonna grow and haunt you in future.
Make sure to stop or warn her if you don't want things to go out of hand.
Tolerance is sometimes considered as acceptance.
Write This as note for future to see how you missed the chance to avoid it.

[Asker]

Yeah You're right. But even I'm confused whether it's for fun or serious. We haven't seen eachother for 7 months. It's hard to predict her mood through text 😬

[potatoiswhoiam]

It's hard to change someone's personality if they don't want it themselves. What you can do is have a talk with her when she's not in an "arrogant" state of mind, tell her how you feel about that and hopefully she will improve herself.

[Asker]

Okay. Thankyou 😊

[yucychan]

I will say she's being rude to you only because you are allowing it to happen.
If you are not fine with it and you feel it's very disrespectful, then tell her to stop.
I, for one, will not tolerate this bs.

[Asker]

You're right. but I already asked her to stop that (in a soft way). She didn't. I don't want to hurt her with my words😬 she's just 20. Is immaturity a chance? 🤔

[Elsa143]

Maybe she loves you a lot and she thinks of you as a person where she can put out the moodiness or arrogance.
Tolerate her BUT NOT WHEN SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU, don't CARE about your heart or starts to flirt with other men.

[Asker]

Yeah. I've been tolerating her lol

[Littletwink]

She doesn't sound like a good girlfriend :/