Why so many white girls dating black guys?

[Anonymous]

Okay I have to ask because I find this really weird. Most of the interracial relationships I see are specifically white girls dating black guys. I see at least 5 times as many white girls dating black guys than I see white guys dating black girls. 20 years ago, I would never see a white girl with a black guy and when I did it was usually an obese girl. Fast forward, now I see them everywhere. It seems to have correlated precisely with the rise of social media. My theory is that the overwhelming majority of social media platforms are liberally biased or run by liberals that have made it acceptable to only be racist and spread hatred towards white men. Anyone else have a theory on this?

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I want to add that this trend I've mostly noticed with teen and college age girls. Basically the generation that grew up with social media is the age that I'm seeing this is common for. If white girls have really lost all their morals and just want to have fun in the sack, as some of you have suggested, that is very discouraging. However, I've noticed none of the people claiming this are actually white girls.

[modelUN242]

Interracial is pushed by the media even though it's unnatural. People of the same race tend to marry and have children with each other (tribalism). Miscegenation (interbreeding between different races) happens usually with educated people (e. g. university, colleges). It could be that white girls see black guys as more masculine like how they're portrayed in porn, exotic (jungle fever), or just something they feel they need to solve their "white privilege" by being with a black man I guess. You should also ask yourself why black guys date white girls? Why not their own race? Their babies will be light-skinned, and they're essentially killing the black in the next generation. I don't get BLM people who have white spouses, like why? People always put the blame on white people for dating outside their race and for having some sort of "fever". And sure, these white girls are just dating black guys (Tyrones) because they might see them as better in bed but you need to look at the statistics on how many get married. Also, black women in dating statistics are seen as least desirable so maybe that's why there are less WM-BM couples. Men tend to date women who are portrayed as more submissive, hence more WM-AM couples.

[Asker]

White girls see black guys as more masculine because of brainwashing and due to black people starting puberty at a younger age. They are definitely not exotic. Still doesn't answer the question of why 75% of interracial relationships I see is black guys with white girls. Actually the white girls that I see on social media that date black guys are very obviously racist against white people.

[Asker]

I think in some cases the reason they became racist is because their curiosity got the better of them and they were rejected by their own race. I've also noticed all the stereotypes that people say about them are true, daddy issues, etc.

[modelUN242]

Interracial is exoticism actually. You have stereotypes about a certain race. That’s why Orientalism was appealing to the British, because it was mysterious and weird to them. Same thing with races, if you look different to someone, that makes it exotic, but I guess it depends on the person’s upbringing, if they were surrounded by white people when they were young... I answered your question, okay, why not ask these white girls then? Plus, why do you care? It’s their choice, it’s not like these black guys are forcing themselves on them. Like I said they probably find white guys boring and bland so they date black guys. Plus, black rap culture is so popular and you see girls like Danielle Bregoli surround herself with black people because it’s hip. I doubted she grew up around black people. Like I said, interracial is low and not common. This might just be a phase and when it comes to marriage and kids, they’ll choose a white partner.

[modelUN242]

I don’t you can be racist against your own race. But sure, maybe the girls have something in common, grew up with no father in the home, promiscuous, drinking, etc. And black guys also fit that narrative so the two goes together?

[Asker]

No. Exotic means someone from the other side of the world, not someone from the other side of town. I only care because it's making me lose interest in white women and they are the only women I'm attracted to. Actually, you're wrong. A few of my friends have been raped by black guys. When it comes time for marriage, they will be rejected by white guys unless they move and start a new reputation. No white guy wants to be second choice for a used up ho.

[modelUN242]

I think you have issues. Which country are you in?

[Asker]

I think you have issues. You seriously don't think people can't be racist against their own race? That's a dumb assumption. I have a white friend that only dates Asian girls and the reason is because his white mom molested him when he was a kid. While I'm sure some of the white girls were molested as kids, there's too many of them for that to explain all of them. I am from the U. S. by the way.

[modelUN242]

No you do, why are you so concerned about this? So if a white girl has been with a black guy you wouldn’t date her? But if she’s been with 50 white guys, you would. No I don’t think you can be racist towards your own race, that’s laughable. People criticize their own race all the time and no one cares, it only makes a difference when it’s not your own so it’s lol racist. People have dating preferences and if they don’t want to date their own race, that’s fine, there’s nothing wrong with that. People who pass off as “white” have native American or latino in them. I’m pretty sure there are white girls who feel the exact way you’re feeling, you’re exaggerating this to be honest.

[Asker]

How dare you put words in my mouth. I'm pretty sure the reason you're getting so defensive is because you date black guys too. While that's your choice and whether you think it's "hip" or not is besides the point. I do not and want nothing to do with that culture. I'm not exaggerating. I've literally seen girl after girl attacking white guys on social media. Everytime I see it, I cringe even more after seeing an interracial couple.

[modelUN242]

I’m not a white girl and no never dated anyone. I’m just telling you from their perspective. Maybe get off social media then, it’s pretty toxic.

[Asker]

So you're telling me that the real reason white women are dating them is because they see them as better in bed? You're seriously about to make me puke. I don't use social media for the most part but it's hard not to for any extended time period.

[geri_]

Some girls like white guys, some like black guys, some don't care about colour at all. You could just as easily as why guys go for girls with blue eyes.

[Crowejerms]

@geri_ i agree with u

[Asker]

Blue eyes evolved as a reproductive advantage because they are attractive. That's not even a question.

[Xx420xxDANKOxx420xX]

Because it's easier and grants them validation for being so openminded and that shit.

Why, because, Some say... "Different is good!", "Love don't judge!", "We are all the same race!", etc.

What I'd like mixed couples and everyone to know: We are different and adapted to our regions and people. Mixing with outsiders makes babies that doesn't really fit in anywhere typographically, and it's therefore destructive to humankind. Mixing destroyes diversity, because we aren't diverse when we are the same. Different and adapted is how nature made us. Doing unnatural things is destructive, because we are nature.

Go google "Problems mixed children has"

[Asker]

Exactly I consider diversity a good thing. Not to mention it took how many thousands of years for traits such as blonde hair and blue eyes to evolve. The only reason those traits developed is because people found them to be more attractive. I can understand at times, you just happen to develop a relationship with a person of another race, but that doesn't seem to be what's happening at all. There are people in very high places in the world that want us all to intermix so there is no difference between any of us. I've also heard that some of those same people practice incestual breeding, admittedly I don't know how true that is.

[HappyAccident]

Ok now here's 2 reasons
You're right when it came to SM witch obviously there's nothing wrong with dating black people but maybe with white guys it's just looked differently cause when u think about it racial Dating wasn't that strong in the past as it is now probably cause you see what everyone else see white on white lol
Now my second reason would be Kardashians they made that jump popular showing people there racial relationship so yea a lot float around the media an celebs so it's really a good thing tbh lol

[Anonymous]

It's much more simple. Follow the average dick size. Women want bigger dicks. Asian women prefer white men or Asian men, white women prefer black men or white men. Black women prefer only black men. They all want to go one step further in the dick size scale or stay where they are.

You can also think the dick size metaphorically. High testosterone level, masculine physique, dominant personality etc. Also Black women are the least desired by all men, because black people in general are more masculine. Their females are also less submissive than Asian females who are the most small and submissive of all races, including the men. So follow the masculinity and femininity scale. Women want more masculine men and men want more feminine women.

[Opinion Owner]

But you are right on the bias thing. You can see tons of commercials, adds and stock photos used even on this site where a black man is with a white woman, but you almost never see it other way around. And they are always very happy in the picture. But when you see stock pictures of black couples, they are almost always arguing or clearly very unhappy. Their pictures are used in much more negative context.

I live in a country where black people are easily in the minority and people are not big fans of immigration. And even here I've seen adds where a black man is looking at the camera and white woman is hugging him and looking away from the camera. So when a white man sees the add, he sees a white woman turning back to him and a black man staring at him. Who ever made this add is very aware that this would piss off a lot of men.

First I started to notice this trend by myself but later I stumbled on a material that confirmed my suspicions and I was very happy that I wasn't just subconsciously filtering what I see by being biased but that this is actually a thing.

[modelUN242]

That's a great answer.

[Asker]

@modelUN242 If that's true then I totally just lost interest in white women. It's not true though because the whole "bigger dick" thing is a myth. I think the real problem is that black people start puberty at a younger age and after white girls become "race traitors" no white guys want to date them anymore.

[modelUN242]

I’ve seen plenty of white girls dating white guys. It’s more common than you think. If black people are the minority in your country, why are you upset? Which country is this? Anyway, people dating people based on their race are stupid, you should look for values and personality.

[Asker]

@modelUN242 If you take demographics of the country as a whole then blacks are the minority. If you do it by state, blacks are the majority in some states. Of course dating by race is stupid. Dating your own race is the norm, dating outside your race is an aberration that is only common for white girls and black guys.

[Opinion Owner]

@asker it's not like all women are like that so no need to start hating all white women, consider the ones with "jungle fewer" as those whose pussies are just too worn and they need bigger dicks. Like I said they either want bigger or what they already have. It doesn't matter if it's a myth or not, that's what many women still believe and says it's the reason. I've also heard a few Asian women tell they don't wanna date black guys because from their experience they have too big dicks for them. You also say dating outside of your race is only common for white women and black men, but it's also common for white men and Asian women. I also said the dick size can be seen as metaphorical.

[Asker]

It's not common for white guys to date Asian girls. I live in an Asian area and I can tell you almost all the Asians date other Asians. Also, Asian girls are more traditional and still believe in the stereotype of the criminal black man. They probably just used the dick size as an excuse to not sound racist. I don't believe most women date guys for sex and neither does dick size equal the quality of sex so I'm not sure how you make that argument.

[Opinion Owner]

Believe what makes you feel the most comfortable if you want. I'll not bully you with the truth then.

[Asker]

I LIVE IN AN Asian AREA. How are you going to tell me what I see around me constantly? You probably don't even live in the U. S.

[Asker]

By the way, you said something which caught my attention. What you mentioned about interracial advertisements, I've noticed the same thing here in the states. There has been an enormous amount of advertisements depicting interracial couples and mixed race people. There is only a handful of companies that pretty much control all advertising. I haven't seen the outright racial stuff aimed at white men like the stuff you mentioned, but I have heard of it in Europe. Rest assured, there is some type of racemixing agenda being pushed on us. Who do you think is behind it? I usually hear the it's the rich Jews behind it, they want to destroy white pride and eventually eliminate other races. As extreme as this sounds, I've seen a lot of evidence supporting this theory although nobody can really "prove" it's happening but it's basically accepted as true.

[NamerOfStars]

That you've got it backwards: social changes have made it less acceptable to be racist, and thus made people more willing to date outside their own ethnicity.

[Asker]

75% of interracial relationships I see are white girls with black guys.

[NamerOfStars]

So who are the black girls dating?

[Asker]

They are dating black guys too. I rarely see white guys dating black girls. In fact, most other people seem to have a strong preference for their own race.

[NamerOfStars]

Then maybe the black guys are doing something right.

[Asker]

I highly doubt it. Like I pointed out, this trend started in the last 20 years. I watched it happen as social media became popular.

[Slim57]

It's pushed by media and trendy or they're rebelling, but if it's none of any of that then props to them for not seeing color

[Asker]

I think women are more colorblind in general but I agree with the first part of your statement more. I can't give them props because at the end of the day, race isn't just a color. It's a genetic lineage with an associated culture. I would give them props otherwise for overcoming barriers but the reality is they have fallen prey for the racemixing agenda that is being pushed on them. This is all nothing more than the end result that feminism and social justice have had on society. For that, I can only shake my head at them. It's controlled rebellion not true rebellion and just another ego game that people play.

[thegirlfromthething]

Interracial dating is more socially acceptable so you’ll see more of all kinds of interracial combinations. It’s not that white girls hate white guys now- it’s just easier to explore other options.

[Asker]

It's more acceptable now but that doesn't explain anything. Actually some white girls do hate white guys. I've seen it...

[thegirlfromthething]

It actually does because people are more likely to do something when they aren’t shamed or excluded for it. Some white girls may hate white guys but that doesn’t mean the majority do or that’s the only reason they’d choose black guys. Although based on your responses to other commenters I doubt you’ll accept that answer.

[Asker]

I don't accept that answer and I will tell you why. I don't see white guys going out in large numbers to date black or hispanic girls. I don't see white guys going out in large numbers to be friends with black guys either. I only see white girls dating black guys in large numbers.

[Thatsamazing]

Why so many idiots care?

[Asker]

Piss off. Everyone already knows you're a leftist with a fake profile.

[Thatsamazing]

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[Thatsamazing]

Come on now. Don't be shy.

[Emma05]

It's accepted now, it wasn't the case before.

[Asker]

That's true to an extent but we don't see much of an increase in interracial dating except for white girls and black guys. Most others still have a strong preference for their own race.

[hknmhmn4]

Their own prefer