If I’m interested in a girl and she doesn’t feel the same but wants to keep me around as a “friend” I’m quick to walk. It’s the only way to keep my self dignity. Once she decides she’s not attracted to me there is virtually nothing I can do to change her mind. If I stick around I’ll just get exploited for attention, one way favors and free counseling.
But what shocks & disgusts me is how women past 30 are still confident this is okay. I used to think this was a young girl’s game. I figured they would gain a better understanding of men of how men think. They would realize it’s extremely insulting to play dumb and pull that bs on a guy who has feelings. Yet I saw a 45 yr old woman on here admitting she still does that bs to guys because she likes the attention. Selfish, immature and disgusting.
Am I just seeing things? Or do women never grow up? I have had to reject a few girls in the last couple of years. I was always honest after the first date and treated them how I would like to be treated in that scenario (tactful honesty). I’m just shocked grown ass women are still doing this.