I get tongue tied when she's around, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I do have a lot of females friends, and can easily talk to girls and comfortable around them. But there's one particular girl, who is a classmate of one of my friends, I like her. and in fact have a huge crush on her, but the problem is whenever she's around I get tongue tied. I can't find much to say. I'm pretty cool, intelligent, smart, and funny when I'm with other girls. but whenever she enters the scene, it feels like cat got my tongue. she seems to like me too, and she keeps trying to find ways to talk to me or meet me. what should I do to get more comfy when she's around. help me please

[Anonymous]

ohh boy do I know how you feel this one girl makes me feel like my brain just melted. at one point it was bad enough that the sight of her made me nervous, I would want to go talk to her but I would be so nervous to begin with I thought I just made a fool of myself. what makes it worse is like you I'm fine with other girls.

what calmed me down though was when I noticed she was a litlle nervous too around me. she would talk really fast, always adjust her clothes, hair and worried about how she looked. so I figured chances are she likes me and is just as nervous but if I don't do something nothing is going to happen.

[anonymgirl265]

When I like a guy that I'm tongue tied around I try to just pretend in my mind that he is one of my brothers/brothers friends so I feel a little bit more comfortable. And then I also remind myself that if I like this guy and ever want to get anywhere with them then I had better step up and be confident or I'll never get a date...

So yeah MAN UP and just force yourself to be confident and overcome it! :)

[Asker]

okay, that might do the trick. I will try to pretend in my mind like she's one of my buddies. ty

[minx101d]

Don't do anything. I love it when a guy is tongue tired around me because he likes me. It makes me want him more, if I like him already, it's so adorable.

[Asker]

hmmm..if that's the case you solved my problem. I hope she thinks the same. :-)

[12elizabeth]

you should relax if it's meant to be then everything will take it's course perfectly.