Suddenly I don’t feel the urge to message him anymore? I thought I liked him but now this?

[Anonymous]

I really think that I like this guy. We went on a few dates and he is super cute and nice. I could really see myself with him. Up until yesterday all I wanted to do was message him asap.

But he sometimes ignores me and now suddenly I feel like ignoring him too. He told me that he is about to leave to the other side of the country due to work opportunities and I was so sad that I’m losing the one guy everything felt so easy with.

I am confusing my damn self. I thought I liked him but I dont even bother messaging him back. What is the psychological reason for my behaviour?

[i22on]

Thats reminds me to situation i have with one girl. We were on few dates and due the covid nothing really happend so we stay juat friends. But she sometimes just ignores my mesages. So maybe its kinda girl thing. To show you dont need that guy or something like that. Or some stupid game.

Or maybe you don't need to text him because he is moving so because of that you don't have chance anymore with him.

[ragequeen]

You are holding on for some reason. Your gut is telling you to let go, but there is something else that is making it difficult for you. Are you afraid of being alone? Are you worried that you won`t find anyone like him? Are you scared that he might stop liking you if you tell him you lost interest? Are you desperate to find a boyfriend? Looking deep within yourself usually helps determine why you are in doubt. When you find out the reason it`s easier to work with.

[Shah11]

Snake things happen with me many times. 🤣

[Shah11]

My thinking change for girls if I do masturbath by imagine her. 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

You are female.