Why do *some* women call themselves "bad bitches"?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, they whine about being "objectified" but then seconds later they'll be claining to be the biggest "*****" and "slut" around.

Obviously not all women are like this, thank God, but I've come across a fair few who act like this...

Why behave like this?

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+1 y

Let me just make this clear:

Do what you want, sleep with whomever you want, but nothing cancels my right to an opinion.

Women who sleep around, play with feelings, and are rpoud of calling themselves biches and sluts AREN'T long-term material, for me and for many, many men out there. So don't go complaining if no one takes you seriously.

[MountAverage]

Probably for a similarly dumbass reason as why some guys call themselves "alphas". Some people try to cover up their tiny egos with coolness and don't realise they're just being cringy as fuck.

Why are you equating "sleeping around" with "playing with people's feelings" though? I mean, I totally agree that playing with people's feelings and being manipulative etc. is shitty behavior, but it's not like only people who sleep around do that. And conversely, sleeping around doesn't automatically mean you behave shitty.

[Wowboi]

They suffer from daddy issues. They also call "it" freedom - They're free to be outlandish and stupid as they wish and you dare to contradict it. She calls herself a bad bitch and her gfs calls her a slut but as soon as a man attributes what she does to a sluthood, Hell breaks loose because the man who was supposed to have been around during her childhood to her respect was never around because her slut mother used the law to alienate him so she can have her slut freedom and be a bad bitch. It's called slut legacy 😂

[Anonymous]

Usually when a woman calls herself a bad bitch its a way to call herself a boss, a chick that gets shit done, not a slut. A "bad bitch" isn't a bitch at all but a powerful woman who is confident in herself.

A woman can also sleep around just as a man does and not be a "slut" but a multifaceted person with a heart, life and career. Women just want to be on an even playing field with men and not made to feel ashamed of themselves for their nuances.

[Asker]

Well they can be on an even palying ground in my eyes too... abhorrent human beings who play around with feelings.

[Opinion Owner]

Sleeping with different people and playing with people's feelings aren't the same thing. If you are direct about what you want and what your intentions are then the man or woman you are sleeping with is an adult who can do what they want with that information. Cheating is a different story obviously but if we are talking about "bad bitches" that really has nothing to do with women who cheat on their boyfriends or even sleep around for that matter.

You not wanting to date these girls long term doesn't make them wrong or abhorrent. It just makes them not your type. It isn't the job of all women to be the type that you would want to marry. Its their job to be themselves.

[Anonymous]

I dont like these words, i guess some women use it to make amends with such degrading hurtful terms. Like black people using the N word. Its to claim the power from it and not be objectified. Those words really were hellish for me to hear or get called in the past. So I understand why some women use it like that. As a badge of owner instead of a weapon pointed at her

[Blindguyplaying]

That stems from inner city culture. It's the difference between shit and The shit or good shit and bad shit. It's used loosely, however people fail to realize the that there is no cue to be able to differentiate between the two as you would for shit and THE shit. Maybe BAD bitch instead of just bitch.

[Unit1]

Right?
Whenever they think of themselves as bad bitches, this is what I imagine them to be.
Girlfriend material flies right out of the window.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/pPw_izFr5PA

They wanna be a bad bitch, they're gonna be treated like one.

[Jackblue]

Same reason why black people will sometimes call themselves the N word but will not tolerate a white person saying it, they want to prove that they are more powerful than the word and can claim it for themselves.

[Asker]

Except the N word is demeaning of one's skin, a factor the individual has no choice in.

Calling yourself, and in fact being proud of being a slut or bitch is just 1) embarrassing and 2) really shows your poor self-worth.

[Jackblue]

There is a high probability of being called a slut or bitch if you are a woman, different people have different definitions of the word and some people throw it around a lot.

[aliali8]

I don't know. i don't see you complaining about how men can sleep around without consequences while women can't.

[Asker]

You don't because that wasn't my question. If you really want to know, I find men who sleep around and brag about it to be pretty abhorrent too.

[HikerDude]

They're trying way too hard to seem edgy and cooler than they actually are.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Bad B**** usually in reference to themselves means a woman who is successful. Nevertheless, I think its stupid to call themselves that.

[blondfrog]

Same reason why some men think they are called being called douchebags.

[DiscomfortZone]

Because attention whores don't care how and why they get their attention.

[Waldoe]

they are saying that they are "Strong" bad "Women" bitches, and labels are meaningless...

[Anonymous]

It's both stunning and brave, you facist, to revel in debased behaviour and call it a new freedom.

[RagnarRedbeard]

It's because they're retarded.

[jahaims]

Because they need an excuse to act moronic

[iFarted]

They think it's "empowering" lolol

[bclbn77006]

because they think its cool.

[Anonymous]

Because they don't have an actual personality lol