Why do I feel so bad about visiting my lesbian friends without my boyfriend?

[ragequeen]

I got invited to my lesbian friends house for the weekend for a sleepover. I feel so bad about not asking if my boyfriend can come along. I feel so anxious even thinking about it and I feel like I should bring him everywhere... Should I ask him to come or just enjoy a girls night with my friends?

[ChrisMaster69]

Just enjoy quality time with your friends.

it’s important in a relationship to have some me time.

you can and should have your own circle of friends to chill and unwind with.

also having had mates invite their gf’s over for a guys weekend is a pain.

likely same for a girls weekend when a guy is invited.

the sexuality of the people does not really come in to it, unless you have some specific guy hating friends, but with a girl at a guy weekend, you get annoying mates that become creeps.

[rxm_bxl]

Cause you are obviously into your lesbian friend otherwise her being lesbian wouldn't have been mentioned.
If not the first, you are definitely worried that she might like you and try to make a move on you or whatever it is there is an underlying issue I think.

But no, you shouldn't invite your boyfriend, you have to continuing living a separate life from his. Don't be the girl who takes her boyfriend everywhere please and forgets she's an individual apart from her boyfriend.

Also think about it, if your friend was straight, would this be a problem?

[AliceTheNguyener]

I don't see why you feel bad. Its a girls' night among friends so the sexual orientation doesn't matter since they know you have a boyfriend and should respect that as friends. Your boyfriend isn't a girl either so bringing him to a girls' night is creepy.

[Jjpayne]

I think with lesbian friends and in general with girlfriends, for sleep overs I think it's just better with the girls now for a day trip or a visit that's different but sleepovers I think are best when it's all the same gender friends for the most part because it's more comfortable that way

[Josh4206]

I would ask your friends if they were ok with it. A night with the girls would be fun too prob. Up to you in the end.

[YHL6965]

In relationships, I think it's important to keep time to yourself, to not spend every single moment with your partner to give each other a "break" so that you can then miss each other instead of getting sick of each other. Most couple I have seen that do everything together end up shouting at each other very often.

It's okay to take some time for yourself, just yourself so that you can enjoy things on your own without having to worry about your partner.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you worried about what might happen between you and the lesbian? Are you worried that your boyfriend will think that something happened and that's why he wasn't invited?

[Nahid1707]

It’s okay and normal to be away from your partner sometimes as an adult

[Guanfei]

You can go to your friend without fucking her.
As you'd go to any other friend place.

[Twenty2]

You feel bad because they are lesbians and lesbians are sexually attracted to girls so in a way, you're gonna spend night with people who wanna have sex with you. That's why you are feeling bad.

[HusamRocks]

You should take him because u will need him at some point 🐰

[_Troian_]

Damn.. u went to your lesbian friend's house for sleep over? Lmao, thats good she didn't eat you alive there.

[Jerre]

Yes you should. Never know, even your lesbian friends might enjoy his cock.

[ChrisBlue]

Good ol Jerre never fails to give good answers. 😅

[Still-alive]

Do you think these lesbian friends will try to steal you away from him or something? Lol

[TallAnon]

Talk to him about it, lol. Chances are he's perfectly fine with it.

[Clarke498]

Well, to ask him without knowing if it's ok fruit your friends can create a strange atmosphere.

[Diamold]

But do you do sexual stuff with your lesbian friends?

[rebeliouse]

@ragequeen
lol come along why to watch a load of lesbian sex

yes you suck as a girlfriend as thats every boys dream lol

[Bigjake1019]

I don't know 😔😕 could I ask you something

[ragequeen]

Yes ask away

[Bigjake1019]

Would you want to chat i really don’t have any friends to talk to

[Maspolomas]

Go have fun without him you may enjoy it more

[Anonymous]

Enjoy your girls night out.

[GAGSucksBalls1]

because you're too young to have a boyfriend

[MrCreep]

You can't be serious lol

[Yellovv]

Do you like lesbian things?

[Anonymous]

do you think she is going to come on to you?

[Jmmmfi4]

Did you have sex?