Oh it must be so horrible to have people give you nice compliments about being attractive. SMH.
You will never know the power and beauty of your youth until it’s gone. You should just enjoy it while it lasts because there will come a day when you will never (genuinely) hear compliments like this anymore.
Back in my early 20s I had women telling me I was cute (or hot) at least once or twice every week. Now I hear that maybe 3 or 4 times a year if that.
Now as a man I don’t care (as much). But don’t me mistaken a genuine compliment from someone who is attractive does go a long ways (even if I don’t show it.). I remember hearing a now famous actress tell me many years ago I was very cute when I met her at an athletic competition. At the time she was on the cover of Maxim magazines.
The problem for so many young people (particularly young women) is the future doesn’t seem real. It is very real. Right now you are in your prime when it comes to physical attraction. Just enjoy it.
Understand some girls being tired of hearing it because every girl wants to feel like they're different.
So when a lot of guys describe girls in a certain categories in general by a common term a girl might often feel as you said it's "impersonal" and "unoriginal".
And you're right that it is both those things. And for most guys they'd benefit from broadening their word choices to describe girls. That said. Wtf do you need, Ernest Hemingway? Lol
It's odd to take issue with a guy stating that you are of a certain caliber of female because he used a common term. Can't imagine a guy saying, "ugh, you called me handsome? So unoriginal. Get away from me".
Sounds kind of like a prick if you imagine a guy doing it right? Comes across the same here
Not in a million years.
Too many guys harassing me just cuz "i'm hot" or "sexy"without paying mind that I am actual human with feelings.
Me being HOT while not even wearing anything revealing makes me feel like i'm some flesh bag with whom you can discuss your sexual urges.
Only my boyfriend can call me hot, as I know that is not the only reason he likes me, but overall I am very, very, very unhappy with compliments from people I don't know.
Stuff like "you have a pretty scarf" or "these shoes really suit you" are fine, as this is usually more fashion talk, not drooling sex talk... ughh *shudders*
It's a compliment. I take it as meaning that I'm physically appealing to them. With more emphasis on the body instead of the face.
And Kayla, to be honest "cute" just doesn't suit you. I would call you "enchanting", "lovely" or "appealing". I don't know, you just have this unique beauty going on.
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It's just a way of saying I like you I think and to be honest I will say that you are hot LOL I'm giggling right now I think you had to accept it and go with it because you're not only hot but you are beautiful and you are sexy and I would go with it if I was you because it fits you well you have to understand when coming from me I look at the inside first I look at your heart who you are within the real you and that part of you is so beautiful everything on the outside it's just bonus I think but anyway I'm sorry if It embarrasses you or if you feel embarrassed by it please don't maybe take a better look at yourself and be more confident because you are all the above
If i am passing by some cat-callers and they said that i dont mind. But some guys i am talking with and they tell me damn you r hot. Its too direct and can make me nervous. Unless he is my boyfriend 🔥👹
Yes.
Well, i know women have those cat-calling situations and most of them hate them. I can see why.
But, on the other hand, if i find someone hot, it doesn't mean i don't find them appealing in all other areas, such are soul and mind. Calling you hot or thinking about you in that way doesn't mean i see only that abput you or that i think that's the most important thing.
And i usually see that very young women complain about being called hot. Maybe i'm wrong, but they take their beauty for granted, or maybe even don't appreciate it that much. But as they get older, they appreciate it more. And i think it usually comes from experience and making a better inner balance between different aspects of being a woman. Or from insecurities that they don't look as good as they used to, in worser scenario.
Yes, some people do seem to look more 'hot' than others, just based on their natural exterior package.
But hot is really in the mind. Well, when it comes from the person themselves, not from someone else.
I think it's always a compliment. But it definitely could be thrown around too easily, and you can tell with some guys, it means very little if it's used that way.
Don’t take it the wrong way, but calling you hot would be wrong.
Very pretty, lovely, yes cute.
to be Hot is when a girl is literally a head Turner when she walks in to a room.
me called hot, even if I was on fire I would not get that lol.
I am happy with simply having the other person like me and call me darling.
I don’t really care what others think.
Geez... I wanna be so hot that I am tired of hearing about it! Did you really think about this question when you asked it? Most people are average and don't get that many compliments. You apparently get a ton of compliments, more than you can handle, apparently.
Honestly, perhaps you should invoke a little humility. It's really off putting when people
'complain' about getting too many compliments. Especially when the vast majority don't get any.
And yes, I like to be called 'hot' or anything else positive, because that person is telling me something good about myself. And I really, really appreciate it when it happens, each and every single time.
No, and pretty much for the same reasons. I used to hare being called cute, but now I prefer it over hot. Hot just doesn’t suit me. I don’t like Handsome either because it just reminds me of my mother.
Yes & no.
I like all types of the compliments and have been called all diff types by diff people. But I would wanna be all the compliments to someone I care for to feel special and since there’s different sides to me... and yet mostly prefer to be called “beautiful” above all.
I tend to be indifferent about things like that. I don't hate them because I know it's accurate to someone's reality. But I don't love it because it's something easy & surface level. It's easy to be hot if you're hot. But harder to be other things that I try wayy harder at. Like being a nice person.
Damn straight, I love being showered with praise, and really? Asking why? It feels good, it feels really good to have someone want to spend their time paying attention to me and telling me how I'm who they want to see, touch, smell, lick, whatever, right here, right now.
It can be unoriginal, I'm not expecting poetry or anything. Hell, it can be unoriginal and cliched with broken English, I just love those moments when someone else is completely focused on me.
1. Your body is NOT too skinny; it's excellent.
2. While you are baby-faced cute, your look is very distinctive and exotic - the kind other "baby-faced cute" women do not have.
These two facts put together do make you very attractive aka "hot".
I'm not in a position to be choosy about the compliments I receive. I'm still riding the high of one girl telling me I'm a "solid 7.5/10" in middle school 6 or 7 years ago. I'm not saying you aren't allowed to feel the way you do, but I hope you at least realize that there are worse problems to have.
I feel like it's more of an honor when a guy gets called hot by a woman but she could also be teasing him too 🤔😅
But overall for me, as a guy, I'd really like the compliment
Well you have to remember that other people won't always see you the way you see yourself.
Personally I'd like the compliment regardless if I agreed with it or not (it's their view/opinion and still a compliment). If anyone ever called me hot, which has never happened lol.
" I find it impersonal and unoriginal, plus I don’t think it suits me. I’m more of the baby-faced cute girl that’s far to skinny to have the body that would warrant the compliment of being hot.".. I personally think you are thinkin about it a bit too much, and also takin the compliment for granted.. Compliments are a blessing.. Now I'm not talking about "catcalling" like "hey sexy mama", or "nice a$$".. I appreciate any Compliments I get really..
Hmm I definitely do like it I take it as a compliment ofc it’s a positive thing. I do prefer to be called cute or pretty cuz it suits me more loll.
I like it makes me feel good, but when I was single it was annoying because that was pretty much the only reason why some guys wanted to date me. Like why couldnt he like me because Im attractive and have a good personality trait like being smart or funny or something like that. I’m happy that the guy I’m with now likes me for who I truly am:)
It's one of the few I like besides hunk. I don't like handsome, cute, smart, etc, because you can't tell for sure the girl actually wants you. With "hot" and "hunk", it's almost guaranteed.
It depends on who says it.
If it's a random person that tries to hit on me then no not really.
If it's my girlfriend or one of my friends then yeah 😊
It's fine. So long as he keeps his hands to himself... Otherwise he'll be feeling different type of heat.
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