Oh it must be so horrible to have people give you nice compliments about being attractive. SMH.
You will never know the power and beauty of your youth until it’s gone. You should just enjoy it while it lasts because there will come a day when you will never (genuinely) hear compliments like this anymore.
Back in my early 20s I had women telling me I was cute (or hot) at least once or twice every week. Now I hear that maybe 3 or 4 times a year if that.
Now as a man I don’t care (as much). But don’t me mistaken a genuine compliment from someone who is attractive does go a long ways (even if I don’t show it.). I remember hearing a now famous actress tell me many years ago I was very cute when I met her at an athletic competition. At the time she was on the cover of Maxim magazines.
The problem for so many young people (particularly young women) is the future doesn’t seem real. It is very real. Right now you are in your prime when it comes to physical attraction. Just enjoy it.
Understand some girls being tired of hearing it because every girl wants to feel like they're different.
So when a lot of guys describe girls in a certain categories in general by a common term a girl might often feel as you said it's "impersonal" and "unoriginal".
And you're right that it is both those things. And for most guys they'd benefit from broadening their word choices to describe girls. That said. Wtf do you need, Ernest Hemingway? Lol
It's odd to take issue with a guy stating that you are of a certain caliber of female because he used a common term. Can't imagine a guy saying, "ugh, you called me handsome? So unoriginal. Get away from me".
Sounds kind of like a prick if you imagine a guy doing it right? Comes across the same here
Not in a million years.
Too many guys harassing me just cuz "i'm hot" or "sexy"without paying mind that I am actual human with feelings.
Me being HOT while not even wearing anything revealing makes me feel like i'm some flesh bag with whom you can discuss your sexual urges.
Only my boyfriend can call me hot, as I know that is not the only reason he likes me, but overall I am very, very, very unhappy with compliments from people I don't know.
Stuff like "you have a pretty scarf" or "these shoes really suit you" are fine, as this is usually more fashion talk, not drooling sex talk... ughh *shudders*
I know right! It's different when it's girls, even lesbians who complimented me never went into sex territory, but most guys just...
It's a compliment. I take it as meaning that I'm physically appealing to them. With more emphasis on the body instead of the face.
And Kayla, to be honest "cute" just doesn't suit you. I would call you "enchanting", "lovely" or "appealing". I don't know, you just have this unique beauty going on.
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It's just a way of saying I like you I think and to be honest I will say that you are hot LOL I'm giggling right now I think you had to accept it and go with it because you're not only hot but you are beautiful and you are sexy and I would go with it if I was you because it fits you well you have to understand when coming from me I look at the inside first I look at your heart who you are within the real you and that part of you is so beautiful everything on the outside it's just bonus I think but anyway I'm sorry if It embarrasses you or if you feel embarrassed by it please don't maybe take a better look at yourself and be more confident because you are all the above
If i am passing by some cat-callers and they said that i dont mind. But some guys i am talking with and they tell me damn you r hot. Its too direct and can make me nervous. Unless he is my boyfriend 🔥👹
Nervous mean you don't like it, or just you don't know what to do next?
Yes.
Well, i know women have those cat-calling situations and most of them hate them. I can see why.
But, on the other hand, if i find someone hot, it doesn't mean i don't find them appealing in all other areas, such are soul and mind. Calling you hot or thinking about you in that way doesn't mean i see only that abput you or that i think that's the most important thing.
And i usually see that very young women complain about being called hot. Maybe i'm wrong, but they take their beauty for granted, or maybe even don't appreciate it that much. But as they get older, they appreciate it more. And i think it usually comes from experience and making a better inner balance between different aspects of being a woman. Or from insecurities that they don't look as good as they used to, in worser scenario.
Yes, some people do seem to look more 'hot' than others, just based on their natural exterior package.
But hot is really in the mind. Well, when it comes from the person themselves, not from someone else.
I think it's always a compliment. But it definitely could be thrown around too easily, and you can tell with some guys, it means very little if it's used that way.
Don’t take it the wrong way, but calling you hot would be wrong.
Very pretty, lovely, yes cute.
to be Hot is when a girl is literally a head Turner when she walks in to a room.
me called hot, even if I was on fire I would not get that lol.
I am happy with simply having the other person like me and call me darling.
I don’t really care what others think.
Geez... I wanna be so hot that I am tired of hearing about it! Did you really think about this question when you asked it? Most people are average and don't get that many compliments. You apparently get a ton of compliments, more than you can handle, apparently.
Honestly, perhaps you should invoke a little humility. It's really off putting when people
'complain' about getting too many compliments. Especially when the vast majority don't get any.
And yes, I like to be called 'hot' or anything else positive, because that person is telling me something good about myself. And I really, really appreciate it when it happens, each and every single time.
No, and pretty much for the same reasons. I used to hare being called cute, but now I prefer it over hot. Hot just doesn’t suit me. I don’t like Handsome either because it just reminds me of my mother.
Yes & no.
I like all types of the compliments and have been called all diff types by diff people. But I would wanna be all the compliments to someone I care for to feel special and since there’s different sides to me... and yet mostly prefer to be called “beautiful” above all.
I tend to be indifferent about things like that. I don't hate them because I know it's accurate to someone's reality. But I don't love it because it's something easy & surface level. It's easy to be hot if you're hot. But harder to be other things that I try wayy harder at. Like being a nice person.
Damn straight, I love being showered with praise, and really? Asking why? It feels good, it feels really good to have someone want to spend their time paying attention to me and telling me how I'm who they want to see, touch, smell, lick, whatever, right here, right now.
It can be unoriginal, I'm not expecting poetry or anything. Hell, it can be unoriginal and cliched with broken English, I just love those moments when someone else is completely focused on me.
1. Your body is NOT too skinny; it's excellent.
2. While you are baby-faced cute, your look is very distinctive and exotic - the kind other "baby-faced cute" women do not have.
These two facts put together do make you very attractive aka "hot".
I'm not in a position to be choosy about the compliments I receive. I'm still riding the high of one girl telling me I'm a "solid 7.5/10" in middle school 6 or 7 years ago. I'm not saying you aren't allowed to feel the way you do, but I hope you at least realize that there are worse problems to have.
I feel like it's more of an honor when a guy gets called hot by a woman but she could also be teasing him too 🤔😅
But overall for me, as a guy, I'd really like the compliment
Well you have to remember that other people won't always see you the way you see yourself.
Personally I'd like the compliment regardless if I agreed with it or not (it's their view/opinion and still a compliment). If anyone ever called me hot, which has never happened lol.
" I find it impersonal and unoriginal, plus I don’t think it suits me. I’m more of the baby-faced cute girl that’s far to skinny to have the body that would warrant the compliment of being hot.".. I personally think you are thinkin about it a bit too much, and also takin the compliment for granted.. Compliments are a blessing.. Now I'm not talking about "catcalling" like "hey sexy mama", or "nice a$$".. I appreciate any Compliments I get really..
Hmm I definitely do like it I take it as a compliment ofc it’s a positive thing. I do prefer to be called cute or pretty cuz it suits me more loll.
@Hannah_le Yeah well don't pay attention, he might have a small penis lol
I like it makes me feel good, but when I was single it was annoying because that was pretty much the only reason why some guys wanted to date me. Like why couldnt he like me because Im attractive and have a good personality trait like being smart or funny or something like that. I’m happy that the guy I’m with now likes me for who I truly am:)
It's one of the few I like besides hunk. I don't like handsome, cute, smart, etc, because you can't tell for sure the girl actually wants you. With "hot" and "hunk", it's almost guaranteed.
It depends on who says it.
If it's a random person that tries to hit on me then no not really.
If it's my girlfriend or one of my friends then yeah 😊
It's fine. So long as he keeps his hands to himself... Otherwise he'll be feeling different type of heat.
It doesn’t really bother me. If you’re gonna compliment my looks, I’d much rather be told I’m beautiful.
I dont really like being called hot, i prefer more cute. My style is also more on the cute side, rather than hot.
I actually feel stressed when some randome guy call me hot. And i hate cat cslling too
Kayla, you are a cute person. Beautiful is a better word to describe than hot.
Pfftt i wouldn't mind at all, it quite flattering. Almost all flattering to me, except the ones that are back handed and even the ones that goes along the lines of "you're... for a...". Yeah thats not it.
There are definitely contexts when I wouldn't appreciate that, but otherwise, in general, it is flattering and I don't like to overthink it. You can be cute AND hot! I tend to get both. And any woman, in my opinion, has the capacity to be both!
Well it only comes from strangers and sometimes it's literally strangers walking by the street lol so, it's definitely a nice thing to hear but.. Meh..
If it is from a stranger then no. It feels like you're just a piece of meat.
I said not really. Because there’s more to me than my outer shell.
I don't think anybody has ever called me hot so I can't say.
No. I don’t like it at all because it makes me feel like my looks are the only thing that matters. Never mind my spirit, my heart, or my intelligence.
So... You get offended when people say you're hot?
Geez women... It's not a compliment unless you say exactly what they want to hear.
I wouldn't mind if someone called me hot, pretty, or grogeous.
I have never been called hot but I would like to think that I feel sexy and confident
I don't think I am one that has ever been described as hot, just cute. But I'll take it!
when I’ve been called “hot” it was extremely flattering!
although I have to admit that men usually don’t get outright complemented like that unless it’s a woman we are in a relationship with. 😛
A compliment is a compliment. No matter what it is, I carry that with me with pride!
Hell yeah!! Because i am hot!!!
I like it, I would prefer if someone called me pretty tho
i think it depend of the situation
It’s pretty much meaningless. I just take it as you’re attracted to me. That’s probably something I already knew… It’s like saying water is wet.
i love it :)
not sure why anyone would not like being called hot haha
I've never been described that way. I've been described as cute a lot, and I much prefer that. Hot sounds more like someone you'd have a one night stand with, and cute is more the person you'd have a relationship with.
Simples...
I don't like the way I look. I am an overweight middle-aged man, slowly going bald. I don't think I would qualify as the sexiest man on the planet. However, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
So basically you're saying you're not hot enough to be çalled hot. While I completely agree, I believe you should count your blessings and show some gratitude instead of fishing for cheap complements.
This far in my life after only ever being told how ugly I am, I wouldn't like it, it sounds too much like a lie to me and I don't like being lied to, plus it might also seem like pity to me and I despise pity.
I belive it is more of a flattery word. Baby face sounds very appropriate for you. I believe in unique compliments. I wish I had written record of all the compliments I have given and view of the people compliment given to.
You can tell this is a question only for women, by women.
Hot, pretty, beautiful, cute, it's all the same to me. I appreciate it, provided the context isn't awry.
I would like to be described that way but never have been.
it makes me uncomfortable because i don't want to fail to live up to the hype
I'm almost 50 so i don't have much more time to be hot.
I like how you immediately started to put yourself down, if someone called you hot its because in their eyes it best describes you. Regardless of how you may define yourself
I do like it, especially if it's my girlfriend saying it. 😁
Some women find hot offensive, others find cute offensive. There's just no winning.😂
Yes! I usually am referred to cute or pretty so it's nice to be called hot. 😊
Don't really care. Just tells me he's desperate for sex.
Definetly I like it a lot better than being called cute
sounds like you're just being coy about being conceited
I don't like being complimented on my looks. Compliments on my personality or my intellect are nice.
Is it just me, or have today's women actually become so entitled that they reject a compliment simply because it was not worded quite they way they prefer it?
I understand when people call me cute or sexy😜😅
Not hot
definitely more than being called things like hideous, creepy, or ugly.
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