What goes through girls' heads when they ghost a guy, and he makes failed attempts to talk and figure out what happened?

[Anonymous]

When women tell a guy how happy they are to have met him and how much she likes him, then does a 180 and ghosts him and refuse to speak to the guy again: what goes through girl's heads when they do that? What do they think of the guy trying to get answers or get closure... is she just waiting for him to give up and go away?

[Anonymous]

She's likely met someone else and she was trying to let you down easy.
Most women aren't very straightforward and they don't know how to break up.
Don't take it too hard, the best thing you can do is just relax.
If it's meant to be, it will be or else just let her go and try to meet new ones.
I'm sorry that she's being so cold, but that's what women do when they get interested in someone else.
Messaging her repeatedly probably won't help anything, but it's your choice.
Try to make more female contacts.

[Asker]

"she was trying to let you down easy."
I'm not so sure that behavior is done out of consideration for the other person's feelings.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, there's a lot of songs that have been written about women and how they cut you off.
It's brutal.
Songs like "Cold as Ice, You've lost that loving feeling, Cold by Maroon 5, Man eater" and on and on...
It's shocking I know, but it's how tbey operate. You think this is bad, wait until you have an ex wife who acts like you never existed. That's traumatic.

[Opinion Owner]

Even older women that I've talked to over the years have told me that women are "Fickle minded creatures."

[dpy87]

Bad vibe whether creepy, desperate, annoying, etc. Don't want them bothering me anymore.

[Anonymous]

I usually tell the guy that I'm not interested unless they were creepy then ill just block them.
But last week I saw a post on here about girl who was complaining that she wasn't interested in this guy on Instagram who keep sending her memes even though she stopped answering days before. So I think she ended up ghosting him. I think I saw another post from her again earlier today still asking about it.

[babygrrll]

Lmao I feel so bad, I’m a girl who does this. So most of the times if a girl gets bored of you she will ghost you even if she was being lovey dovey and all nice she may ghost you if she becomes uninterested in you for even a second.