Yes and no depends on the woman really some women love to talk about different topics make up, fashion, men, boys or anything else they are interested in but the quiet ones are not really into talking that much they would rather listen to others unless spoken to or unless they are excited about something :)
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Do you talk to them? Do you respond or show interest in them? I will respond to a man but not start talking to him. He has to speak first usually.
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Women do talk, comparatively, a lot more than men. It's, on average, 20,000 wpd vs. 7,000. That's a big spread. So much so, that men often find it difficult to 'keep up.'
Woman: meet brevity. I don't think you've been acquainted.
But what you're asking is really quite complicated. It's not that they want to talk so much, that this propels them to talk to whomever, whenever. Far from it. It's more about finding the 'right' people, time, and place to do it.
"What would you like to talk about?" is not something people really say all that often. It's why people ask others, "So how are you doing?" It's nice and open-ended, and a lot of people like that. It opens the door to anything that might be on their mind, or have happened. But that's more appropriate, and more easily answerable, if it's someone you know well. Asking a stranger this is not enough of a teaser. The initiator of the conversation bears most, or more, of the burden. If you are willing, but you don't know anything about the motivation of the other person, then you've got to have some tools and tricks in your kit, and open-ended is, frankly, a bit dull and uninspiring.
Mind you, some people like idle chit chat; some loathe it; and then there's everything in between. On gag, I suggest you use one of the qs here, as the inspiration or impetus.
And then you've got the scenario/situation, which is that guys are still mostly the initiators, and the girls hang back. So you experiencing this is what almost every guy experiences.
You also have to do with a climate created by your fellow male peers, who are accosting the girls (mostly the ones in their low 20s) with pretty mindless sexual innuendo. They've heard most of it before. And if they haven't, they're either young and inexperienced (in which case, it's totally inappropriate), or they slam that door shut before it even gets going (the block feature is a powerful tool.)
Combine these two together, plus girls' risk-aversion, mistrust, and more cautionary natures, and it's a bit like finding a needle in a haystack, someone who wants to talk with some random guy. How to deal with it, then? Find the commonalities, the similar interests (which is more than possible on gag; but less so on other social sites.)
I remember our chat about design because I really, really like design. I have my particular specialty interests, but I think about the design of things so much (one of my favourite books is called 'The Design of All Things', and you just happen to hit the nail on the head; although, I did answer your q, so that is what brought us together on a commonality. Now, I know nothing about comic books and really have zero interest in that style, but I do like/used to love fashion and clothing design, so that was another bridge.)
The girls on here (and I presume everywhere, in the lower age bracket) are cagey. Some might also call them aloof, unfriendly, skeptical, bored, entitled... etc. But some are legitimately cynical about why any guy wants to talk to them. And, many are too insecure to post their thoughts and opinions, even on gag, because they don't want to be challenged or criticized for their views. And that's got fairly little to do with guys (although a few trolls do harrass and act mean.)
So there are many reasons why you're having some issues. And as you can see, it's not just one reason. Communication, especially with people who may not necessarily be inclined to also interact, is a big challenge. Just keep cracking away at it. And remember, it's not just you. All of this staying at home, and digital interaction, and avoidance of people because they have other ways to survive and stay somewhat entertained... it is degrading communication and socializing. No question. Y'all aren't learning how to talk to one another anymore.Not all of us. Especially if we're introverted or prefer to keep to ourselves. I can go days, even weeks, without uttering a word to anyone and be quite content!
In other words, it depends on the woman and if she feels like she can open up to you. If you want women to talk to you, find a common interest with her, or reason to chat with her, and go from there. But don't force it!
For example, find something you enjoy doing or discussing and find a woman that likes that same topic. Voila- instant discussion right there without any awkwardness.Lol i’ve been a talker since age 5. I get it from my dad and maternal grandpa. I’m a chatterbox to the fullest. It irks me to be around other chatterboxes cause i feel like i can't get a word in. But it also bothers me to be around quiet people who you have to MAKE talk. So i prefer to just find a good balance of a person who listens and talks
It’s a complicated question that requires a complicated answer. I talk and open up about some things and not others. Depends on who I’m taking to and my comfort level. Everyone on here knows I have no filter about my sex life. Lol. But sometimes other things are harder to talk about.
Yes, I love to talk. Growing up I was very introverted but as I got older I started to talk a lot more, and now I love it and do it all the time. My current boyfriend is quiet and he's not as talkative as I am. But I always talk to my girlfriends.
Indeed. Some prattle. Some don't. Some have more meaningful conversations. Some speak only about themselves and their life.
Yes I chat so much shit all the time with my girl friends haha!
Yes, but a lot of us are guarded about our more intimate feelings.
It depends on the person cause some people make me happy in association and others do not but I try to be nice when possible, even if I do not enjoy their company.
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It depends on the woman, some women are shy and others are very talkative.
Perhaps they 're not comfortable enough with you yet.
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