How should I feel if a bunch of guys randomly said I should try to doll myself up and sexy like other women?

[Anonymous]

I personally don't care how i look beyond being presentable for work. I don't have guys asking me on dates. If i do, they are immature boys who are clearly after using me for sex. I do not do premarital sex. And I wanttl to be as fat from those child-men as possible.

If I was married, or actually knew a man who was worthy and serious, i probably would dress up a bit more... For him. But just spend my money (i am poor) to look better and more flashy for no reason everyday like other girls do? No thanks. Maybe they live with someone like parents who financially take care of them. I have not the time, energy, ne inclination to "look more attractive."

[FlutteringFeelings]

You have to know who you are and not allow the words of others to determine how you feel about yourself. People will say any and everything to see how you react and if you’ll actually follow through with what they’re saying. Words doesn’t have an impact on those who are confident in themselves. Some people can read the energy off of any person before they decide what words they’ll allowed to roll of their tongue.

[Asker]

Thanks sis i feel you. I truly dony five a damn what some good for nothing immature boys who think theyre men somehow think of me. They always try me. But i dont know why cuz by now they should see i ain't i interested in them or their opinions. I think everyone knows im calm as the lake and these idiots are just trying anything they can to get some reaction. Most girls would get mad and cuss them out i think, but im really a polite sweet soft voiced lady.

[FlutteringFeelings]

Yes, stay true to yourself. It becomes overwhelming to hear the same ignorance come out of someone’s mouth but don’t give them the satisfaction that they’re looking for.

[Asker]

Yup they should be totally ignored. Hell, lets be real these lowlifes are lucky a woman even says hello to them. And we do that cause we are at work.

[Dchrls78104]

Perhaps I can relate. I am a virgin and people ridicule me for it. But I usually ignore them because, especially as a Christian, I wish to stay true to myself. The dating scene these days is not worth a second look or thought, with a whole lot of used and damaged goods on sale at new goods prices. Ifyou're a Christian, you are doing well, and don't list to people when it comes to such important decisions in life; stay true to what you are.

[Siren777]

That's so mean. Don't associate yourself with such guys. You do you.

[Seppel]

I prefer that. I don't like all those make up and fashion Kind of women

[Avicenna]

I wouldn’t pay much attention to it

[boggboss]

Don't just ignore them

[DaisyM23]

Fuck them

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Screw them