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If it was consensual sex, it's wrong, as the father may want to keep the baby, though in the end it's up to the mother. In cases of rape or incest though, it's not wrong.
Oh you're on touchy ground here :-) and this is a question where it is for an opinion so people may not like mine and people may however is my opinion that is being asked for. Is it wrong for a woman to have an abortion without telling the father. Well you asked for it here's my opinion it's wrong for a woman to have a abortion in my opinion. Your mother didn't have an abortion did she? So why should you
Please, read my post completely. You missed some
Which post of yours are you talking about? Is it about the abortion?
If two people aren’t ready to have a child than they shouldn’t have one y’all make it seem like women just birth the babies and then the doctor through them into the ocean or something it’s not that serious
If they are ready to have a baby then they shouldn't be having sex
So a 40 year old that is not financially stable should just not have sex because they could get pregnant, riiiight makes total sense
Put a condom on, or have oral sex or have anal sex or masturbate my opinion was asked and I gave it that's my opinion and I stressed that. That's my belief you're not going to change my mind and you're stupid replies won't bother me. So there are other options. Maybe your parents should have a boarded you that one I would have believed in LMAO
Maybe they should have lol I wouldn’t care cause guess what I wouldn’t be here
You know what I'm glad they didn't. You and I might not see eye to eye but you're still a human being and I respect that I respect your opinion please respect mine have a good day
Fair enough. I respect your knowledge base as well. No hard feelings
No hard feelings at all. Have a great day
So you don't care what people think if it's wrong or what so don't ask for our opinion make it as a poll question then if you're asking a question and have a spot for an opinion that means people give their opinions and that's exactly what I did. So if you don't like it I don't care if you like it or not too bad take the opinion part out of it how about that
I didn't ask the question originally.
It depends on. If he is abusive and toxic, then no. He may abuse you or even lock you up if he is mentall ill and pro forced birth. However if he is a sane man, you should tell him but in the it is your decision, especially if you are young and dont have kids and also your relationship ain't good, then abort it. Most men hate single mums, and would not marry/date you when you have kids. Ridiculous how many people hate single mums but also dont want abortion- they dont have logic.
I personally think a kid should have both parents. So abort it if you are not going give him/her a good family and so good life
As I single man I personally do not agree that women with children are at a disadvantage when it comes to forming a relationship as to me a unwed mother is no different to a widow irrespective of age. I do know some men may disagree but that’s the wonderful thing about humanity, we are not all the same and we don’t all think and feel the same about everything.
Unless he is abusive, then it's his right to know and not telling him is an awful and selfish thing to do. The child is half his.
If he's abusive you shouldn't be with him
@Bklynbadboy12 Exactly, but people find themselves there at times unfortunately.
I agree with you but the signs are always there people just ignore them
@Bklynbadboy12 I agree that they usually are. Red flags get ignored.
Can I inbox you
@Bklynbadboy12 Sure, but just to be honest, I won't respond until later tonight. About to have do some house stuff and I'm not going to sext you and I don't have whatsapp or snap or any of that. So I probably qualify as boring, but you're call.
Lol I don't want any of that! Why do girls expect the worst when you ask them to chat privately 😂
@Bklynbadboy12 haha well it gets asked like as soon as someone says hi usually lol. The internet is crazy, but sure I'll respond later.
@Vixxxen I'm sorry I never knew it was that bad for girls
@Bklynbadboy12 It's not always but it does happen pretty frequently on the internet. But I also know some men and women are looking for that and that's just not something I'm into with strangers so I try not to waste anyone's time you know.
Well I agree with you on that I just had a question that's all
In most situations, no you do not need to tell him at all. It's not like he has a choice in the matter. However if you live together I would say you should tell him.
I don't know if this be wrong because of the circumstances or whatever but for me it would be morally wrong se2 he helped create it so you should be a part of it
It depends on what her reasons for not telling him would be. If, for example she didn't tell him because she wanted to have spaghetti for dinner that night then it's ok.
It all depends on the situation. If it was sex without relationship, then I think the guy will not be interested in the child. Therefore, he does not need to talk about taking care of it. On the other hand, if you have a strong and good relationship with your boyfriend, or if you are already married, then I think he has a right to know.
I don't know hot to respond to this, it certainly hurts the man keeping secrets as huge as this.
But at the same time if you're going to have an abortion the man can not do anything, he's just going to be "ah okay what a shame" or else pressure you to not have an abortion, troubles troubles. Or then he won't give a shit.
Like, it might hurt the man. But telling him seems just like unnecessary headache if the woman already made up her mind, especially if the man has strong emotions on this issue.
If he supports abortion then sure just tell him no harm done.
Completly depends on her reasoning behind not telling him
I would say it depends if you are still in a relationship or good terms you probably let him know and tell him what your thinking. You need to talk about it with him and weigh your options but it is mostly up to you what to do because it's your body.
Depends on the circumstances but for the majority of the time I would say that it is the right thing to do to let the father know, the only exceptions being an abusive relationship.
I picked C because yes I think there are reasons for not telling1
Well He will find out eventually, secrets don't last for long.
There's no way you can spin killing a helpless child into being a good thing, regardless of who you tell or don't tell unless maybe both mom & child would have died in child birth so one had to go.
The choice is ultimately up to her, her body her choice. But as the father he has just as much right to know as she does.
My attitude has always been and will always be that I'm not making decisions for someone else. It's her body and therefore her decision. Whatever she decides, the consequences are hers alone.
My child my choice.
The woman and government should stay the fuck out of my wallet.
@MudRucker The assumption is that she hasn't said anything to him. So, for all intents & purposes, it's not his concern.
I highly encourage abortion.
It's for the better in every aspect.
It doesn't matter if she tells or not.
Abortion is the solution.
https://www.liveaction.org/news/aborting-human-beings-economy-groups
I love abortions!
Its her body and she would be the one going through pain, mood swings, getting stretch marks and various complications for nine months , so she has full right to take decision of abortion
Always depends, but under any reasonable circumstances it's very bad.
If you got raped, I don't think anyone will blame you for not telling the dude.