Hello,
Quick summary:
- Met this very cute and sweet girl last year. We became close instantly and talked deep conversations daily. We both had it rough. But I developed feelings for and told her. 3 times.
- She rejected me 3 times. Told me she only sees me as a friend. I never made a big deal about it, nor did I force anything.
- I had a talk with a therapist and she advised me to move on and go somewhere off the grid to get my mind of her. And so I did. However I “failed” to mention my “absence” to her.
That’s when she went mad and started texting me non-stop on messenger, whatsapp and normal messaging. Also she called a few times daily on all of them.
- I eventually called back and just said I can’t maintain a continuously texting friendship with her and she might not hear from me from as much that point forward. But we would remain friends. She said it was okay and I was relieved. We went our ways as friends. She understood. At least I thought she did.
- She’s back at it again after 1 week of no contact. She won’t leave me alone.
- I’m not interested in playing mind-games with her to magically get her. I want to move on, while staying friends on my terms and how I see it managable for my own sake at the moment. She won’t let me.
Some advice would be appreciated... please
Quick summary:
- Met this very cute and sweet girl last year. We became close instantly and talked deep conversations daily. We both had it rough. But I developed feelings for and told her. 3 times.
- She rejected me 3 times. Told me she only sees me as a friend. I never made a big deal about it, nor did I force anything.
- I had a talk with a therapist and she advised me to move on and go somewhere off the grid to get my mind of her. And so I did. However I “failed” to mention my “absence” to her.
That’s when she went mad and started texting me non-stop on messenger, whatsapp and normal messaging. Also she called a few times daily on all of them.
- I eventually called back and just said I can’t maintain a continuously texting friendship with her and she might not hear from me from as much that point forward. But we would remain friends. She said it was okay and I was relieved. We went our ways as friends. She understood. At least I thought she did.
- She’s back at it again after 1 week of no contact. She won’t leave me alone.
- I’m not interested in playing mind-games with her to magically get her. I want to move on, while staying friends on my terms and how I see it managable for my own sake at the moment. She won’t let me.
Some advice would be appreciated... please
Updates
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She wanted to meet up and I agreed and she introduced me to her mom out of the blue. Didn’t know she was there.
I hate all these stupid signs and not getting anywhere with her.
I hate all these stupid signs and not getting anywhere with her.
