How can I calm down in front of my hot boss?

[nella965]

My boss is very handsome and I can't help but have a big crush on him. Everytime he comes to talk to me, I just get really nervous and clumsy. I am kind of afraid that he detect my attraction towards him so I spend a lot of energy trying to cover up my anxiousness around him. But usually it just makes me look more anxious and awkward. He is very handsome but none of the other lady coworkers are nervous talking to him. Its hard to believe that i am the only one who has a crush on this handsome man. My mind just starts racing a million miles and hour and I freeze whenever I have to speak in front of him. My mind goes blank and I forget what I am trying to say.

[molonski2]

Phycology 101 this one , firstly this obsession will pass , but at the moment you are like a drooling 14 year old in front of a rock star. Firstly , its a place of business , keep it professional , have some topics ready to address , take a very deep breath , speak directly about the topics , address the issues , make some professional suggestions.
He is not coming up , buying you a scotch and cola and trying to boont you on the desk ( we will leave that for the Christmas party ) . This is anxiety , or feeling " flustered " so , the best way to address , is to really know your topic , look at him , dont look away ( thats worse ) , really focus on your role , and keep it very professional.
Big deep breath as he is coming over , keep correct distance , look at him , breathe slowly , know your stuff.
Eventually , you will be used to it. Imagine the opposite if genders were reversed? You can't have your workers lusting after the female boss , the same rules apply. Specific on topic actions , and keep it professional.

[FutterwackenMcSappin]

If he's attractive and you boss, then realize the job is not a social event. His work life and his home life are two very different things. Just as it is for you.
And if you can't keep that perspective, remember this: He makes more money than you, meaning he already has someone hotter than you at home. And if he isn't a home-body, then know he has his pick of women wherever he goes.

[nella965]

He’s single and is interested in me too

[FutterwackenMcSappin]

No where in your post do you say that.
You said "crush". Those USUALLY indicate a ONE-WAY attraction.
Also you asked how to calm down in front of him. My suggestion is so you can attain a frame of mind so that you "don't get butterflies" or "Clueless" awkward around him.
As ususal (with women) people forget context is important in writing. There is a difference between a Bloody Mary, and Virgin Bloody Mary.