Once I drove out to an empty parking lot and screamed in the car really loudly just to let it out. But that was ONCE, and a very serious situation.
Normally, I will do yoga, or a personal ritual/ceremony, to regroup. Be gentle with myself, give myself whatever I need for a while - extra sleep, whatever food I am genuinely craving etc.
Not trying to force myself to feel anything other than what I feel. Meditating, contemplating, allowing. Honoring the truth. If necessary taking action. If necessary letting go.
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I get the whole hair thing. I got really low once and ended up shaving my whole damn head. It was like the one thing I had any control over.
I don't have meltdowns. More like if you imagine a teapot starting to boil. Imagine the most destructive/horrible thing you've ever seen in the kind of movie that gives you nightmares. An image might flash in my mind. Then I remind myself that I'm not about that but I could be if someone ever does anything at that nightmare level to my loved ones. Then I feel calm. The teapot starts cooling down fast.
Okay so why did you have a meltdown were you saying it was because you messed up your hair
I would have said wait wait wait if you ever look into your eyes have you ever looked at your features on your face your body. You could shave your head and you would still be hot
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I take a run, hit the gym, write some music, punch a pillow, or put words to paper and turn passion into poetry.
The hair thing is kinda cool though. I have a friend who does that. She'll randomly have a moment where she requires instant spontaneity and she'll either drive to another town or another state, or cut/dye her hair. Since she's kind of an amateur at dying hair, her hair has ended up all kinds of crazy colours. I remember her trying to dye her hair black and it slowly turning through purple and then blue throughout the next week. Somewhere right in-between that purple and blue was one of the prettiest colours of hair I've ever seen. It brought out her eyes and made them shine. She's really creative too, so she capitalized on that and sent me a ton of selfies like that. It's kind of cool where life's mistakes can cause us to end up. Chaotic serendipity is the best kind.I looked up the definition of a meltdown and I think it happened once when i picked a project which was decidedly outside of my power to finish but people were relying on the result. That was 9 years ago. The solution was to sleep well and do smaller projects in the future. Otherwise I dont think I know how to have meltdowns :-D
Your hair really does look prettiest now!
I go out on my bike. I go out on my bike anyway, lol Interestingly enough it’s a good cure all. Total focus required. Nothing else matters.I usually start spending all day in bed, trying to escape myself and reality, if I start struggling with that then I might start abusing medication that makes me very drowsy to sleep more.
P. s I like your after pic the best! Probably the smile it just seems like a good energy to it. Hope you get through your meltdowns!Try to find the cause of it. If there isn't one, acknowledge there isn't one, or that I cannot find the cause. Don't let it hinder me as best I can. Meditate, lift weights, or what I used to do was just fuck my girlfriend 2 hours so hard like I was trying to kill her, then cuddle and by that time i've forgotten about it or moved past it.
I had a psuedo-meltdown my freshman year of college, and I chopped my hair short.
Turns out I actually liked it that way and kept it lol.
Now I just cry for about and hour then keep going.Talk a lot and fume…then usually it dissipates, but getting away from what’s causing it is helpful. I used to work around old men who loved to think they were Gods gift to creation. I used to go to the default which was respect but after 5 years I decided that respect is fine but it’s not worth it to take abuse for hours just because of age.
i just freak the fuck out and yell and cuss. its not pretty
You really do look like the type who would hide bodies in their "melt down" state.
Get mental health help, kiddo. It's not good for you long term being unable to fully control yourself.I CAN BE extremely physical so I restrain myself until I'm in private. My work REQUIRES I exercise restraint as I'm usually lethally armed and expected to use 'best judgement'. Can't let my adversary have the satisfaction to 'bait' me.
first and last time was many many years ago... some sort of mental comma or catatonia, don't want it ever again (knocking on wood)
Not had one for years n years but let’s just saw I end up with interesting scars.
i am more of a direct action type of person.I have never had a pure meltdown. I have always had too much pride in my mental state to do so.
But if I ever do, I'd probably get violent against myself and would probably be thinking some bad stuff. So it's good that I haven't had one, or at least to my knowlage.Psycho… I’m not allowed to have a melt down. I’ll miss my rent, fail my family, lose my job. Only women get the benefit of having time for a melt down lol
Throw my underwear against the wall and see if it sticks. But it's better than breaking something, like a computer. Plus I know if it is time to change them.
I usually retreat into myself, stay in bed a little more, neglect my responsibilities. Basically it resembles a bout of depression wherein I stop trying in life for a bit. When it goes away, I feel clearer, want to be around people again, and I might not have a solution for my problems but I have motivation to try again.
Punch through walls and doors get him a truck and driving a hundred miles an hour and slamming into shit basically destroy everything I own. That's why I don't have meltdowns they're expensive
When I have a meltdown I usually pick a fight with someone for nothing and talk a lot of shit to people around me... And the I always spend the hours later saying sorry to them and trying to do good things so they can forgive me.
Your hair looks great in the 1st and 3rd pics, @cuckqueangirl. Not so much in the 2nd. 😂Being bipolar I can have pretty dark lows. I hide my credit cards, because we tend to overspend on bullshit (more than usual), and I immediately apologize for anything I say to my wife, jnc.
Look into diet as a way to improve your hair health.
If the first picture is your natural hair color, I like it.
Longer hair accents the shape of your face and head, in my humble opinion.
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