The thing about Shy people is they will be interested but they think more in terms of the chain reaction how the things might unfold b4 it even happens.
They could be right they could be wrong but they will not try or approach.
In their mind it's like if he talks to me first then I will talk to them they analyse you if they can trust you with anything.
The qualities that attract shy people are
1. You should be in command like they should feel they can depend on you , bc they will depend on you with most things than anybody else so you have to show them that you are Mr. Dependable.
2. They expect from you to get things done as small as opening a tight container this is just an example don't kill me 😜.
3. They would like you to talk and they would listen once they bc free they would want to be heard why bc they only want to share things with you.
4. So now how to get close them hmm
5. You have to be the face that's there just there always there for a certain time and that to not directly involving with the person.
6. You have to do your stuff and should be in control and happy this depends of age of you guys by the way assuming till 16 to 28.
7. And slowly you should start interacting with that person be bold but gentle in manner of speaking it helps them open up faster and by this time you are familiar face and they have mapped you head to toe at least what they think ...
8. Then tell her that you like her and would she be intrested.
9. Give her time to digest and say you will be waiting for her answer.
10. Be clear and precise so she can be clear if she would like to make you as her boyfriend
When we are just trying to guess whether she is interested, the best thing is to directly ask her out. People can send all kinds of misleading signals, but once she is confronted with the request, lack of intrest shows pretty quickly. I get rejected immediately, or sometimes she accepts politely and then overnight regrets it and comes back to reject me "You know, I though about it, and I can't, ... errrm... sorry, have a boyfriend... errrm...". That's the fast lane to know she is willing to at least spend time with you. After that, to open her up, I have mixed results. A lot of things I thought should work sometimes didn't and shy women do not always give enough feedback to know what I did wrong.
Hard to gauge her personally since we cannot see her specific mannerism. Try your luck, be honest and ask her out.
If you manage to get into a consensual relationship with her, all you need is:
1. Patience. 2. Truly taking the time to understanding her. 3. Having an open mind. Just because she is shy/anxious about something you find insignificant, shouldn't allow you to dismiss/laugh/undermine her worry. 4. Compassion. If she is hesitant about something and feels overwhelmed, be gentle. Sit with her, go over her fear and break them down with her. 5. Be an active listener. Too many times men let women just ramble. Dont just sit there, stare blankly at her, and provide no feedback. That will alienate her. Participate. Ask questions. Show interest. 6. She's not fragile. Dont baby her.
That's about it. Anxiety is often misdiagnosed as shyness. So if you can see how shy she is to the point that is what you can identify her as and need help approaching her because of it, then treat it as if it's anxiety.
How old is the girl? I am shy / introvert and 30 but I was born as one so I can’t change I will always be as this even if my lifespan is postponed to 99 years old I will be a chute - granny. Hm step 1: always initiate ! In anything !! but you don’t have to be bored of it because once a shy girl gets comfortable then you will have to buy a tape and tape her mouth because shy girls around the right person they never shut up !! Do not wait from her , be patient , you always make the first move. Step 2: Also be straightforward too if you think this isn’t going anywhere ask her exactly what you want to ask! Step 3: mention here name when messaging or calling 🍬 shy girls daydream often she will think of your voice calling her name 🍬 Step 4 : re read all steps above and good luck.
I'm a shy girl and I have this type of problem. I guess just show her that you can be patient and let her feel that she can be herself, that you won't judge her. It depends on how introverted she is though, it's not the same time for everyone and if she's shy around you then I guess she probably does like you, or at least in my case I'm only really shy around a guy if I care what he thinks about me if not then I'm more relaxed so maybe it's the same for her. I guess if you really want to know then you could ask her what impression she has of you so far, that may give you an idea
How close you mean? Shy girl can be shy but they open up to someone who starts a conversation with them.
If you wanted to be friends with her, you could just casually converse with her and get to know each other. If you like her then I think it would be best to be direct about how you feel. (But not at first conversation because it can be kinda creepy). at least, when you see signs of her opening up to you that you hadn't seen her done to anyone before. But if you're friends already it's best to tell. You'll never know if she feels the same way because shy girls don't often admit unless they've been confessed to first.
As a shy girl, I look down and get nervous around anyone, ESPECIALLY if it was a guy I'm interested in or find attractive. Honestly the only thing you can do is take initiative and talk to her first, and just watch her mannerisms with you and with other people.
Just open up to her first and be patient. Give her space when she needs it. If she's interested in you she'll want to talk to you or at least won't ignore you when you talk to her. Seeing results varies depending on the person
She is most likely not interested. I always get called “shy” by guys who I don’t have feelings for. They feel like I distance myself because I’m “scared” of them and refuse to consider that I just simply don’t like them.
