Do girls flirt by being mean?

[TheBjdjlCraft]

So hy,
there's this girl in class and she suddenly started being sarcastic being around me.
So like when she knows i can hear hear she starts talking mean about me but more in a sarcastic way.
For example:
you know,
if whe where in amerika i would invite (my name) to my house and shoot him with a gun 72
times when he steps on my property.
or in physiks she sits in front of me and then suddenly
turns around and starts staring at me with a type of grrrrr ur discusting look in her face and when i ask why she's doing that she either says: cause you exist
or turns around to five minutes later she turns around again
then also she draws something shows it to me asks me for my opinion and when i start answering she says i didn't ask you i asked your neighbour anyways she said my name.
then also when i had a freeperiod sitting in the aula drawing she suddenly appears on the other side of the aula anyways she doesn't have a freeperiod and she like just stops for like 5 sec and smiles at me then while walking at me she is still smiling at me



So what i wanna know do you think she has a crush on me or not
(please answer fast i wanna know cause i wanna know cause i have a crush on her
and if she has a crush on me il either confront her with my feelings or get friendzoned)
Greetings TheBjdjlCraft

[SlightlyEccentric]

How many of you remember that one boy in your class who had it out for that one girl. He was mean to her, bullied her and acted like an overall jerk.

Well she goes to her teacher to tell her what's going on. Only thing the teacher can say is: "well he clearly likes you."

The girl leaves the classroom and goes to the principals office, tells the principal what has happened and all he can say is "if a boy is being mean to you, he clearly likes you."

When she goes home, she tells her parents about the boys behavior. The parents just smiled and said their little girl had a boyfriend. The girl was stunned. All these adults telling her pretty much the same thing. None of them believing she is being the victim of a bully.

The point I'm trying to make is this: we as a society (or at least did, maybe some still do now) have accepted that if a kid is bullying another kid of the opposite gender, they must like them. Like that is a good way to fuck up a kids mind on how relationships DON'T work. If you like someone so much, you can do it the right way and be nice and conversational, and not by being a bully.

So OP, no this girl does not like you, she is just being a liitle bitch (probably learned it from someone she knows). Don't give her the time of day, avoid her like the plague and focus on your classes.

I'm sorry I'm so upset writing all this. Like its 2021 and we still have apologists for bullying like seriously WTF? OP you don't need to put up with it. If it gets really bad, tell a teacher (any teacher), principal, family members (any who will listen).

Repeat after me, OP: YOU. DO. NOT. HAVE. TO. PUT. UP. WITH. THIS.

Repeat that as many times as you have to but you do not need nor should subject yourself to being bullied. Cause her "mean flirting" is 110% bullying.

[bredtaleth]

Of course, a reason why she uses so much energy on you might be that she likes you. Or maybe she's just testing her social boundaries and feels it easy to use you as a target.

Either way, if you like her, try to tease her back. Shoot her a smile. See what happens. More importantly, don't stress about being "friendzoned". It's all in your mind. You''re 13, damnit, just take it easy; you're in no hurry. Enjoy the attention of this girl, for what it's worth, and do a little flirting on your own. You'll quickly see how she reacts.

[siseñor]

90% sure she's not flirting, fight fire w fire. u can't just take that XD
dude if yu confess she'll proly bully u more for it as well

[Notfabricated11]

Please do not confront her with your feelings lmao. Just learn how to be mean back. That just her way of flirting and if you don't mind it then go for it. After a day or to start making more sexually mean flirty jokes. You got this.

[Notfabricated11]

Omg I just saw that you're age is 13. I'm not even go lie i felt what she was doing was a little childish that why I said " if you like that". But yeah y'all young so just know that she very much might like you and you may want to take a shot however you may want do that.

[Avicenna]

Sometimes they do, especially if they are teenagers

[Dvchill]

This girl is going to kill u bro.. change your name, ssn and gtfo… or she is really into u.. take your shot on which u think it is…🤪

[Ryfyle]

She's an obvious bitch, she clearly does not like you and is fucking with you.

[Anonymous]

How is any of that flirting?
maybe for the socially inept.

[adriana05]

she totally likes u

[TheBjdjlCraft]

are you serius?

[adriana05]

yes lol

[TheBjdjlCraft]

ty ty ty ty

[Ryfyle]

@adriana05 Suprised you didn't tell him to drink bleach.

[adriana05]

@Ryfyle what

[Ryfyle]

It was a comment about your malicious comment.

[adriana05]

@Ryfyle what malicious comment?

[kindaofawh0re]

Sometimes yes

[Babygirl_S]

No..

[hrhhaileycooke]

Definitely likes you

[Ryfyle]

That's fucking cruel.