Do most women like bad boys?

Question

I'd say 8/10 women like bad dudes

Andres77 · Accepted Answer

Generally they want adventure, they want fun.. but then they want a good man who will be a help and not a hindrance... when it comes time for security, paying bills, helping kids with homework, helping in the house, meeting their boss at an important work function.

Predictable and reliable are not what they want every... single... day... Fun and adventure and spontaneity are a huge turn on. If it's just a hookup, bad boy is fine... because if that's all he's got then they don't need the drama after a night of wild fun. If it's relationship time predictable and reliable are needed. But if a guy is TOO nice... he gets boring...

Knowing when to be the bad boy and knowing when to be the good man is an art.
Wasn't until my third marriage that I figured that out. I'm still not a master at doing both but I'm really good.

mobiusforniner · Accepted Answer

This question appears on here all the time. Girls don't want "bad" boys. Sure, there are the dumb girls who go for the abusers just like dumb guys who go for the slutty bimbos.

But most women want MEN. Men who are confident, who can command a conversation, know what they want and where they're going. The "bad" boy doesn't imply "jerk". He just comes across that way because he carries himself so much better than the "nice" guy that all the nice guy can do is come up with some lame ass "bad" guy description to make himself feel superior because he has nothing else to offer.

The so called nice guys are spineless pushovers who kindly think of themselves as being nice and therefore entitled to a woman's affection. Um, no. Women don't want boys who fold.

Take it from a former so-called "nice" guy.

JustAnEverydayGirl · Accepted Answer

I think there's a certain thrill to the stereotypical bad boy, but i certainly do not like them. Real life just doesn't work the way movies seem to want it to. I want a man who can support both of us, and at the same time is able to feel supported. Equality is everything to me and bad boys seem to mostly want to be the hero type. Im not looking for a hero, just someone to love when things get rough.

Account · Accepted Answer

Define "bad". If they are honest about being an asshole they are way better than the ones who play it off as good guys, yet they aren't

DaveJord · Answer

I think most women find "Bad Boys" more intriguing, exciting and interesting. Bad Guys also come off as more honest about their intentions... but its not until later that they realize they made a bad choice.

Good guys are just harder to spot, because they come off as more mundane... and for some reason even though they all say they want genuine, honest and sincere guys they can't seem to recognize it when they do find the real deal. Its the inherent mistrust, because every guy pretends to be honest, genuine and sincere. So how do you tell the real ones from the pretenders?

But exciting and adventurous "bad boys" seem more fun on the surface.

ItsMeElliana · Answer

bad guys are bad because they tend to break your heart, even though good guys do that too, but like at least they're like more respectful and somethin
i like good guys, and if they're smart and humourous they are cute af

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

It's their confidence. Women with morals will typically see past that and will stay away due to their lifestyle not being the best. If you want a good woman, have confidence and be nice. Bad boys aren't usually for the best women. Most "bad boys" you see with good families are just dressing and acting like a "bad boy" but are really very nice people. So being a genuine bad boy might get you a hook up or smth stupid like that. But for long term relationships the main thing to take is confidence.

dragoblack · Answer

"Bad boy" is just a toxic asshole trying to compensate. But, assholes come across as super confident which many women find attactive, and bad boys do dangerous stuff, giving off a sense of being dangerous which is an adrenaline rush for some... in the end great for a romance novel but IRL they are not worth it.

Anonymous · Answer

Unfortunately (regardless of nationality and with exceptions) all women love bad men. They see good men as losers. But later, when the bad men they love start hurting them, they go in search of the good men. It's kind of like a weird vicious circle, whatever. Mostly because bad men are richer, more flamboyant, and tougher than good men, sadomasochism attracts women, and these women often make their sad endings with their own hands.

Heartache0405 · Answer

Well they don’t like nice guys I can tell ya that right now. They have quite a hatred for the nice guys

Anonymous · Answer

Of course many women love bad boys. The opposite is also true. Many women can't tolerate bad boys.

hahahmm · Answer

It's like asking if people like donuts. You don't want to date the woman who's addicted to donuts tho.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Most of us go through a bad boy phase but we grow out of it

FreyaRed · Answer

I like winners, most "bad boys" are losers, especially those with long crime registers.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t know. I personally always found myself dating “bad boys” for some reason… but i know a lot of people like “bad boys” because they’re more fun, and they find “good boys” boring.

RARETRAMP · Answer

We as women love stereotypical bad boys because they are confident take action and are successful , but on the other hand if that "bad boy" is rude harsh and treats women as an object then he's not attractive at all.

doopayo · Answer

Riding a motorcycle and wearing leather jackets doesn’t make you a bad boy

the_bruh · Answer

The question should be "do girls like fun guys or boring guys?" It's not about good or bad.

t-8900 · Answer

I'm gonna ask a follow up question to this because I'm curious about something

jshm2 · Answer

What they like and what they are entertained with, are not the same thing.

Anonymous · Answer

Like them? Sure!  Want them? No! They’re useless

mackiewishbone · Answer

I’m not sure if they like bad boys as much as they like assholes! Women are attracted to assholes who treat them poorly

Joshua0213 · Answer

For sex prob but not so much for dating from what I've seen

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

If you mean as a bad person, no. Bad as in rebel then yes. 😛

Anonymous · Answer

Women don't "like" bad boys, but they are irresistibly sexually attracted to them.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, I like the good guys.

Sweetlindacoolturds · Answer

Nope! We do like confident guys though

Anonymous · Answer

Bad boys are exciting unlike good boys like me who are boring..

AviatorTom · Answer

Only if they are GOOD at being BAD

Aurora1010 · Answer

No I like good guys

hentai_user · Answer

Certainly around my age they do

LadyCroft · Answer

I do.

EndlessVoid20 · Answer

I am the bad one ;)

gamernerd · Answer

Not all.

Anonymous · Answer

yes, most of them do

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