At what age do modern girls start hating men?

[MCheetah]

I kind of asked this several months ago. Being a teacher, I see 10-14 year old male and female students and they generally get along and enjoy each other's company, even if the boys interact with the boys more and the girls with the girls. But there's no real "eew, cooties" mentality there.

But so many modern women (not just Western women, but some Korean and Japanese women as well) that now just have these sh*tty feminist attitudes. They either hate men, or they blame men for all their problems and feel men should be slaves and subservient to them, with the "yes, queen slay" BS.

At what age do you think girls start to hate boys and start blaming them for all their problems and failures in life (i. e, turn into feminists)?

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I also forgot to mention girls who also turn into lesbians ("bisexual," queer). They're also included among the ones who hate men.

[NetSapien]

It could depend on where the kids are at geographically and the society associated. I'd say from Middle School onwards, the chances become greater. Specially young ladies that have self-esteem issues tend to fall into this 'stereotype' easily.

This never happened in my generation and to be honest my school had a problem with people having orgies in the stairwells and bathrooms, even though AIDS was the big STD danger then in school.

But I noticed it in my daughter's friends around the age they were in Middle School, more and more found it 'fashionable' to be associate with the more modern authoritative 'faux-feminist' movement and ignore/abandon the more traditional feminism that more resembled the struggles of women for egalitarianism.

Thankfully, I was spared this headache with my daughter. She rejected all these labels and ideologies and is quite anti-feminist today correcting people that she's 'egalitarian', not 'feminist', due to the unfortunate fact that many in this modern movement have redefined 'feminists' as man-haters due to their members actions.

Today she's in her final year of law and is in active law enforcement, a male 'dominated' profession.

[hahahmm]

Probably when they hit puberty. At that point they will have some simp interested in them simply because they're female which means he is giving her power with low expectation/requirements for her behavior.

[SweetDumplings]

I think around the age of 18-19, I was in a feminist sister group cult when I was 19 and read the book "I am an emotional creature" it's a feminist book written by a feminist author, if you want you can read the book for yourself and see how much she hates men and blames them for everything, anyway I joined and they literally teach you to really blame men for all the problems females go through these days and all the girls that joined the club were my age so I would say yeah about 18-19 but honestly it can hit at any age really but I think the youngest is 15.

[MCheetah]

Thank you.

[SweetDumplings]

No problem ☺️☺️☺️

[whirled_up_girl]

I feel like when I was in junior high and high school there was a lot of anti-men propaganda particularly in print media like the teen magazines that boys only wanted to use girls for sex and so on. However, after I left home and had my own experiences with men, I realized all that was just propaganda and I have met a lot of terrific men, not just in dating but at work and my community.

[Carolmille]

I think your view on this topic is absolutely myopic. Girls are getting married to guys everyday. So I don’t see where the hate you talk about is. Different girls however have different experiences with men so if a particular person decides to hate on men, ask them and not generalize it.

[Nomoturtle]

You're probably right. The ones that hate are noisier than the ones that don't.

But the question is also digging at the entitled attitude and the deflection of responsibility that's so common with modernised women in particular, which is far more widespread than misandry.

It also seems like most people, even if they don't hate men, have accepted the feminist patriarchy narrative wholesale; it permeates contemporary discourse. For example, you almost certainly believe the suffragettes were heroes fighting the patriarchy. You probably believe gender and sex are two different things (which ironically is coming back to bite some feminists now). And you probably believe there is a pay gap (whether unjust or otherwise) and shouldn't be.

[Carolmille]

@Nomoturtle For all you’ve said, my opinions PROBABLY differ. My opinion on pay for instance is that everyone regardless of gender should be paid in respite to what they contribute to an enterpris. In order words, everyone should be able to negotiate their wages in relation to what they intend to bring to the table.

[MCheetah]

@Nomoturtle
"you almost certainly believe the suffragettes were heroes fighting the patriarchy. You probably believe gender and sex are two different things (which ironically is coming back to bite some feminists now). And you probably believe there is a pay gap (whether unjust or otherwise) and shouldn't be."

You hit the nail on the head here. And when you try to tell people the truth, they scoff and think you're so alt-right conspiracy theorist or nutjob. The Suffragettes were legitimately the BLM and ANTIFA of their day and literally set back women's suffrage by nine years, as it was originally supposed to happen in 1910, not 1919. Just because they fought for a supposedly noble cause, doesn't make them any less awful or their actions any less detrimental to said cause.

The only reason the word "gender" was even invented, was because sex already referred to as intercourse, so gender was meant to specifically refer to boy or girl, male or female. It wasn't until like, ten years ago, did the trans community highjack the word. I honestly don't care in this case, as I have a Masters in English, so I understand words change all the time and vocabulary is ever-evolving, but it's still a little annoying when they blatantly try to move the goalposts like that.

And the wage gap has been debunked so many times, and yet, people still not only think it's real, but would support the only way to "end the wage gap," which would be literal f*cking Communism. Forcing women to work jobs they don't work, and also lowering the wages of all men to do these jobs. These idiots who believe in the wage gap also seem to ignore all the industries where women overwhelming earn more than men, such as the entire sex industry, medical billing and coding, real estate, modeling, and education.

So yes, there are subtle instances of women hating or envying men in society, as well.

[Nomoturtle]

@Carolmille Yes, I was careful to introduce uncertainty into my claims; I don't know you. But continuing that specific point:
Clearly you believe in equal opportunity through negotiation, fine, but I meant to stress the question of whether a paygap SHOULD exist. There is a disparity in outcomes across gender. Should there be? Shouldn't you support affirmative action or some other kind of corrective measure? Is female empowerment and economic liberation from societal injustice not a laudable goal?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t hate men, I just dislike a couple men that I have come across in my life but that doesn’t mean I hate the general population of men. All men are not the same and it would be stupid to clump them all and assume they’re all the same.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I also wouldn’t call myself a feminist or blame men for all issues, it’s not that at all. It’s silly to think like that.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't think it's age based, I think it's personality type based to not take responsibility for things, and feminism is just one of many ways people pass blame onto the undeserving.

I also wouldn't say a girl hates guys just because she's lesbian or bi.

Sexual preferences are something predetermined, and I don't hate all men just because I only find women attractive, and the same concept would be true for most other people.

[JosyJosy]

At the age that men did something fucked up to her so she ends up not knowing any better

[DudeDiligence]

It's typically high school and university age when they are exposed to feminist ideology. Thankfully, many of them grow out of it before long.

[Physics-Man]

Usually during or after college indoctrination. So sometime during their late teen years or early 20s.

[worldscolide]

Usually when they hit college and take idiotic gender studies courses..

[BlackTealLazer]

Funny. I've never really gotten along with girls.

[Lifelive96]

At the same time when boys become misogynists…

[JesseJayNeak]

When they go to college

[BlacktyBlaque]

16 -18

[disgustingweebtrash]

College