Why do I catfish, hate myself, others and lack confidence?

[Anonymous]

I honestly petty myself, i have so much hatred for myself i wish if i could be a different person. Social media allowed me to be “others” but at the same time i developed self hatred i almost despise myself and others because i feel like others made me hate myself. Not only but i also have a horrible relationship with food I constantly fluctuate between starving myself and crying my eyes out as i eat the fridge to comfort myself. I just don’t know what to do or how to feel.

[Danny_dan92]

You need to start by not looking at the women that physically look like how you wish you looked like.


Secondly, once you do that. Gather the mental fortitude to make changes in your life and start working your way towards achieving the physical appearance you want

[Shaggy_KW]

You my friend should seek medical attention immediately. Get some therapy, maybe see a doctor based on what the therapist says. You need to talk that shit out

[Asker]

I have talked to my unis therapist and all she said was that i need to be more compassionate with myself but she doesn’t understand how i feel

[Shaggy_KW]

Then seek another therapist because they aren't helping. Also do some research on your own on eating disorders and self hate, join groups. Group therapy was beneficial for me

[Asker]

She did recommend group therapy but i kinda avoided it maybe i should consider it

[Shaggy_KW]

Probably homie, hearing other people's stories and talking with other people can let you know there's hope and even make your problems seem inferior. It might be good to think about anti depressants or other forms of chemical blockers too but only think about that if all else fails. I have faith in you

[noohair]

Sounds like you could use professional help. And it might be time to drop the victim status and accept responsibility for your actions.

[OddBeMe]

Probably something to do with your mother or father. You seem bent on recreating yourself to please someone but never receiving it.

[In_Trance]

get professional help

[Iron_Man]

Your hurting others

[Asker]

Because others hurt me. My feelings and emotions are hurt because of everyone else. What about that?

[Iron_Man]

Those are bad people but doesn’t make it right for you to seek revenge on innocent people

[Asker]

I am not revenging anyone i just do it because I know the minute someone sees my face ill be blocked.

[Iron_Man]

Nobody’s that bad looking come on

[Iron_Man]

Let me take a look at you