How come woman sexualise theirself then blame men for sexualising them?

[Whatdaheeeellll]

This is mainly a question for guys, if you're a girl it might piss you off, I suggest leaving,
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So... I've noticed a lot of posts from girls lately about "men having toxicly high beauty standards"As if to say we only date beautiful 10/10 girls... I know that's not true but, I think the reason Men mostly date beautiful girls... Is because 90% of Girls are beautiful.. y'all make yourself beautiful, Think about it.. every girl wants to be beautiful soYa put on all that makeup and shit and do butt workouts to get guys attention... Then when you do... You say we have "toxic beauty standards"And "sexualise woman"I think you sexualise yourself by wearing short shortsIn the mall with you're toned butt and tight leggings. If you want to stop guys "sexualising you" maybe youShould stop sexualising yourself... Stop wearing skimpy clothes and shorts... What did you think was gonna happen? You think we would all be flaccid and wouldn't notice? It's natureMaybe make yourselves less appealing so there's less beautiful girls then there wouldn't be a bar set would there?

Because they're bored and wanna cause a fuss about something

The girls writing this are ugly and frustrated no guys dated them

We actually do have high standards

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Also if you are a girl reading. This ain't about you specificly, maybe you don't do that. But it's about girls in general don't be mad

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Maybe the person you're really mad at is your own gender for setting the bar so high

[hhadeshatesme]

All women should dress like nuns because men can’t control themselves?
Yes it’s nature to get “excited” when you see something you find visibly appealing and no one can control your thoughts nor is anyone trying to. You can appreciate the way someone looks from a far without being weird about it (noticeable starring, whistling, shouting, etc). I’ve seen attractive guys with their shirts off all the time during the summer or recognizing a nice ass on another girl but I don’t let my thoughts excuse the off chance of making them feel uncomfortable.
*Some* women do dress to make heads turn but that’s not the case every time a girl walks out in tight fitting clothing. Hot weather, activities she has planned for that day, or just liking the outfit could be the reasoning behind revealing clothing. Men gawking at them in public isn’t the first thought in every womens head when we’re getting ready but a lot of men love making the assumption everything a women does involving her appearance is for them. (I’m not emotional or trying to be bitchy)

[Whatdaheeeellll]

So there's either dressing like nuns or half naked?
Don't you know there's an Inbetween called casual?
Whatever dress in string bikinis all you want, but if you're still surprised that it turns guys on.. maybe turn your brain on and you will realise why

[Whatdaheeeellll]

Dumbass idiots. Guess Borat was right about girls brain being smaller

[hhadeshatesme]

Read what I said but didn’t obtain any information from it whatsoever. He mentioned shorts and leggings as revealing clothing. No where did I say anything about string bikinis

[hhadeshatesme]

And it’s cute you couldn’t respond to what I had to say without hurling insults left and right. And women are labeled the sensitive gender😂

[Whatdaheeeellll]

It's like men all becoming muscular chads and all walling around topless.. and then woman start hollering at us and whistling.. then we get mad at woman as saying "stop sexualising us" and then our defence is, no we shouldn't dress like nuns in jeans and t shirt.. jus cos we are topless and ripped.. woman should control theirself and stop being animals... Like what do you expect 😑
If you make yourself sexy you will get sexualise... It's obvious that would happen.

[Duckfan]

Everyone looks, thats no problem. But starting to film or follow them is not okay. They deserve a beating.

[Xoxocutekitty]

skin visibility does not equate to male accessibility.

The best example I can give is the phrase Cosplay does not equal consent. Men and women much prefer a slim fit (probably busty) women in a form fitting or tiny cosplay outfit. We tell ourselves that they look 'more to character' even though we all know video game content has high unrealistic expectations. We jump the same mental because this is a warm blooded person who is also extremely attractive standing a mere 4 feet away.

Now this person worked on their costume and is OK getting the occasional compliment and having a photo taken. They enjoy the convention and enjoy meeting other people who also share the cosplay interest.

Then, one guy thinks it's 'funny' to grab her tail. Then another guy thinks it's funny to yell across the room. Several guys 'accidentally' bump into her, touch her arm and waist because they think her body is accessible. There is also the guy who is following her from 12 feet away and taking photos of her ass by zooming in 8x.

So what's the difference here? It's asking a person can I yell at you, touch you, take photos of your butt, grab your outfit? 9.9/10 times the person would say no, don't do that.

But some males have equated skin visibility with accessibility and that is the heart of this question here. What someone wears is not justification for poor behavior. That is why women who wear sexual outfits 'blame [poorly behaved] men.'

[bamesjond0069]

I've said this many times on gag. Women are essentially retarded children. Once you actually understand this it all makes sense.

[skyeee_]

they wear revealing clothes to impress men, but the men THEY like, not a random stranger. this isn't the only reason, there are lots of other reasons. they wear stuff like short shorts, short skirts etc because the weather may be hot, whatever the reason may be. what i know is they aren't trying to attract strangers, at all. you can't just stop women from enjoying their freedom just because you can't control yourself. harsh truth but it is what it is. before ya go off at me for an opinion conflicting to yours, try educating yourself, or at least frame your questions in a more respectful manner. hope you understand.

[attackgrrrl]

Bc men do sexualize us.. I couldn’t even wear a skirt and tights yesterday without literally being recorded while waiting at my bus stop, and my mom was there with me too. Y’all have absolutely no self control and y’all can’t even admit that so u blame it on us.. What a shame :/

[Whatdaheeeellll]

I don't know where the fuck you live, maybe India or something, but where I live that never happens, but men aren't horny out of control dogs that's a pretty sexist assumption to make, I have been a virgin all my life and never even looked at a girl in a perverted way. So jus cos you live in India doesn't mean all guys are like that

[attackgrrrl]

@whatdaheeeellll I live in america buddy. It happens here and it happens all the time. You obviously don’t know and don’t see that bc ur one of the many ignorant men, unfortunately, and it obviously doesn’t happen to u bc it isn’t going to happen to men usually. I can’t even be on my own yard to take my dogs out to use the bathroom without random men stopping their cars to stare at me and honk at me. it’s a shame tht bad men have made me afraid of being outside without my father bc they can’t control themselves. and, no, i dont live in a bad part of america. i live in the suburbs of a great state. men don’t know self control so men blame their lack of self control on women who are doing absolutely nothing that would even be seen as sexual. use ur brain.

[attackgrrrl]

@whatdaheeeelllll

[attackgrrrl]

^ dont u think it’s sexist tht someone in these comments said women are like “retarded children” or do u only call out “sexism” against boys? or maybe u dont care about sexism at all and are just using “that’s sexism against men” as a way to invalidate someone’s feelings and experiences. do u not see the sexism in ur post and the men replying under it?

[bean2k21]

I just sexualized two sluts last night
and they loved it

[Anonymous]

This is one of the greatest mysteries of all time.