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Ok, ladies why don’t we ask out men? (Page 2)
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You can go ahead nobody will stop you. No man I know would complain either. Takes a lot of stress off us.
Some do ask out. If/when they have the courage. Asking out shows strength of character, not desperation.
People tend to misunderstand so much.
I think it's best to show interest. If he knows he definitely will ask you out.
Why do we lurk?
Probably down to the MeToo statutes that will send us to prison for the rest of our lives for dating to approach a woman
If I was a girl, I would just ask a guy āso if youāre single when are you ganna ask me out huh.ā
I have always asked if I was interested & they didn't approach first.
But it's not the same feeling (s) for us? And "desperate" is ONLY your feelings. It shows CONFIDENCE. And that's attractive! You like guys to have it right? Back at ya! lol
I donāt see why girls shouldnāt be able to ask guys if they wanna go out on a date. Also itās not saying youāre ugly itās saying youāre interested in him
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@chulo1992 thanks lol
The thing is if sheās never really been asked out that guy and no oneās really told her that sheās pretty some women feel is it she feels ugly
I donāt think this day and age women have a problem with doing it but when I come to proposing and a bunch other stuff I will not
Yeah a girl proposing is a bit weird to me
Actually, I be very happy if a girl asks me out. I have no luck trying to ask women out. Let alone flirt with them without feeling like a creep. So having a woman/girl ask me out will definitely be a welcoming change. 😊
We ask you. You reject us! Why? God only knows. After enough rejection there's no point is continuing with this futility.
What part of this confuses you?
How many time and how do you ask
You mean each or how many women?
I only ask once. Why would I ask again if I got a no lol. Over a lifetime? I dunno maybe 500 I haven't kept track lol.
To answer your update, absolutely not!
I mean she's either ugly or she's not. If she's ugly it makes sense. But I've had some attractive women approach me. Which is really confusing because it always seems so random when they do. Because I never see them coming. It's always like I say to myself " where did she come from"? "I didn't even see her in this room". But my reaction is always the same. Given my history with women and the tricks they like to play. I'm suspicious, but cordial until she eventually decides to end the conversation as enigmatically as she began it.
What if she doesnāt know if she ugly
Well I'm sure life will eventually tell her. What if guys don't know they're ugly? Well your ladies constant rejections over a long enough timeline eventually gets that point across.
Guys are tired of trying to read minds, getting rejected, or being thought of as creepy when they ask girls out. It's a good idea to at least let the guy know you are interested.
I disagree. I prefer women that go for what they want. Id rather a girl is interested in me when accepting a date or proposing a date then cold approaching based off what I think were signs.
Women will simultaneously complain that guys "lurk in the background", then smear a guy as a "creep" for asking them out if they're not attracted to him. Hope that explains it to you.
Spot on Joel... SPOT ON!!!
@Justneedtokno
I dont know but it sucks as guys never have a clue most of time a girl is interested and are so scared with metoo movement that any approach would be taken the wrong way
Showing that they are interested in clear ways is enough for me, I'll definitely make a move then.
What? No never ever (in relation to your update). What a horrible way to think. Quite the opposite it shows me she's confident and knows what she wants. I can find it very attractive, as long as it's a one approach ocassion and she leaves the rest of the pursuing to me.
I dont lurk. I say outright get rejected and walk away
This have nothing to do with gender. It's just that more number are of female gender.
For update :I never knew that. Nor ever heard it anywhere.
I have but they have never texted me to actually go out!!
Why not indeed. Ladies in waiting, are likely to keep on waiting, otherwise.
I do but I usually get rejected, ghosted, or both. Iāve done this both in person and online. Iāve had maybe two guys say yes to a date with me, but they usually winded up horrible in the end. I think Iām just gonna let guys ask me out instead again.
I initiated things with my husband when we first started dating.
And you're ugly
@RandomDude21114165
But she still has a lot more sex than you
@RandomDude21114165 she is very pretty, you are just a moron
@RandomDude21114165 its adorable that you think, that our opinion on the way I look is in any way shape or form valid. XD
@Subarugirl. Donāt mind him. Heās upset because his sister just raised the price of sex for him, but not anyone else. She said it was because he sucks at it, but heās convinced that itās because his micropenis āintimidatesā her
@MrtoddsWildRide Yeah I don't get caught up on what random dues on the internet think of my appearance... lol
Looks like a man in every way yet she's somehow a beauty to you two gays
@RandomDude21114165 and your living proof that one can have a penis and still be a little bitch. I was born with a vagina and still have more balls than you lol
You're proof women want to be men
@RandomDude21114165
I'm pretty sure you wouldn't actually know anything about being a man.
A boy that is insecure about his micropenis and pays his sister for sex, you would know about that.
Being a man, not so much.
By the way, your mom says hi. She's going to call you after we are done
@RandomDude21114165 If I wanted to be a man, I would be and be a better one that your sorry ass. As it stands now, I don't need to be a man to best you honey...
Why do I get the feeling this will never become more common
I donāt know nowadays women propose and everything
Still seems rare
Do what makes you happy. Less and less men are in the dating game so you will have competition for the men that are dating material.
The problem is women/girls dont go to guys alone and talk to him, they flirt with him in front of all her friends, putting a guy on the stop. I hate that shit, or they cat call you while they're with their group of friends.
So you want men to have a duty to confirm he's ugly so no women would want him?
Because some men arenāt asking women out. If a girl asked a guy out, a guy may reject her for asking him out.
No, I don't think their is something wrong with her unless theirs other red flags. I more wonder what she wants from me.
No just some one I dont know an need to chat with for awhile to see what we have in common
I have couple a times, but itās mostly cuz of liquid courage lol
also think the same way, no girls ever approached me so i think im ugly
I think societal pressures force men to be the proactive ones
Because I am not really interested in anyone.
We don't? I ask out guys all the time.
If he likes me he will ask me out himself.
You will maximize chances of finding your dream guy if you do approach.
You could miss out on a good lot, the ones YOU LIKE. And without you giving heavy signals like eye contact with smiles, you will also miss out on those guys.
Furthermore having a passive attitude will not help build mutual attraction/trust.
My opinion.
Not likely, during these days.
Why not walk up to a guy you like?
@cookiecrusher never!
Why though? Why such a strong stance on it?
@marish01 Nothing is wrong with you not wanting do that. If that's what you dont want to do, dont do it. You dont have to prove why you dont want to do it, be happy.
"Hey guys have you ever thought that if a woman ask out a guy Then it almost like sheās confirming that sheās ugly. Like no man will come up to her"
What and enormous load of bullshit this ^ is.
There are some girls that actually think this. If you guys donāt come up to her or sheās even told that sheās beautiful she might think that she may be ugly. And not attractive if she can attract anybody
I'm just born to be hated by all women in the world!!
I don't think many men ask out women either.
Interesting point. This is probably true.
Because I don't feel like asking them out.
I have some openings. Do I get flowers and candy?
Because I donāt want to.
They dont have the balls to do it
Hey Asker have you ever thought that how girls say they would feel about asking someone out is how guys actually feel when they ask someone out? Oh what's that? You don't give a fuck? Ok great, bye
Ummm š¤ ok
I think itās different for men and women
No point when I'm gonna get rejected anyway lmao.
For real
Maybe you are asking out the wrong kind of dude? If you look even a little bit cute and ask me nicely I would 100% give you a chance.
*asked me nicely
Not telling you to ask me out, just saying that guys are pretty open to dating women even if they are strangers.
So you feel what the f Ć man is feeling. Look at that. Isn't it ironic?
@Juxtapose No, I mean I don't even ask guys out at all because I know they're gonna say "no" because I am way out of their league and not their type anyway lmao.
I wouldn't care about "leagues", fuck 'em and the fools who wanna hold me back. I just want a fun woman who wants me too and fuck anything that would stop me.
I feel bad for men without any self confidence.
Because women are not able to handle rejection.
Iām single but I get rejected all the time.
I do don't know about you
Because you ladies canāt handle rejection
Just keep trying donāt give up
Fear of incompatibility for both genders.
because life and society is cruel, unfair
some men are shy...
I always have.
Ask me out
Ladies should also take initiateves sometimes
I love you, Will you marry me?
nope
@devoygf there you go!
Lol š marriage Thatās big