What would you do if you saw your SO glancing at someone of the opposite sex for too long and not listening to what you’re saying?

[xJayleenx]

It happend to me I just decided to act stupid and when he looked away I was like “OMG LOOK SHE’S SHIRTLESS!” “OMG HER UNDERWEAR’S OUT!” he stopped looking though lmao and did not fall for it😂. Not going to lie during work while I was doing my wires later today, I was a little pissed off and kind of felt like asking “why were you staring at the girl for so long” but I feel like I’ve been annoying enough so I probably won’t 😂. Man the girl was pretty but she was skinny with not much body definition so I’m not sure what he was seeing when she was turned around I kinda wish I was a noodle though lmao

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+1 y

Okay so apparently he was looking at me lmao man I don't know

[TrueConfection]

My husband and I look together, but it's more like notice stare.

Anyhow, he recently went all stupid and staring at a woman. It was so long. I nudged him and his attention went right back over to her. I was so embarrassed and uncomfortable. I've never seen him act so stupid in front of a person, and she wasn't even all that fabulous. She was older than me, over weight, over baked fake tan, tight dress, and her makeup was piled on heavily. She was with a guy too, but she was starting back.

So what did I do? Well, nothing. I didn't want to start a war and I'm still not sure how to react to this curveball. It's been 4? weeks and I'm still trying not to stew over the embarrassment of the prolonged staring.

Thanks for posting this question. I'm looking forward to the opinions.

[TrueConfection]

Sorry, ours more like notice *than stare.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn that's disrespectful of him. Im hoping maybe he just remembered her from childhood or something. Like if im gonna look at a guy, i’d at least not look in front of whoever im dating to try to be respectful

[xJayleenx]

Maybe it’s because he was curious about her being Dominican because I’m dominican too and she looks different

[t-8900]

This legit does happen to me sometimes. I'm not even thinking when I do it. Like another mentioned we are programmed to want sex with multiple women. HOWEVER we overcome that, use our civility, our better judgements, and out hearts. It happens even my girlfriend understands it. I avoid it when I can but sometimes I'm day dreaming and half listening and then my mind drifts off and so my eyes wander. It's not that I don't love my girlfriend or care but sometimes I just clock out, happens to the best of us. I also stare long at girls who I think are extremely ugly or out of shape weiring something revealing. To me I'm like "dear God I didn't know that level of hideous existed. Wait let me be sure. Omg is that really her face? No! Omg it is! 😱"

[Andres77]

Um... that's gotta be earned.

[xJayleenx]

What do you mean?

[Andres77]

Checking someone else out in front of your SO. To just do it oblivious to how your SO feels is immature. If it's been discussed and he doesn't want to disrespect you then you both need to talk that out beforehand.
It seems like he didn't even care about your reaction.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

When I saw this girl up at Walmart, she had short shorts on with these high shoes on but ask yourself why guys look at them well can't blame them they look like little sluts also my cousin, said she saw these girls with long t-shirts with just either booty shorts or underwear under the long t-shirts covering all their booty and puss up now no wonder men stare but I can't ever date a girl who dresses that way no offense
but I like girls who dress in sundresses, and leggings but nothing slutty looking?

[bowenw]

It happens. She's human. I wouldn't do anything unless it happened all the time.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't know but I'm sure you gut that a lot you just don't notice it and I love your profile pic your getting better with time

[dolemite89]

u do understand guys are programmed to have sex with lots of women right? just be happy it was merely a glance at another girl lol

[Sevenpointfive]

i'd probably pull his pants down too.

[WhitneySnow]

It would bother me

[Anonymous]

All men do it once in a while just ignore it