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NO excuse me but you are so wrong because the Arabic guy can marry girl who is not in the same religion and that is OK in Islam and that happens all the time lots of arab guys I know in person marry non arabic girls
and I am sorry but this is the fact
ohhh OK that's a relief
She's not asking about if a Muslim man can marry a non_Muslim girl or not. She's asking about Arab guys' mentality.
knowmeyourself is right
I know but what I mean is that why should any Arabic guy has a problem with a realtionship with anon Arabic girls if their religion is OK with that so I mean lots of Arabic guys are Ready to have a realitionship with non Arabic girls in mentality way
you know what I mean?
idk I don't want to get my hopes up. I think I should just stay away from them on a romantic level to avoid getting hurt just in case
especially my sitaution, I am a late bloomer, I'm a virgin who's never had any sexual experience and it would hurt so deeply to open my heart to someone who would view me as a sex object and not take me seriously at the end of the day. that would really hurt. do you see where I'm coming from asking this question?
As you wish but they are not as you think
You will never admit the double standardism, dear :)
I know for a fact that some of them are. I have seen it with my own two eyes. I understand it, especially if they are arranged to be married but that doesn't make it any less unfair and hurtful for the girls they use and string along that aren't Arab Muslims
Last time I checked in the Qur'an, it's fine as long as woman is a Muslim, Christian or Jew, or if she converts...
If the guy is serious about his religion, he might try to make you to convert.. Then again, if he was really serious about his religion, I'd doubt he'd marry outside of his religion in the first place
Oh and not all Arabs or Middle Eastern people are Muslims by the way..
She's asking about the mentality & culture..not should & shouldn't in the religion :/
A Muslim man can marry a girl of any religion but a Muslim woman can only marry a Muslim man.
MrNameless, yeah I know not all Middle Easterns and Arabs are Muslims. This question is directored towards ones who are
dont worry pharaoh, I explained everything in my answer :)
Yes, but the condition is that she be of "the People of the Book" and be a virgin, and as virgins are extremely difficult to find in Western girls, she at the very least must not take boyfriends. So the fact is, Yes, you can marry a non-Muslim woman provided she is a Christian or Jewish virgin (and if not virgin as in Western girls or a divorced or widowed women, she must not take boyfriends). That is the fact.
i myself fell into an arab man. As you said, they were treating me like a queen. But we end up nowhere.and I have to always forgive him when he messes around with other girls.so painful.I can't do anyting except forgiving him. I am trapped.
lol, don't be so dramatic. You can leave. You are not physically trapped.
it's not that easy to leave when everybody in my relative has prepared things for our wedding. And everybody is notified.I am a moslem too.
oh my gosh! I'm so sorry! That was insensitive for me to say! Why can't you just divorce him? It's your life that you have to live with; don't let him taint it with his bullsh*t!
Will do that. Just still thinking where to start. The situation is too complicated for me. Wish me luck. My advice to others, be careful with sweet and convincing words. It looked true. Believe me, it's not. They are easily saying 'I swear to Allah' which we (in our country) never say it unless it's true.
what country are you two from?
JUST BE POSITIF BB
Hi I am a Syrian American guy and I am going to tell you the secret for all this.
Rule 1.) "Go blond or go home"
This is the rule Syrian mothers tell their sons, I am pretty sure every Syrian heard this one!
I am going to tell you the way i rate an American girl. Is she a slut, does they way she dresses make her look like a slut, does she have a tattoo, how many guys did she sleep with, is she very bold with what she thinks and wants, and does she think I would be ok with all this?
As you see I all this information is taken into account if I wanted a long term relationship with a American girl, plus these are the questions you should ask your self and then you will see what an Arab guy thinks of you.
Hey Mr. Syrian guy. Is it possible a Syrian guy marries a non-Syrian gal? Like for example, Syrian-Asian. Coz my friend's status is like that. Your answer will be truly much appreciated.
Yes Dauntless1290 it is possible, see not all of us are into blonds. It also depends on where the guy was raised like for example here in the states you get see and meet people from all corners of the Earth so your more open to far cultures.
Hi, i have been with a syrian guy for 2 years now, we have been intimating, but since he met me he knew im a decent woman and i was looking for something serious, he still tells me he is not ready for a relationship, he had a girl from his country he was going to marry, and also ended up the relationship cuz he was pressuring him to marry, as for me, after he broke up w her (which he met after me) he used to treat me bad before, but now he started making things more clear to me, he doesn't lie to me, he tells me everything he is doing, he is lovely, he talks to me about his family, he doesn't deny me he is playing aroung w other girls, but he always said im the one he most like from all, he introduce me to his brother and some of his co workers. and he asked me that if i could understand him, we probably could be together.. should i believe him, or should i step out? will he end up marrying a girl from his country in the end?
Hi Mr. Syrian is it possible that most Arabic families raise their kids to grow up and lie to other cultures, because the ones I've talked to was nothing but lies, and would the Muslim family prefer the non-Muslim or non Arabic to girl to change and change to Islam I'm not sure how that works
That's fine as long as you adhere to the same standards. Just saying.
Hate to say it but yeah
Arab guys just go around with other girls but at the end they know they are going to break up with whatever girl and just get with a a girl
When this happens I feel REALLY bad for the girl because she doesn't know about all the things the guy did before they got together and she thinks he is a nice guy but he really isn't =/
I really appreciate your honesty :) You don't have to answer under anonymous. I'm not one of those over sensitive question askers who is going to be a tyrant and block or troll on the profile of someone who doesn't give them sugar coated, flowery answers :P Can you share more of your knowledge about this topic?
I am not an Arab Muslim but I am Islamic and I totally agree with KnowMeYourself
I have a lot of Arab friends (male and female)
The female's always get their heart broken and have impossible tasks when they get married. Pretty much do everything while the guy just goes out.
Having the Arab guy mentality, they think they are kings and the world is at their feet and think they can pretty much do whatever they want. I wouldn't go out with a Arab guy if I were you.
They aren't serious about dating and the most ironic thing that I find is that when they do want to get married. They want a female who is 100% pure and a good girl. As in hasn't done any drugs, hasn't been with any guys, doesn't drink. NOTHING!
How is this at all fair?!
It's really upsetting how guys treat girls these days. I mean if guys are going to go out then go out but when finding a partner, you shouldn't expect something from her which you don't expect from yourself
Obviously not all guys are like this but the majority are.
I've seen many guys turn bad.
I mean think about it.
These guys know they will get married to some girl who is very chaste, so why not mess around now? They are all stuck in the mindset of 'you only live once'
They all like American girls because they think they are easy and they sleep with girls so then they would know what they are doing in bed. psfffffffffft
Wow...what ugly beings. I hope they're not all like that...idk I guess I'll just stay away unless one of them really catches my eye and even then I'll call him out on my 'research' lol Anything else you'd like to share...? Be totally open and honest! I love it! :D
This doesn't go for just Arab guys but all guys.
When looking for a good guy: look for how he treats his sister/mother.
Would you like to be treated how he treats his sister/mother?
You aren't his sister or his mother but you will be living with him if you get serious and they both know how he is when he's at home so get used to him at home. (Does this last sentence make sense? lol )
I've noticed this behavior with most Arab -rich- guys by the way. I guess all that money gets to you.
wow really? I dated a rich Arab guy and he seemed so sweet and respectful. however, I could tell eh tried to impress me with his riches and sense disappointment when it didn't work :P like when he would talk about his latest work done to his already amazing car
Yeah, like KnowMeYourself says, they start out charming, sweet, and respectful but then change cause they just want to get laid.
but it's also important to remember that not all rich Arab guys are like this
btw I made myself non-anonymous so if you need any help in the future. I'm here
:) thanks, yeah the guy I dated stoped seeing me because I wouldn't put out.
I'm glad you two are no longer seeing each other.
Now you can find some good guys to date =)
You deserve better
I'm an Arabian guy and I live in Florida.
I've heard a lot of stories from my arab friends and I know how they think. Girls, when you give an arabic or any guy what he wants don't expect from him any honest promises (that's mean your job is done). Here's some adviced for you: 1 when you like a guy don't think he really knows what want ( I mean marriage). 2 No matter how the guy being sweet with or treat you like a queen don't give him your body (don't fell in that trap) 3 always confront him with what you want ( marriage or whatever) and discuss all the details with him him. all that to build your future on facts not on dreams. 4 if you feel the guy is not serious or give you many excuses, leave him immediately. 5 make yourself in a strong position, don't let him play with your feelings, tell him about your requirements and then make you decision with him.
(don't judge Islam of what you experienced with Arab Muslims guys, it's all depend on how they practice Islam).
I get confusing messages from the Arab guy I'm dating. I'm white christian, he is Iraqi Muslim. On one hand he really seems to care but then acts like he could care less. I know the way Arabs interact at times is like a tough front kind of thing. But I would like to talk to someone that could clear things up. Shukran :)
i have a virgin decent girl friend that's been attached with an egyptian guy i told her not to get involve with an arab men cos i know their true colors but my friend didn't listen to me she just met the guy online, she fell in love and agreed to take a chance got a long distance relationship no matter how complicated it was at first they're okay he made a lot of promises. Planned of going to our country to be with my friend take her to egypt, marry and get a best life there but days/months passed this guy demands some other things that some decent women can't give. Exposing some private parts of her body etc. My friend is a conservative type so it's hard for her to give what he wants on cam. They're always arguing about that issues my friend tried some things in her way with limitations just to keep the guy satisfied. And they both agreed but my friend felt that this guy changed a lot.
And she found out that some other woman flirting with him online and he let others see it. My friend confronted him but the guy said that it was nothing but you will see he continuing they're conversation of that other woman and it was very flirtatious. He always denied it but i know there's something in there. He was fooling around. Until one day my friend told me that she was hurt and maybe should give up even she really love that guy. I comforted her while i'm praying thanking god that my friend realized that she doesn't deserve that foolished guy. And to that flirty whore woman goodluck to you and wish you will be together sooner to discover your own karma with that guy.
I won't forget of the way that many egyptian men i've encountered so typical arab men cos i've worked and lived in egypt before and many of them were sweet and you were blinded by their magical words but then there's a lot of foreign women there (americans/asians) suffers from marrying egyptian men. Of course they're all muslims so they can married more than once. Many of them got married to a foreign women and then after a while married again to another women and these women live together with that evil man in one house and became his slaves. How pity those women that fell to a trap of every egyptian men. I wish god guide their way and free from those kind of men in this world.
Happen to me. 5yrs I dated him. We were friends from age 13. started dating age 22. he put me through so much I love them so much. He fooled me over and over. then he up and left to go to India to find a wife I never told me anything. he degraded me with his words, cheated on me hit me. without a sleep on the phone every day for four and a half years. then he just insulted me so badly and left. telling me to kill myself. to walk into a gun range in just put a bullet in my head. I wake up in the middle of the night with my core aching in pain for him. I feel as though he's broken my soul and my spirit. he told me such horrible things and then said thank you for the practice sexual practice. then told me how much he cheated on me and let me taste of the girls off of him without telling me. I was humiliated disgusted I really just wanted to die. all that I thought was real was not. I really was just a practice girlfriend for him that he used and disposed.
LOL !! India is not arab country and the majority are hinduismus. we can only married with ( muslim , christians and jewish women).i feel sorry for you but you maybe should lerne more about geography,,, just saying !!1
Muslim man is allowed to marry a women of heaven-sent religions (Muslim or Jewish or Christian woman) as long as she has faith in the one and only one God. He is not allowed to marry woman/girl of non-heaven sent religions. However, if man has concern that the children will be influenced to be other than Muslim if he marries Jewish or Christian woman, then he should not do it. The children have to be Muslims by religion and should be raised according to Islam religion. The answer below is not much different.
So! Cannot marry until the non-Muslim accepts Islam and convert to Islam if the non-Muslim is not Jewish or Christian (called People of the Book). According to Quran, Woman from, 'People of Book' is allowed for marriage with a Muslim man without converting to Islam religion.
Yea well sadly it's very hard to believe God would segregate people like that. As in saying some are worthy of heaven and some are not,,. and if your not, she's not worthy of your love
Hhhhh not true at all, kitabi or people of the book doesn't exist anymore and they must convert to islam
It's understandable if their family (the wealthy ones) have total control of their destiny (arranged marriage deals) and having a non muslim marry into the family won't gel so well with their family since they don't know arabic to communicate with them.
I'm a white Canadian and I'm with an arab guy. Our difference in our race, or religious views do not affect us one bit. We have a bunch of other things in common and we love each other. He's the most respectful man I've ever been with. He's considerate, sweet and generous. Also, I'll agree with you, they're sooo hot. I love the color of his skin, the way he smells. He's perfect. So yeah, it's totally possible. Although, I will say, his whole family isn't 100% supportive. They don't make it a big deal, but I know how they feel about me being different. With time they'll get over it. We're in love :D.
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not really. usually they date them to see if they would be the right women for them and how they would fit with their culture.. but cause the culture is so different, they see that there is no point to it and just marry a nice muslim women who understand their culture and respect it.
however, there are many cases where they find someone they like who is even better educated smart respectful and most of all beautiful inside out then i would personally go for it
It depends on the country he is from and more on the individual as always. A lot of middle eastern countries are so dramatically different from one another that one can have more in common with a western country.
Yuck... Just yuck. They can be sexist, homophobic and misogynistic. Not to mention violent, temperamental, controlling, with old-world views.
There are so many other men in the world- sweeter, more patient, respectful, understanding, open-minded, progressive... Not to mention better looking (not hairy , guys who don't douse themselves with cologne).
Let the Muslim girls have their male counterparts, while we enjoy the better men out there :)
Well Arab guys are allowed to date a non Muslim/arab, that is accepted. I think its only under the condition that the girl still convert to islam though but they deffinitly can date out. Muslim girls are restricted to only marrying Muslim guys
Im an Arab guy and I dunno it's just something towards western girls that just pulls me since I was a child the first time I saw a western girl I just can't resist it. Anyways I donnu if it's just a dream or one day I will get to marry a western lady. Although they warn me about how some (and I'm stressing on the point some not all) are not loyal.
Your explanation has personally happened to me. My advice is to keep Arab guys as friends, but never let them into your bed.
oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that! Please share your experience?
Not true for the majority of Arab Muslim men.
This question is the equivalent to "are all guys players"?
Don't let a few douchebags ruin it for everyone!
Muslim men are not allowed to have girlfriends.
But they can marry religious Christian and Jewish women.
Sorry, but I have a Muslim boyfriend..
Don't date arab guys that are outside your religion! It will never work out! I know from experience! I dated a Muslim Arabic guy. And it ended because it wasn't going anywhere! He could never commit! I am know dating a Arabic man who is catholic like me and he makes me so much happier! Try dating a catholic or Christian ! You will be so much happier! Muslim Arabs are not bad , but a relationship will only lead to a break up or you converting to Islam !
I dont think that all of them like that. I met my Arab husband on holiday and he never treated me as a experiment. I even met his all family , he never forced me to convert to Islam. I met his parents before and also i never felt that they would treat me different if i am Muslim.
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Arab guys are more respectful than others hahaha... that's a good one... there known to be violent aggressive and rude... I mean just look at how they live in their countries
But that aside, I know plenty of amazing Arab people