L people don’t like me because I’m an overachiever in some departments?

[Anonymous]

I have realized that I typically don’t get along with other girls because they can’t compete most of the time, I can never find girls that do similar things as me. For instance , my friends best recipe can be Mac and cheese, or she can’t cook at all , and my best is pot roast, or gumbo or more complicated meals, my friend might never get ready, but I’m stylish and do my makeup and hair most of the time.
My friends might be somewhat boring , but then I’m the exciting one that comes with the plans.
I’m not saying this to make it seem like I’m all that bc I know that I’m not but I think that’s the reason I’ve had trouble keeping female friends and it always seems like they try to compete with me… is there anything that I can do to help this situation?

[Idonthaveonebro]

Bro I know EXACTLY how u feel - except I don’t wear makeup.
sadly most of the famales in this world r pretty competitive and are probs just jellous of u - I’ve had this problem so many times it’s ridiculous - talk about depression and anxiety being the results! I know it’s hard when you want someone - anyone to just to relate to and be there for u to understand and not want to be competitive but just support you and take everything a little less serious.
Im still not sure what to do in this situation - I moved schools and I now have better friends that I somewhat relate to at all but at least aren’t competitive. Maybe try to make some new friends (or books to escape reality)

[Guy13]

Yep…they don’t like a standout “better” girl in group.

[Asker]

Ot sucks bc I’m just being me ,

[Asker]

It*…

[Guy13]

Be gracious in all things…playing dumbbell but winning has its Perks.