Why does my friend make comments about my body when we’re the same body-type?

[Anonymous]

She calls me “short” and makes fun of my height when we are literally the same height. She calls me “flat-chested” when she also has small boobs. Then when I say she’s the same things she gets all defensive and says “no I’m not!” Is she projecting or something?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Welcome to dealing with a woman's bullshit creator. We dudes (at least the red or black pilled dudes) would call all of that stuff "shit tests" and it happens way too much and gets annoying. My guess is that you're getting annoyed by it. Chicka, I'm going to be straight up with you and just say it, it's not going to stop or be solved. From her you'll always have some bullshit wrong with you and there will always be something to complain about. All men in her life will get the same shit tests... dude could have a huge dick and she'll say it's small even though she brags to the girls about it.

[Chris_7565]

She sounds jealous and very immature. She's trying to take you down a notch, but she doesn't understand hypocrisy.

[Asker]

Yeah thanks, what I don’t get is her being so hypocritical? I guess maybe she’s insecure

[Chris_7565]

Yeah probably.
She sounds kind of toxic, like she's trying to control the way you feel about yourself.
I'm 5'7 and I had this girlfriend at one time who would tell me that she's taller than me. She was 5'1, lol.
I would look down at her and say "You're not taller than me, let's go look in the mirror or at pictures of us where I'm half a foot taller than you." She would say " No, I'm taller. "
She was just trying to get to me and keep me from being happy. I think your friend is doing the same and she probably isn't such a good person to be around.

[ivydavis]

She’s 100% projecting girl. She feels insecure about those things she sees in herself so making fun of the fact that you also have them does something for her. That is no friend to be around. I’m sure you’re beautiful! Don’t let insecure people pull you down to their level. Leave ‘em where they are at

[one1wild00]

I'd start telling her look who's talking "short stuff' or whatever she is dissing you about.

[Nahid1707]

Do you think she was rude?

[Kim7mik]

What is your height and weight?

[Asker]

I’m 5’5 and I’m skinny

[Kim7mik]

Is it good for you

[Kim7mik]

Good or bad?